Importance of Sex?

Posting this here as well as Scorpio since Aquas are supposed to be the most sexually adventurous.
So honstly how important is sex in relationships? If your partner won't do something sexually, does this make you start to loose interest in them, even if the other aspect of your sexlife are good? Do you just accept the sex you get? Does not getting everything you want through sex make your eyes wander?

Mamma...I think for a healthy relationship one must be satisfied with the sex between both peoples. I will not settle or just accept the sex that I get - did it once in my previous marriage and will never do it again (that was not fun!)

"Afterall a fantasy is just a fantasy, and nothing else. I would like to have 1 billion dollars too, but I won't stop working just because I may not ever see it. so why would you quit a relationship just because some fantasy isn't fufilled. If that is the case, the relationship was nothing to begin with."

That is a refreshing opinion to hear. Thanks

hmmm...my aqua bf is not very sexually adventurous...i am more of the kinky one, but he definitely knows how to work it in bed and we have a very healthy sex life, although we do not let it occupy too much of our relationship...

Hah, me and my bf were just talking about this the other day.
We kinda tested each others boundaries. He has one fantasy and that is to have a threesome. I just told him that I had actually thought about it before but I had ultimately decided that I would not engage in any sort of lesbianism and most importantly that I don't approve of sharing my lover. 🙂 !! Just like he wouldn't like to share me and said he knew it was improbable, *just* a fantasy and not important. Then he added, as improbable as me fukking him with a strap-on lol awwww 😢 hahahah... good answer

Sex is important, going overboard with it is just unnecessary...
... gymnastics is unnecessary but sure I can give it a go =P
BUT I will not cross into homosexuality, beastiality and no pissing, pooping, vomiting, yucky stuff!
And no third parties including males.
There's PLENTY of 'stuff' you can do between two! I am definitely not prudish!
Without some sort of boundaries we mine as well be animals... fukking 'em like in porno videos... *cringes* no no no nooooooooo

Sex is healthy, but it isn't everything.

i totally agree with brandon 🙂

Yes eliza sex is very HEALTHY and I agree with "B" as well. For sex to be healthy, one must feel good and enjoy his/her experience with the other person if not, one of the person's will leave.

I too am not into "weird" stuff - but I do want to feel satisfied and enjoy my experiences. 😉

I think some people are just not on the same page sexually - so, do you stay and settle or move on?

Well I'm pretty open to trying anything out if for nothing else to please my guy. However I won't share so no threesomes and no far out things that disgust me (like things that should go in the toilet...ewww and that's not even sexy.)

However if I'm having a good time and I see that my guy is enjoying what's going on... there is no reason to stop.

Aquarius' are supposed to be the best lovers, not neccessarily the most sexual adventurous... I find that a better description because as long as there is a reason to share a joke or find something to smile about (even if it's sharing a fantasy) then darn... there is no stopping me from finishing. Pesky hang ups aren't part of my character if I'm enjoying myself. In all honesty I tend to date guys who have more hang ups in the bedroom (or kitchen counter or whereever the mood starts). Sex is supposed to be fun!

But as for sexually free in truth I won't leave a guy because the sex isn't all that, but if a guy can't satisfy me then there are bigger issues out there. Sex doesn't make or break a relationship and quite honestly I have used sex as a test to see how the guy really feels (wow that sounds awful but hey whatever I'm kind of a modern day hippie who holds no grudges if things don't work out and guy's can get a little to emotional once sex becomes part of the equation. My guy friends say that 'I'm a guy so I can have sex without love' but from what I can tell that's so not true if the girl isn't someone random and something has been building in his head.)

I think that sex is an important aspect but not the only or overriding factor of a relationship. Sex is a form of intimacy that makes lovers feel they are bonded into one another. Sex feels good so it's an enjoyable activity for a man and woman to engage in if they have affectionate and tender feelings for one another. I don't get much pleasure (literally) from encounters that don't have some feelings associated. This is the juncture where sex branches into love and pornography. Porn is just for thrill and fantasy and exhibitionism. Loving sex nurtures further closeness between lovers.

Like Ladyvie I wouldn't leave a relationship because the sex was bad or not up to scratch. I mean sex is a form of expression so surely a couple should be able to discuss what they want and what they don't want with their partners to improve things in bed. If after a significant time it was clear that a couple really aren't on the same page sexually then I'm pretty sure it would be equally apparent that they aren't on the same page in may other matters.

I'm not into kinky stuff much either. I think the basic positions are so erotic in themselves that PVC, whips and dump-taking are inferior by comparison.

"Aquarius' are supposed to be the best lovers"

Ladyvie that's interesting. Are you sure?! Where did you hear or read this fact?

originally... a myspace bulletin, but I've seen it elsewhere... it's not about the sex so much as pleasuring the other which makes us lovers... we're not selfish.