IF an Aqua won't commit to you...

My God, it's killing me that the people dating Aquas still don't understand how we tick

So I'll explain it in simpler terms

Aquas really aren't as complex as people make us seem. Being different/ticking differently & being "complex/complicated" are 2 different things

So let me explain...IF HE WON'T COMMIT TO YOU IT'S EITHER B/C:

1. He's NOT that into you (Any guy of any sign won't commit to someone he's not that into)

2. He needs more time to get to know you so that he can make a logical decision on whether or not you're right for him (why get mad at the guy whose actually trying to get to know you for who you are? Isn't that what every woman wants!?!)

3. He's insecure. And in this case, he has no business dating ANYONE period anyways. If an Aqua is insecure, their baggage WILL outweigh any feelings they have for you. TRUST ME! It doesn't matter WHY he won't commit IF the outcome remains the same: He won't commit. Plus, you shouldn't be chasing someone who is emotionally unavailable anyways b/c it only leads to a dead end street

4. He's seeing others on the side. You're not getting his undivided attention b/c he's spreading bits & pieces of his attention to multiple women. Just b/c he told you (like most guys do) that you were "the only one" doesn't mean it's true. The TRUE measure of whether that statement is true comes with how much time he's NOT spending with you!

5. You've done/said something that has turned him off. When this happens, some Aquas may immediately detach emotionally. The key though is in how long he "disappears." If he's disappearing often or altogether, it's b/c he's decided that he couldn't get over whatever you've said/done that rubbed him the wrong way

6. NOTICE I NEVER MENTIONED ANYTHING ABOUT AQUAS BEING AFRAID OF COMMITTMENT! If he won't commit to you but yet months/years later you see him easily sliding into a relationship with someone else, it's b/c YOU were the thing he didn't want, not committment.

7. He does think there's a slight chance that you're right for him, BUT he won't commit until he actually knows for a fact that you're right for him. If this is the case, this is where the other person's either patience or readiness to walk away comes in.

8. Aquas will NEVER move at YOUR pace, so if that's what you're expecting, stop now. They move at their OWN pace. And they don't care if your pace is 1000Xs faster than theirs. If we even slightly think that you only want a relationship just for the sake of having someone we won't commit & if we do, we'll purposely take longer! Just like YOU, we want someone to want/love us for who we are & not for some "title" we can give them to make them feel better!

9. And thennnn there's always the Aqua who won't commit to you b/c he's not committment-worthy. YOU may not know this, but he does! YOU may not be aware of his inner skeletons, but HE is. Trust me, he feels he's doing you a FAVOR by not being selfish enough to make you pay for someone else's mistakes.

Aquas don't need someone around who is trying to "study" them, guess or "analyze" their way into their hearts. If you're spending more time trying to figure an Aqua out instead of actually just HAVING/ENJOYING the relationship, something in #1-9 is probably occuring w/o you even realizing it!

I think this is an awesome post.... although i had my rant... at the end of the day it doesnt matter what sign a person is what matters is what you want.