How to approach a cancer guy if I'm an Aquarius

I am attracted to this Cancer guy and I'm an Aquarius girl. The thing is, I am shy. I tried to strike a few conversation with him, but all of them ended within 5 lines. So it's tough to try to know him. Is there something holding him back? Also, he thinks that there's something going on with his classmate and I, when there's really nothing going on.

Cancer guy is graduating in 2 months' time. 😢 Won't be able to see him ever again.

He's born on June 24 while I'm a Feb 4.

Please help me. I know Aquarius people are helpful and they'll try to help as much as they can (I've tried posted in on cancer's forum but the replies were what I'm looking for.)

xx

Mellisa234 please stop spamming threads on here, people are trying to have actual conversations...

Thank you @BalmyTigress 🙂

I guess for now I should just leave him alone and wait for him to talk to me. If not, I will talk to him again during his grad show 🙂

I say forget the shyness, walk right up to him, tell him you think he's cute and that you are single. Walk away. Wait. 🙂

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Posted by AmuseOneself
I say forget the shyness, walk right up to him, tell him you think he's cute and that you are single. Walk away. Wait. 🙂

That should work as well :-)

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Thanks. haha I find when it comes to matters of the heart (and sex) there is no room for shyness.

You said he graduates in two months time and you'll never see him again. Do you mean unless you make a move? Or do you mean he'll be moving far away?

"What's the worst thing that could happen? (Famous last words)"

...OR the opening paragraph of a good redneck story! lol!!!

*couldn't resist*

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We share the same birthday :-)

I'm shy when it comes to someone I'm actually interested in. I don't know about Cancer males, but I would think that they'd find it quite sweet. You don't have to be bold and brass. Or use the Aquarian signature move and make him laugh. But I'm cursed in love, so perhaps I'm not the best at giving advice :-) I attract men when I'm being myself and friendly, and I drive them away when I attempt to be romantic. So I'd probably go with the "make them laugh" thing :-)

OMG! I'm just the same way. I attract men when I'm being myself and friendly, but with guys I actually like romantically, I'm quite shy. It's so hard to be yourself and comfortable around them.

Anyway, back to the topic, I had 2 cancer dudes go crazy after me. They like strong women who are caring at the same time because they are not strong themselves, however they want a caring person for their soft, fragile ego and heart. Make sure you love kids and to cook! Loving and wanting kids of your own someday, you can't beat that.I caught one of the two cancer dude melting as I was gushing over this cute kid I saw. Cancer men like good girls. I seldom see them with slutty types. I don't know if loving kids has something to do with this, but they like round faced/babyface women. I have a baby face and that is why I attract cancer men the most. I don't think its so much my personality because I'm kinda cold and too confident.

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We share the same birthday :-)

I'm shy when it comes to someone I'm actually interested in. I don't know about Cancer males, but I would think that they'd find it quite sweet. You don't have to be bold and brass. Or use the Aquarian signature move and make him laugh. But I'm cursed in love, so perhaps I'm not the best at giving advice :-) I attract men when I'm being myself and friendly, and I drive them away when I attempt to be romantic. So I'd probably go with the "make them laugh" thing :-)

OMG! I'm just the same way. I attract men when I'm being myself and friendly, but with guys I actually like romantically, I'm quite shy. It's so hard to be yourself and comfortable around them.

I'm not good at handling strong emotions, so they come out in the most awkward ways. Especially when I try to control and suppress them.

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I'm not shy by any means but when my mind catches up to my emotions, I act a fool! Not able to complete sentences, racing mind, and I spill my guts to him and run his cute butt off to the hills with the rest of them. (Dangit) How often do you get called crazy? LOL For me, probably like every time I talk to anybody but myself. :p

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Oh, and I don't care if I'm called weird when I'm in my regular Aqua mode, but it does hurt when someone calls me crazy and I actually agree with them!

Own what you are! Whoever doesn't like it can kick rocks!