@chemengin
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I'm not in law or law enforcement but could you not call the storage facility and tell them any DVD's have the potential to be of a sensitive nature? Or call a lawyer and ask them what is to be done?
Poop, you basically did that. Any way to go over her head? Branch manager, owner.
i did call the storage facility VB she was a total bitch. I didnt want to talk to a lawyer because if nothing can be done. ____________________________ *fill in blank * and if it gets out in the news, the legal professional would have to say he got a call from a woman asking about that particular subject.
right, i left messages for the branch owner, but found out its the storage manager's damn husband. so im thinking whomever owns the company because this is a franchise. I will do that monday. otherwise, i would be screwed.
grr...i meant i will contact whomever owns the company's name because this is a franchise. I will contact them monday.
Damn, what a dink. That kind of thing should be consensual, not kept like a lock of hair or a finger. Creepy.
thank you!!! thank you!!!! thank you!!!!
I would have a friend or two go to the auction since you have unfortunately gotten WELL acquainted with the lady manager of the storage place. Dog you may not be to go and fetch but that TAPE is what you NEED to get.
Posted by TAURUSbelle
I would have a friend or two go to the auction since you have unfortunately gotten WELL acquainted with the lady manager of the storage place. Dog you may not be to go and fetch but that TAPE is what you NEED to get.
yes that is an idea too. damn didnt want to put money on it,but its worth it. no i wont be able to go, she will recognize my voice. she didnt see my face tho, thats why i called. we will see how it all pans out tomorrow.
Posted by venusianbull
Damn, what a dink. That kind of thing should be consensual, not kept like a lock of hair or a finger. Creepy.
yes VB very creepy. the jerk.
Posted by DazedScorp
@Chem... I used to work for UHaul and Storage a while back.If the unit is paid up on, unless you are the owner on the lease, or have a key... You will not be granted access to the storage unit.
If the unit is delinquent, a lock will be placed on the unit until the owner pays in full.
If it is delinquent for a certain amount of time (companies discretion), the unit will become the property of the company that owns the facility.
The company will sell the unit to an Auction company.
The unit will be auctioned off.
Basically, the only way you're going to get into the storage room... is by getting the rights to it through the Auction. Or by giving your Ex the money to pay the late charges on the storage unit.
Go to the Company and request to see the lease agreement that they would have you sign if you rented a unit. All the details of the process should be in there. They may vary depending on the state you live in.
The only way the law will get involved, is once the unit has been opened (which won't be until the company takes ownership of the unit), and the storage company sees anything in the unit that is unlawful i.e. drugs, unregistered weapons, live animals or people, dead animals or people. And in this case, you still wouldn't be allowed in the unit, however you woud have the pleasure of seeing your Ex arrested and go to jail. 🙂
The company isn't allowed to take anything out of the unit (although we did), and nothing should be touched until after the auction is over.
thank you dazed! it is a uhaul storage unit. auction it is then. damn!
Posted by ellessque
how great quality can this video be if you weren't even aware you were being recorded.could anyone even be able to tell it was you?
maybe all this effort isn't even worth worrying about.
I mean, if it's some grainy phone video and nobody can make out your face, who cares?
if that were the case, i wouldnt make such a big deal about it elle. i have used the camera he records with, and its great quality. so yes i am making a big deal about it. thats the whole point of him taping us so he can watch for later. who wants to watch a crappy porn video or any crappy video for that matter.
Posted by ellessque
lol @ this thread(sorry)
yea by all means lol it up at my expense.
Posted by DazedScorp
Check with the UHual company where the unit is located.They should have a schedule of when the auction dates are. They were typically once a month? And not very many people showed up to it.
But that could vary depending on the city you're in.
the auction is definitely tuesday and i doubt if i can even get any money back from my ex seeing that he has been laid off. so i am basically SOL! i called a 24 hour law service and they told me what you said that i dont have any rights to the storage unit what so ever. so although the uhaul owner is the manager's husband maybe he has a more understanding nature. idk. i hope he calls back other wise, i will have to by the unit possessions and get my tape. also sell everything in that bitch on ebay.
lmao!! YES!! $ ELL $ ELL $ ELL...I guess the only option is to have him sign a release form to all the items in the unit.
i hid my comment, dont want to incriminate myself.
@dazed, wtf man, this is getting worse and worse. i only told the manager on the phone not in person. and i didnt give her any details about it being delinquent. i just asked her if she could let me in my exes storage unit to get the tape. i didnt say his name or my name and i blocked my number. when i called and asked about the auction dates, i had my bff call. figured she would recognize my voice.
@elle,
you havent done criminal activity before?? you NEVER let them see your face EVER. so if did have to get in there, by illegal means, i dont want to be identified. and the owner, dont know where he lives or anything about him but that its her husband. found that out from a guy that works there. (my bff asked) i googled them to see if they have an address listed and they have 5. Cant really do business on a Sunday. Monday all hell will break loose. i just wanted some legal advice or ex workers advice on the deal because i never had a storage unit.
Posted by DazedScorp
She's an Aqua. Of course it contained bondage.
hey! he showed you the tape! that dirty bastard!
i kid LOL...i dont know what it contains. i will soon.
Posted by ellessque
LOL @ keep it.I'd watch it first and then give it back. (libra bits) 😄
lord...smh... you guys. 🙂
Posted by ellessque
chic, you have to be humble in this. let them see you cry.you have to tug at heart strings in this situation, otherwise, you'll need my lighter.
think about it this way......five years from now, YOU aren't going to remember these peoples faces and they aren't going to remember yours (they'll retell the story but it will have no "face")
stop trying to do this CSI style and play on human emotions. (in other words, pretend to be a water sign)
damn you mean tap into my moon sign..i hate letting that bitch out.
dazed do you know anything about the auction prices he said he had the smallest unit they had.
LOL @ "DOWDY"..a DEEP V-neck, with the girls pushed up..usually does it for me.
But Dowdy would have to work since you ARE going after a sex-tape..lol The husband owner guy will probably want it for himself..lol Then you'd really be FUKKED.
The crying tactic does work for the sensitive at heart though. Wouldn't hurt to try for the Oscar nomination.
Aww, jeeze 😢
*places a curse on chemengin's idiot ex aqua*
Go Cowpuncher!! Now THAT's a plan!
Posted by DazedScorp
@Chem...You you mind telling me what which UHaul location this is at?
*blank stare*
North Chicago, IL
Posted by cowpuncher
This is EXACTLY why all of you other signs require Capricorn Management in order to realize your full potential :p
ABSOLUTELY. I LOVE me some Caps. They can keep a cool head in the midst of chaos.
Posted by cowpuncher
This is EXACTLY why all of you other signs require Capricorn Management in order to realize your full potential :p
thanks cowpuncher 🙂 im feeling more confident about the situation.
lol @Dazed. Don't.
Posted by ellessque
actually, i think it's best you take a capricorn with you.
yup calling her right now.
Posted by ellessque
if it's the burbs, she's got this.
in the burbs. im in the city.
Posted by DazedScorp
Even better question..."What if Dazed gets ahold of it!?"
you suck!
downloading dazed's pic, sending it to cappy bff.
caption: if you see this man, off him sex to distract him, he knows everything.
Posted by DazedScorp
Even better question..."What if Dazed gets ahold of it!?"
you suck!
I'd cut you in on the profit. We'll be rich!
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really??that is defeating all my efforts here. LOL horrible scorp man
Posted by ellessque
I'm serious about the capricorn part.A few months back I was in a horribly hopeless situation.
After sharing this situation with my capricorn friend, he snatched me up by the collar and MADE ME get thru it, even though it sucked rocks and I hated every single second of it.
They just always know "what to do". Even if you don't want to do it, they know it has to be done in order for it to work out to your benefit.
They'll even give you a play by play. As long as you stick to the game plan, you can't lose.
i only know a cap women, no cap men. she usually keeps me calm and is quick minded when it comes to situations like this. and she has been to one of these auctions before. so i totally agree they just know "what to do".
Posted by chemengin
downloading dazed's pic, sending it to cappy bff.caption: if you see this man, off him
Good idea.
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LMAO
so much great info.
ok first, i just read about that law over the internet and that true. i would have to get a lawyer for that. i will consider doing it if i unforntunately do not get it back. but i feel good about getting it.
second, no i dont know the girls but my ex asked them if they wanted to go in on the unit with me to buy the unit. one is just crying a lot, the other is into amateur porn so she doesnt really care, one is a stripper and dont care, and the last one hasnt responded to his text or IM. I am waiting on the girl that is crying to let me know.
i am determined to win that unit, it doesnt matter how much, im getting it. im not putting faith in anyone in this situation only $ $ $ $ .
my fiance is on fire. he has been red all day. 😢 but with a full leg cast. nothing much he can do. well his brothers will, my brothers are already planning. but i had to cool them down.
my ex is not worth anyone going to jail.
Posted by chemengin
downloading dazed's pic, sending it to cappy bff.caption: if you see this man, off him
Good idea.
LMAO
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LMAO
see i said that at first but didnt correct it. so ..thanks purrrhissss...🙂
Posted by ellessque
Chicago?pffft, you are dealing with midwesterns. WE HAVE HEARTS.
Not in Chicago. Up there, you have a different mix... those of us downstate don't claim them. Wish they'd form their own damned state and leave us the hell alone.
That said: Chem - THIS Capricorn is an expert haggler, and is 6 hours away. Depending on available funds, I could be rented for the purpose of helping you get that tape back. If interested, shoot me an offer, gas + a nominal fee. 🙂
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thank you 🙂 its ok, i know a cap she is up to the challenge.
Posted by chemengin
downloading dazed's pic, sending it to cappy bff.caption: if you see this man, off him
Good idea.
LMAO
LMAO
see i said that at first but didnt correct it. so ..thanks purrrhissss...🙂
Hey now! I helped you out!!
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ergo why i didnt say that. thank you so much, if i do see you there your getting a big hug and im pick pocketing your cash...🙂
thanks a billion dazed.
Posted by ellessque
dazed....wanna car pool?
i think two scorps could outbid, outwit AND outlast a cap and an aqua 😉
ungrateful snoogledorfilagens!!!!!!!
oh come on now i was joking. >
🙂
Well, I don't think anyone looks a faces on sex tapes anyway...right? So even if the tape escapes out into the wild, chances are pretty good that you won't be recognized. 🙂
Posted by cowpuncher
Chem:Did you get it? 🙂
LOL..I signed on to ask the same thing..
The people want to know Chem!!
Pics or it didnt happen!
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Pics or it didnt happen!
*rolls eyes* i swear virgos.
Posted by ianthepisces
Should have just told them u were under the age of 18 and if they sell it they are selling child porn..
aaah where were you days sunday?? i know i know you have a life. but that was a good one. 🙂
@ Cowpuncher and Taurusbelle, yes i got it. i got there at 8:00 AM. Coffee, money, bff ready to go.🙂 It was only 4 people there!!! dazed was right, its not that many people that come. i paniked a little in the beginning because one of the 12'X5'X6' was auctioned off for $ 5,000. i was about to say fuck it an leave. when we finally got to the storage unit, it was NOT the smallest they had. that fucking liar, it was the 10' x 16' x 6', basically 1600 to 2000 sq.ft. of space.
i got it for $ 700. 😢 I have been going through this perverts shit since 9:45 AM. I found the tapes safeguarded those in the car. i rented a truck and brought his shit to my storage unit. the first thing i did after unloading it and taking the truck back was look at the tape. i wish i could say my face wasnt on it, but it was clear as day. (everyone should get those portable dvd players they really come in handy.) i am still disgusted that he did that.
so thats it.
this is it guys,
oh these pics arent for you shaka 😛
a lot of tapes, 12 of sex encounters, football, basketball, and hockey games. Sorry its green and dont feel like fixing it. im just trying to get his shit out of my house.
and this is the rest of his shit. that light tan long box on the floor is a turn table from his DJ days, i already have a seller for that. 🙂 $ 600 bucks.
geesh that pick is small.
this is the list....
2 turntables,
150 albums
speakers
2 rims
xbox
30 xbox video games (i think they are all xbox, he has the box labeled, i found halo🙂 )
super nintendo w/games
sega genesis w/games
nintendo 64 w/games
lots of pics of himself naked and with other women
clothes and shoes, im taking to the consignment shop or thrift store, whomever will take them
about 50 baseball hats
thats it so far. i have 2 more boxes to go. im taking a break
oh and he had a box of vienna sausages— WTF
game consoles...taking pics for ebay 🙂
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well apparently my idiot ex aqua taped us once while doing the deed in his living room. dirty bastard. i never agreed to being recorded because i didnt want anything like that out in the universe. but low and behold....bastard. it appears he had it at a storage container, somewhere in the suburbs. this is where he keeps stuff, so his present girl wont find it. i guess they are little trinkets of his relationships. so he IM'd me on yahoo to tell me and his other exes/fwbs etc. but they know about the videos.
anyway, he cant afford the payments anymore and the storage facility cut his lock off and put a lock box on it. i went to the storage facility to see what the deal is, basically i wanted to look and see what it looked like. to see if i could cut it off, or bag it with my sledge hammer. no dice.
so i called the manager to see if she would be willing to make a deal with me...woman to woman. no dice. 😢 she basically told me i shouldnt have participated in amateur porn, etc...im like bitch i told you i DID NOT agree to it! ugh!
so i want to know my legal options here, any cops, lawyers in the USA that can tell me what im dealing with. i dont want to talk to a lawyer in case some other action has to be made.
The aqua and that bitch of a manager told me the stuff goes to auction on Tuesday @ 9am. So its no telling who will get it.