How soon do you know?

I was reading some of the older messages on this board.

Someone (Aqua) had posted that they knew pretty early on how they felt about someone and could determine pretty quickly whether someone could be "the one". However, it would be a long time, if ever, before they would say anything. Several other Aquas agreed. The consensus seemed to be that you guys would prefer letting the other person say something first.

So, the ones of you on this board now, what are your thoughts on this?

I'm not trying to rush anything with the Aqua I'm with, but I'm curious. His actions speak LOUDLY! And, no I'm not ready for those words - its way too early. As a Cap, I'm reluctant to even acknowledge the feelings. But I do think this could go somewhere. Time will tell.

Not an Aqua but I can tell you from my experience of dating and marrying one now is that they do know very early on what they want and need from you. The first Aqua I dated, he aked me to be his girlfriend on the first date! It took me by suprise because I met this guy twice ( on the bus plus our first date). I asked him to wait for a year because I didn't get over my ex Libra and suprisingly, he did (most guys would have given up hearing you weren't over your ex) but I still couldn't accept his proposal in the end. The other two Aquas after that are the same, very persistent and consistent with their intentions, no head games, just amazing time with them and so much laughters. They also helped me alot with my study. Those genii! My Aqua husband was the same, he confessed his feeling after 2 months and proposed to me after a year and half. So yeah, they know it and they make sure you know their intentions too. I was terribly clueless for the entire dating time though and always being teased as "what a cute baby you are!" and all the cheeks squeezes by them but something still got through my brain 😄

My partner knew on our first date. We both knew on our first date. After our second date, he asked me to move in. I said, "why don't we wait and see how our third date goes." Ha ha ha. I think it was quite awhile before he said I love you.

it takes time. if they jump in, they're in love right away. but in the long run it is to their detriment. uranus is unpredictable but they're still ruled by ancient saturn.
aquarius man is the very conservative man,(conservative and traditional from saturn) and needs a woman who will help him in life.
i was reading in an article that aquarius man needs a mother-type woman too, who is also independent.

Posted by little_sparrow
My partner knew on our first date. We both knew on our first date. After our second date, he asked me to move in. I said, "why don't we wait and see how our third date goes." Ha ha ha. I think it was quite awhile before he said I love you.

it's interesting, but i read on a couple of websites that libra women can easily control the aquarius man. i can see what they mean: strategist cardinal libra, they work on strategy and under the tables, and aquarius man won't even know what hit him. i wonder if it's due to the fact that libra has energies from both virgo and scorpio being in the centre of two signs.

Posted by exam
Not an Aqua but I can tell you from my experience of dating and marrying one now is that they do know very early on what they want and need from you. The first Aqua I dated, he aked me to be his girlfriend on the first date! It took me by suprise because I met this guy twice ( on the bus plus our first date). I asked him to wait for a year because I didn't get over my ex Libra and suprisingly, he did (most guys would have given up hearing you weren't over your ex) but I still couldn't accept his proposal in the end. The other two Aquas after that are the same, very persistent and consistent with their intentions, no head games, just amazing time with them and so much laughters. They also helped me alot with my study. Those genii! My Aqua husband was the same, he confessed his feeling after 2 months and proposed to me after a year and half. So yeah, they know it and they make sure you know their intentions too. I was terribly clueless for the entire dating time though and always being teased as "what a cute baby you are!" and all the cheeks squeezes by them but something still got through my brain 😄

hmmm yup! i'd agree that yeah when they know they are ready to marry, they know exactly what they want in life.
i've had some experience with aquarius men, from observing and understanding. if you found a good aqua man, happy for you! they are super loyal. (the immature unevolved ones aren't - like anywhere else)

@Lisabethur8 I think you give Libra way too much credit at being a "strategist" They might have the ability to control a weaker sign who is completely enthralled with them but personally; I see Libra strategy coming a mile away and always manage to cut them off at the knees just as they always end up cutting off their nose to spite their face. They really arent that brilliant. A person whose purpose in life is to have a relationship and "merge" most often suffers from tunnel vision.

Posted by PiscesFebFish
@Lisabethur8 I think you give Libra way too much credit at being a "strategist" They might have the ability to control a weaker sign who is completely enthralled with them but personally; I see Libra strategy coming a mile away and always manage to cut them off at the knees just as they always end up cutting off their nose to spite their face. They really arent that brilliant. A person whose purpose in life is to have a relationship and "merge" most often suffers from tunnel vision.

i'm not fond of superficiality but some single aquas are looking for love, relationship, and when they fall in love they're very weak. i think this is also typical of all signs, because they set themselves up to be 'taken in'. stronger or weaker, infatuation is strong so there's no more common sense. it's thrown out the door.

you're very wise to see a player coming in miles away. that's smart of you. wish many more people had that wisdom.

and another avenue, is that some aquas need to grow, and learn. sometimes that's through some very bad relationships.
astrologers seem to be very polite when they describe libras, but the raw honesty that they are looking to merge is kind of off putting: it sounds desperate. as if they have no autonomy/independence of their own. i'm sure there are of every sign that is searching desperately to merge. not just to the 7th sign. the only problem i have with their description is that they so desperately need to be loved and liked by everyone. it's a nice feeling to have everyone love you but one doesn't know if it's fake.

an aqua who is in love will overlook all those negatives/flaws and won't mind as long as he is very taken good care of/loved in return, as long as the person isn't taking advantage of him. we all know, no one is perfect but it does cross the boundaries if they are taken for granted.

also being taken advantage of: betrayal, being unloyal....so important.

But in a sense Libra's are desperate dont you think? I certainly do. The phrase "You dont see it, until you see it" was probably coined for a Libra. They could spend, months, perhaps years with the "wrong" person-know they are with the wrong person but yet not let go until their precious scales begin to crumble because there is nothing left to balance. Most people on dating sites are Libra and Cancer. I'm still learing about Aqua so I would be surprised if the men in particular are capable of falling in love to the point of being "taken in" by a schemer. The ones I know have their wits about them throughout the dating process.

Posted by PiscesFebFish
But in a sense Libra's are desperate dont you think? I certainly do. The phrase "You dont see it, until you see it" was probably coined for a Libra. They could spend, months, perhaps years with the "wrong" person-know they are with the wrong person but yet not let go until their precious scales begin to crumble because there is nothing left to balance. Most people on dating sites are Libra and Cancer. I'm still learing about Aqua so I would be surprised if the men in particular are capable of falling in love to the point of being "taken in" by a schemer. The ones I know have their wits about them throughout the dating process.

Schemers come in all signs. loneliness can be a disease. it's why dating sites are popular and people want to find that someone to fill their emptiness. and when they are into astrology and if they actually believe that compatibility according to astrologers(some writer who wants to help out in all honesty)are true, without believing in their own confidence, their own uniqueness, their own mind, they'll probably miss out alot.

oh, those born in september/october are the most common. so you'll find plenty of them everywhere. also, the summer babies. (cancer and leos included) i find alot of virgos and leos in messageboards everywhere. one of my sisters just had a libra baby too. and my husband's sister and cousins had twin libras. so many of them. it's the winter time in the northern hemisphere. people just love to make love when it's cold, so they dive under the sheets to cuddle.

yeah you're right: it's idealism that keeps them stuck to the wrong person.(tunnel vision) they have this idealistic view of who they should be with. (note: this could be any sign with alot of ideals) and the world isn't like that at all. well, it is if a person plants themselves in hollywood. Environment really influences people. and you have to admit, venus their ruler loves beauty, and that order of idealistic beauty if interrupted can be depressing. you can't change them even if you try,
that's just who they are. only suffering can change them. truly. deep suffering. and even then, 8 x out of 10 they dont change. just my observation.

Aqua men usually have their wits about them. they're good at hiding alot. if they have a very strong moon sign, it's going to fight with their sun. they'll be all smiles and friendly but they're taking alot i