How do you read the aloof Aqua?

How do you Scorpios deal with the Aqua's aloof nature? Do you take it at face value? Do you worry that we have lost interest? Do you think that we don't care?

The current Scorpio I am with will question me constantly on my feelings. He absolutely has to get an answer out of me. Sometimes it is annoying and sometimes it is cute that he wants to know my feelings and if I really do care. Sometimes I wonder if my aloof nature really worries him. I can run between extremes. Sometimes I can be very open with my feelings, and other times I have no desire to show anything.

Of course the same does not work in reverse. His Scorpio secrecy rears it's head if I try and ask him anything about how he feels and that makes me want to keep my own under tighter control.

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His Scorpio secrecy rears it's head if I try and ask him anything about how he feels and that makes me want to keep my own feelings under tighter control.

For what reasons are aquas so aloof?
Maybe you can time your feelings with his. I.e. when he opens up about his feelings, you let him know how you feel too, whether you feel like doing it at that precise moment in time or not.

I don't know why Aqua's are aloof in general. For me feelings can be uncomfortable. I don't always feel I show them properly so it is just easier not to. Also it is a protective measure. People can abuse your feelings for them. I have to really trust someone in order to let my guard down. Its almost like I need to see him show feelings before I can.

"Message posted by: Dancing Bread on 11/21/2006 11:01:14 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.34
IS this a new scorpio?"

Yes DB.. Playing with fire.. Again... This one is Libra/Scorp cusp.

"Also it is a protective measure. People can abuse your feelings for them. "

Much the same reasons Scorps keep them under check, but once we get a feel for the person (which doesn't take long) we will open up slowly..

Perhaps that is my scorpio rising talking, but that is how I see it. I don't want someone abusing my feelings for them.

On a positive note, both me and this new scorp seem to have great communication. We also both have a small interest in astrology and understand eachothers sun signs so it makes it easier to try and understand where the other person is comming from.

Aww..thats sweet..keep up the good work

🙂

Mama Roz, I'm an Aqua woman involved with a scorpio man. Welcome and be prepared. You will definitely encounter the double-standard -- in more ways than one. ::smile::

Aquas must have either a venus in Scorp or moon in scorp..otherwise no thank you

Oh pathfinder - How do you find your cancer moon?

"Aquas and Cancers get along GREAT! I LOVE those people!"

Cancer and Aquarius couples are more popular than I thought. Go figure!

pathfinder: "but I'll say that moon makes me more of a homebody than a typical Aqua. I love doing all the domestic stuff, cooking, spoiling kids ::smile::, making people feel at "home" when they come to my house. Plus, I am pretty sensitive to other people's feelings, but I can be a bit "crabby" when someone has gone a little too far. I'm a little "tight" with money, too, not stingy or cheap, just like to keep a "nest egg" around for a rainy day."

I ask because I have a moon in cancer, and can't relate to any of that..See I can't stand domestics..If I could I would get a maid in..I don't like people visiting..sounds bloody awful doesn't it..I prefer my own company..don't know why that is..I am not good with children at all..Don't know what the hell to say to them..I am crap with money..I spend it like its going out of existence..not that affectionate when it comes to showing it..I am very stand offish....I am very possessive..which leads me to believe that my moon isn't right..but anyways..just wanted to have someone tell me what a moon in cancer feels like so I could see if I can relate. I read the description of it..and its not me..

LOL @ there there

Yes its just a minute silly part..why does it have to be there..

::announcment::

I hereby declare, from this day forward, my moon is in Scorpio. Okay..done. I am just scorptastic...obviously

MM, do you have your birth time correct?

Erm..well theres a bit of a debate about that..mother doesn't actually know what time she dropped me..she estimates around 6am..but I don't believe her..she had so many she's forgotten me..typical isn't it..poor ol' scorp gets neglected ONCE AGAIN..

I think moon signs go on the year not time..

I could be wrong here..but I think moon signs generally go by your birth month, day, and year. Why don't you try calculating your birth time at 6am, then play around with different times. If you get different signs, read the description of each to see which one is more descriptive of you.
My mother doesn't remember exact time of birth either but she claims it's in the afternoon. Either way I calculate my birth time, whether morning, afternoon or evening I am a Moon in Leo; so mine doesn't change.

They are actually indecisive. They usually freak out when they have 11 ideas at the same time in their head about specific topic. Life has teached them at the very beginning that jumping on fast conclusions is the shortest way to failrue. This situation is similar to Pisces.

I don't think the cancer thing has any bearings on my personality so i will just ignore it..cos I can

"I don't think the cancer thing has any bearings on my personality so i will just ignore it..cos I can"

Or, you can do that...lol!