I miss my Aqua boy â¤

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2thinkalike
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He was so persistent for months , he never gave up , contacting me every day and coming with ideas of spending time together . I was ditching plans with him several times , changing my mind in the last moment , anyone else would've stopped talking to me but he was good , calm and understanding . He was joking one time that I have commitment fobia and called him Iron man , he said "yea , I have nerves of steel " ..
I've got 2 good female aqua and my sister as well , they are all very sensitive and clingy , they seem to get upset very fast , but this guy is totally different ..
He never showed any bad emotion (while anyone else would ) tho ppl say Aqua men are very controlling when they are into someone.Maybe because he's not in love with me ? being so chilled is a sign of emotional detachment ? I need a feedback in this matter ..
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2thinkalike
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I pulled him in and pushed him out few times already , but that's just my way of testing waters.. he's travelling now and I get less attention .. I see him posting pictures from Europe .. all monuments and architectural images .. it's a Discovery trip. . Lol .. he seems busy site seeing and I don't want to disturb him with too many Miss u's .. haha .. I hope he will be the same when he's back .. I just realised how much he means to me .
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Like and coment on his pictures. ..but don't say anything about missing him until he comes home. He'll see the likes and know you're thinking of him.

I do think female Aquas have an easier time showing emotions, at least I'm noticing that from the aqua ladies here. I don't know any well in real life so don't know for sure.

But the men are still very sensitive and get hurt easily. They show hurt by appearing angry, in my experience. Mine is not one bit controlling, and he has a very long fuse. He puts uo with a lot from a lot of people (myself included) and just keeps going. But eventually he explodes and it's not pretty.

If it feels like he's yours, he probably is. That doesn’t always mean that there aren't others he might be tempted by, especially if you haven't made a commitment. You'll know when he gets home. Until then, just show interest in what he shares publicly, and leave any confessions of feeling until after he gets back (or he says it first).
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Posted by 2thinkalike
He was so persistent for months , he never gave up , contacting me every day and coming with ideas of spending time together . I was ditching plans with him several times , changing my mind in the last moment , anyone else would've stopped talking to me but he was good , calm and understanding . He was joking one time that I have commitment fobia and called him Iron man , he said "yea , I have nerves of steel " ..
I've got 2 good female aqua and my sister as well , they are all very sensitive and clingy , they seem to get upset very fast , but this guy is totally different ..
He never showed any bad emotion (while anyone else would ) tho ppl say Aqua men are very controlling when they are into someone.Maybe because he's not in love with me ? being so chilled is a sign of emotional detachment ? I need a feedback in this matter ..
wow sounds like a stand up guy. Shows determination and will power. and jokes about iron man. lol

your sisters sound like they have cancer and pisces placements (family members usually have some of that together)

and you must have aqua prominent somewhere to attract aqua sun or aqua placemnts?

what are your aqua man's placements?
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lisabeth
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Posted by 2thinkalike
I pulled him in and pushed him out few times already , but that's just my way of testing waters.. he's travelling now and I get less attention .. I see him posting pictures from Europe .. all monuments and architectural images .. it's a Discovery trip. . Lol .. he seems busy site seeing and I don't want to disturb him with too many Miss u's .. haha .. I hope he will be the same when he's back .. I just realised how much he means to me .
if he's determined as you mentioned in the first post, that's probably just his nature.

a guy who is in love with you wouldn't want to give you up.

push pull isn't really a problem with determined guys.

if both couples are push pull, no one would get anywhere.
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aquasnoz
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oh those bad emotions exists. You just haven't been around him long enough to see them.

Emotional detachment? I don't think so, from the way you described it you haven't really given him much to form a really strong attachment it's just a very fun playful thing to continue. You're his source of happiness, he likes you. As for where it goes well I guess the ball's in your court at the moment.