Is this aqua guy affraid of me?

So i've kinda been with this aquarius guy for 6 months, the 1st 2 months we we're the best of friends talked and text everyday. I kinda liked him but being an Aries i'm very proud and would never tell a guy i like him. So 1 day after 2 months he text me and told me he liked me and that i set him on fire lol. He told me he wanted 2 be with me but "no strings" sorta thing, which is fine with me. Any who, we've had lots of phone sex lol i have asked for the real thing and he completely changes the subjest?

I've been very patient but WTF? I have a huge sex drive. What is the problem? I've been waiting for 6 months for sex and he won't give it up— Give it 2 me already!!!! I'm an Aries! I don't want 2 talk about it! I want 2 do it!!! The last aqua guy i was with i nearly had 2 rape him every time i wanted sex! I hope this guy puts out soon! lol

This past weekend, he invited me 2 a cookout i was excited 2 see him BUT he completely ignored me? WTF! He said hey thanks for coming when i got there but no convo the rest of the time i was there? He just sat there and stared at me the whole time— It was a very intense kind of stare it was sooo deep it made me shiver! WTF? When i left he gave me a super tight hug he moaned a little lol. As me and my friends drove off he just stared at me deeply the whole time until i could no longer see him, u know like in the movies lol. That night he called me i asked him why he didn't talk 2 me or pay any attention to me, he said u make me nervous— I don't get it? why? he quickly said i have 2 go and hung up?

Also he always says "I love you" but i never say it back becuz he said no strings? Should i just forget this guy? I hate 2 hear that I make him nervous, I've heard that so many times and it makes me think that there is something wrong with me? Any advice?

He sounds like he's nervous as hell and over thinking literally every single word and action he does around you and you do around him. Sounds like he's literally emotionally paralyzed and going to need a hard kick in the ass to get moving.

Thanks. So should i wait for the sex?? I mean it's really getting hard for me...all this phone sex drives me nuts! I like it as long as it's followed by the real thing u know??

I'd say you might have to take matters into your own hands on this one.

The closest we've come is one time at a party he humped my leg!!! lol and grabbed my ass! I thought it was cute? Cuz I'm weird like that hehe anyway the next day he was sooo ambarrassed— I dunno why since I told him I liked it and thought it was cute. He just laughed and said, I love yur crazy!!! lol

So I should RAPE him?? lol just kidding tho he might like it? nah, I'll seduce him than POUNCE!! Right?

Oops....embarrassed? lol

But, what if he turns me down? I would feel so stupid. He seems scared and turned on by me all at the same time? I will try and just see what happens? lol

OMG! I don't think I could wait 10 months— I haven't had sex for more than 10 months!! I mean it's not that I haven't had any1 ask 4 my goodies lol it's just I want 2 find some1 special u know? Lately tho I've had alot of Libras sweating me but, I really want an Aquarius or Gemini.... I

Libra guys are hott! But way to NEEDY I don't like to be smothered. I dated this one Libra who stalked me for a long time he was crazy obsessed with me lol. Your BFF is an Aries? Is she crazy like me? lol

Yeah reading your post took me back to university 5yrs ago. Awww gr8 memories-she tells it like it is.haha
Had problems with a libra,he pursued me like a paparazzi and when i start to fall he starts playing up.boo!!
So we fought,made up,fell out etc etc. The final episode was after i stood him up,he really hates me now. I do feel bad but hey he wont accept a I AM SORRY,😢
Oh to top it off,his brother a aquarius,his after me. Drama.
I told my aries BFF about all this-and my girl got my back,she trust me to do the right thing.
I love aries as mates. 🙂

I would take a BULLET for a friend or family member I'm fealess lol. I remember one of my GF got beat up by her ex BF and I was sooo pissed! I found a huge brick and busted all the windows out of his car and slashed his tires! left him a note telling him the next time he puts a hand on one of my friends I'll cut his fucken throat! Well he never messed with my GF again! LOL

And every time I hear that song I bust the windows out yur car I laugh my ass off! Ahhhh good times hahaha

lol ur funny,so whats the deal with you n ur aqua? Why is he holding back? Are you after something long term with him?

I mean I like him, but I dunno he's very shy we're total opposites where I'll cut someone lol and he would prob run lol. I hope he's not affraid of me tho cuz he can sense that I'm a little crazy. He says he likes BAD girls but he's only dated sweet girls— I can't be sweet it hurts! And I feel like gaging lol.

But I'm not mean I can be very nice just not sweet. lol

Awww am sure thats the attraction,show him abit of your nice side. That will get him hook.lol

I will try lol. But u know how most girls are delicate n sensitive like a flower?? Well I only look like a flower on the outside but inside I'm more like a weed lol. I'm not delicate nor fragile and def not sensitive like other girls? I sometimes feel like a man trapped in a womens body?? Does that make sense? LOL I'm a little nutty hahaha

Wow how old are you if you dont mind me asking?

25

ok kool am 28. The aqua who's trying it on his 24. Dont do toyboys. lol

LOL He's nice tho I dunno how long he's going 2 make me wait but we'll see? He's calling me right now! lol we're going out 2 lunch in 20 minutes wish me luck I will let u know what happens lol

Goodluck hunny,you just show him your nice girl side and also your intellect,Aquas love clever girls.🙂

FemmeScorpion, Well last night was magical he finally kissed me!!! It was amazing!

After he gave me a funny look, he had a huge smile on his face and asked me, are you wearing mens cologne?? I said yes I am I like mens cologne it smells better than that flowery shit they make for women! He laughed so hard his drink came out of his nose it was hilarious!! He said you're crazy and I like it! hahaha

He has a thing for the crazies! LOL

lovelygirl89 LOL I have to take it slow with him. Since apparently I make him nervous. I got a very sweet kiss and I am content with it. I will restrain myself from jumpimng on him, for now lol

Haha I need to get me some men cologne.grrrrrrrr!!

Gemtaur & FemmeScorpion I'm so glad that u guys give such gr8 advice!! I have been wearing mens cologne for years and I really feel sexy when I spray it on. Right now I'm into Eternity Summer By CK. It smells like summer sex in a bottle lol. FemmeScorpion U should def get it! I know u will like it! Gemtaur I will bring a bag next time lol. XOXO