NikkiMse1978
@NikkiMse1978
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I pushed away my Libra
Nikki....why did you push him away dear?
She probably posted it here because it the situation with her aqua ex is here hun. She would have to re-explain everything.
But Nikki she does have a good point. I don't know a thing about Libra's...I went on one date with one. All I know is that they are major flirts and are BIG coke fiends. HUGE coke fiends....be on watch for that. Seriously.
But Nikki she does have a good point. I don't know a thing about Libra's...I went on one date with one. All I know is that they are major flirts and are BIG coke fiends. HUGE coke fiends....be on watch for that. Seriously.
Oh I understand where you are coming from hun. You do have a great point. Aquas can only really chime into the aqua situation which she seems to be done with, which is confusing...I thought she was passing time with the Libra until the aqua ex came back which he did. So I dunno why Nikki chose to leave the Libra for the aqua then say screw the aqua I want the Libra. Something must of happened because she considers the aqua ex as her soul mate.
Posted by tbird
She probably posted it here because it the situation with her aqua ex is here hun. She would have to re-explain everything.
But Nikki she does have a good point. I don't know a thing about Libra's...I went on one date with one. All I know is that they are major flirts and are BIG coke fiends. HUGE coke fiends....be on watch for that. Seriously.
holy shit, tbird, you're telling me, nearly every roommate I've had has been a Libra (and a good friend!) but yeah, coke has been a part of the partying ritual. Every time.
*enters the libra attorney* I OBJECT!! Not only coke, sum smoke hashish. Ahah hahaha
Posted by tbird
She probably posted it here because it the situation with her aqua ex is here hun. She would have to re-explain everything.
But Nikki she does have a good point. I don't know a thing about Libra's...I went on one date with one. All I know is that they are major flirts and are BIG coke fiends. HUGE coke fiends....be on watch for that. Seriously.
That is exactly why I posted it here.
Posted by firewaterearthPosted by NikkiMse1978
Bcus my Aqua ex came back. I started to question my motives & the exes. My insecurities came to the surface. I ? My feelings for the Libra.
The end result became me reacting emotionally & ultimately pushing my Libra so far that I pushed him to break up with me. I realized (& those who know my story) that I do not want the Aqua ex!!!!!! Yeh me!!! (finally!!) I would like to make it right with my Libra!!! I asked him to speak to me in person. That txting misconstrues the meaning. & i wanted to know gis thoughts & if he agreed. He told me, Im sorry. I dont agree. I feel to much pressure right now.
I dont want to dissect his words. I need tips! Help me to win him back!
I am confused. You pushed away the Libra because the Aqua Ex came back...But, you finally decided that you are completely done with the Aqua? What made you decide that you are finally done with the Aqua Ex? How did you push the Libra far away?
Anyway, I hope that you realize once and for all that your Aqua Ex is toxic to your long-term happiness. I am not trying to sound stern or unsympathetic to your plight but, until you are clear in your mind that the Aqua Ex does not want to be with you for the long haul then, you will not be able to sustain a relationship with anyone. Please note that this is being said out of concern for you.click to expand
I have realized the toxitity of the Aqua ex-that is why I do not want him near me/calling me/texting me. I want nothing to do with him at all. But by the time I had realized that- I inadvertatnly pushed my Libra and pushed him away by questioning his intentions when it should have been my all along. Thanks for your concern. They are my mistakes, I will deal with them.
By living your life passionately and ignore him. I feel they care bout maintaining inner peace..they avoid all drama. But since it was an extreme event between you guys...it seems only time will make it better. I say let him stew off and chat with him light heartedly later..never bringing up that event again. They like to move on and have fun...not dwell on things
Nikki I think candi3bb said it the best just give this man some time and space I'm sure it will help to make thugs better.
Things*
Lol!! at thugs. Libra the new sign of gangsterism, hahaha. Sorry aqualad, i couldnt stop myself
Lol it all good and I started reading my post and was like crap *smacks forehead*
Posted by candi3bb
By living your life passionately and ignore him. I feel they care bout maintaining inner peace..they avoid all drama. But since it was an extreme event between you guys...it seems only time will make it better. I say let him stew off and chat with him light heartedly later..never bringing up that event again. They like to move on and have fun...not dwell on things
Thank you Candi! Miss you sweets! 🙂 Happy Holidays to you! 🙂 🙂
Posted by Aqualad
Lol it all good and I started reading my post and was like crap *smacks forehead*
Hey it made me laugh out loud! Loved it! 🙂 Thanks!
Posted by NikkiMse1978Posted by candi3bb
By living your life passionately and ignore him. I feel they care bout maintaining inner peace..they avoid all drama. But since it was an extreme event between you guys...it seems only time will make it better. I say let him stew off and chat with him light heartedly later..never bringing up that event again. They like to move on and have fun...not dwell on things
Thank you Candi! Miss you sweets! 🙂 Happy Holidays to you! 🙂 🙂click to expand
hOPE YOUR doing well too!!! any plans for the holidays—?
"I am confused. You pushed away the Libra because the Aqua Ex came back...But, you finally decided that you are completely done with the Aqua? What made you decide that you are finally done with the Aqua Ex? How did you push the Libra far away?
Anyway, I hope that you realize once and for all that your Aqua Ex is toxic to your long-term happiness. I am not trying to sound stern or unsympathetic to your plight but, until you are clear in your mind that the Aqua Ex does not want to be with you for the long haul then, you will not be able to sustain a relationship with anyone. Please note that this is being said out of concern for you."
+1
To add to this statement. Whose controlling your life? You or him? Sure seems you've given this man a massive amount of power over your happiness and it's effecting you and your life. So I hope you see how you are contributing to your own pain, you are allowing him to help you sabotage your own happiness. You have this weird way of absorbing his toxic energy and almost taking on his bad relationship habits.
Can't really blame him if you're allowing him into your life to do this. I don't think it's done consciously though, I just think you aren't paying attention and the EX comes in and projects his stuff onto you and you carry it, being empathic is beautiful but it can get you into trouble if you don't know how to block a persons toxic energy, it really can effect your whole life.
Consider going no contact until you can get your true feelings sorted between yourself and him, it seems the ex project his energy onto you and you absorb it and then you became him for a moment, you literally become confused and disoriented and push people away from you and that's the exact relationship habit your Aqua has with you and everyone else I'm sure.
You truly want love and want a real relationship with someone but the EX Aqua doesn't and you REFLECTED the ex's energy onto your libra. You truly have to learn to block him from entering your energy space or leave him alone.
Anyway, I hope that you realize once and for all that your Aqua Ex is toxic to your long-term happiness. I am not trying to sound stern or unsympathetic to your plight but, until you are clear in your mind that the Aqua Ex does not want to be with you for the long haul then, you will not be able to sustain a relationship with anyone. Please note that this is being said out of concern for you."
+1
To add to this statement. Whose controlling your life? You or him? Sure seems you've given this man a massive amount of power over your happiness and it's effecting you and your life. So I hope you see how you are contributing to your own pain, you are allowing him to help you sabotage your own happiness. You have this weird way of absorbing his toxic energy and almost taking on his bad relationship habits.
Can't really blame him if you're allowing him into your life to do this. I don't think it's done consciously though, I just think you aren't paying attention and the EX comes in and projects his stuff onto you and you carry it, being empathic is beautiful but it can get you into trouble if you don't know how to block a persons toxic energy, it really can effect your whole life.
Consider going no contact until you can get your true feelings sorted between yourself and him, it seems the ex project his energy onto you and you absorb it and then you became him for a moment, you literally become confused and disoriented and push people away from you and that's the exact relationship habit your Aqua has with you and everyone else I'm sure.
You truly want love and want a real relationship with someone but the EX Aqua doesn't and you REFLECTED the ex's energy onto your libra. You truly have to learn to block him from entering your energy space or leave him alone.
Posted by NikkiMse1978Posted by Aqualad
Lol it all good and I started reading my post and was like crap *smacks forehead*
Hey it made me laugh out loud! Loved it! 🙂 Thanks!click to expand
Oh well in that case your welcome always here to lighten the mood. 🙂
@Tikki-
To add to this statement. Whose controlling your life? You or him? Sure seems you've given this man a massive amount of power over your happiness and it's effecting you and your life. So I hope you see how you are contributing to your own pain, you are allowing him to help you sabotage your own happiness. You have this weird way of absorbing his toxic energy and almost taking on his bad relationship habits.
Can't really blame him if you're allowing him into your life to do this. I don't think it's done consciously though, I just think you aren't paying attention and the EX comes in and projects his stuff onto you and you carry it, being empathic is beautiful but it can get you into trouble if you don't know how to block a persons toxic energy, it really can effect your whole life.
Consider going no contact until you can get your true feelings sorted between yourself and him, it seems the ex project his energy onto you and you absorb it and then you became him for a moment, you literally become confused and disoriented and push people away from you and that's the exact relationship habit your Aqua has with you and everyone else I'm sure.
You truly want love and want a real relationship with someone but the EX Aqua doesn't and you REFLECTED the ex's energy onto your libra. You truly have to learn to block him from entering your energy space or leave him alone.
Tikki-You are right. The Aqua ex was controlling not only my life but my being/my emotions and my thoughts. He was also controlling not only my soul, but my mind, body and spirit too.
I have finally taken my power back from him and I am in a much better place. After our last communication-I have finally realized he is not good for me. He never was. I have cut him out of my life-I have even changed my cell phone number. If I want this man out of my life for good a drastic measure was needed. I just needed to figure it out for myself. Consider it lesson learned. 🙂
I am now trying to make things right with the Libra. Even if we are just friends are never romantically involved again. I need to make it right with him, bcus my negativitey has been reflected to him and now he is feeling or thinking whatever he is about himself and me. I do not want that. He is who he is (which I adore) and I am who I am now. I am a work in progress as new lessons are presented to me.
I am not taking your comments or insights anyother way other than concern and caring. And for that I appreciate it.
To add to this statement. Whose controlling your life? You or him? Sure seems you've given this man a massive amount of power over your happiness and it's effecting you and your life. So I hope you see how you are contributing to your own pain, you are allowing him to help you sabotage your own happiness. You have this weird way of absorbing his toxic energy and almost taking on his bad relationship habits.
Can't really blame him if you're allowing him into your life to do this. I don't think it's done consciously though, I just think you aren't paying attention and the EX comes in and projects his stuff onto you and you carry it, being empathic is beautiful but it can get you into trouble if you don't know how to block a persons toxic energy, it really can effect your whole life.
Consider going no contact until you can get your true feelings sorted between yourself and him, it seems the ex project his energy onto you and you absorb it and then you became him for a moment, you literally become confused and disoriented and push people away from you and that's the exact relationship habit your Aqua has with you and everyone else I'm sure.
You truly want love and want a real relationship with someone but the EX Aqua doesn't and you REFLECTED the ex's energy onto your libra. You truly have to learn to block him from entering your energy space or leave him alone.
Tikki-You are right. The Aqua ex was controlling not only my life but my being/my emotions and my thoughts. He was also controlling not only my soul, but my mind, body and spirit too.
I have finally taken my power back from him and I am in a much better place. After our last communication-I have finally realized he is not good for me. He never was. I have cut him out of my life-I have even changed my cell phone number. If I want this man out of my life for good a drastic measure was needed. I just needed to figure it out for myself. Consider it lesson learned. 🙂
I am now trying to make things right with the Libra. Even if we are just friends are never romantically involved again. I need to make it right with him, bcus my negativitey has been reflected to him and now he is feeling or thinking whatever he is about himself and me. I do not want that. He is who he is (which I adore) and I am who I am now. I am a work in progress as new lessons are presented to me.
I am not taking your comments or insights anyother way other than concern and caring. And for that I appreciate it.
E to the third power: are you a lib? Didn't mean to offend. I'm not saying every single lib on the planet are coke fiends but yes they do go for the blow.
I wish you the very best Nikki, be strong and keep us updated.
Posted by tiki33
I wish you the very best Nikki, be strong and keep us updated.
Thank you Tikki! I quoted you on the Libra board...saying you were so right about the Aqua ex! Thank you for the help in opening my eyes. He is texting me, or he was until a week ago, so hopefully he is finally giving up on me. I have not answered his texts either!!! YEH ME!
Update with the Libra-I pushed him way far away from me. 😢 It is ok, I will be fine. It just upset me a little bcus I didn't even get a chance to explain myself. His last text to me was on Monday. He said he didn't mean or want to hurt me. He will pay me back for the xmas gifts I left for him at his house this weekend. That all he asked for was space and I couldn't go 8 hrs without contact. That I smothered him to the point of no repair. To never contact him again and he wishes the best of luck to me.
The said thing is I became my ex Aqua. I may have text him, and the Libra exxagerated the 8 hr thing, days went by without me contacting him. But the Aqua pushed me away and I pushed the Libra away. All I have to say is I have learned some valuable lessons out of all of this for sure! Most importantly, I cannot assume all men are like the Aqua ex. Bcus they are not! There are some men out there who do show emotion! 🙂
Thanks for your help!
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I dont want to dissect his words. I need tips! Help me to win him back!