RamOfPeace
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Judgementalism
Posted by RamOfPeaceI don't like those types, that don't have an "acceptance" and tolerance for other people being different and having different backgrounds and upbringings.
Tell me why do you preach something and when you see someone trying to deviate from it or to voice their own choice/opinion that deviates from your own, you judge and dismiss them?
This is a common trait I've seen in Aqua men in particular, including my ex and my friends. Yes, you might have the means of experimenting, yes you might have the sparkling intellect and scientific means of proving, testing, and probing.
But if the other human being is either not at that stage of life yet, has a drastically different background/upbringing from you, is uncomfortable with the situation/decision, and maybe simply does not want to accept your way/POV/ whatever the fuck it is you are so adamant about?
What's with immediate mental crucifiction/dismissal of the person? This is where I find that the Fixed air lacks true mobility, radicality, and eccentricity. Give up your Saturnian co-ruler on this. I swear, I'm more accepting sometimes just for the sake that my air moon is Mutable.
Obama is dominant Aquarius, even though he is a Leo sun/Gemini moon, cancer mars. I like what he did with his 2 terms of Presidency. He had a lot of mutability and still took charge, being tolerant. I think because he understands the common man. He also had mars virgo, so quite a bit of mobility about him.
I don't think it's Saturn's fault, as Saturn is excellent in keeping STRUCTURE in your life.
too much of it, is a super fixed trait. which is intolerance to see that others are different.
Posted by RamOfPeaceI have encountered several with that characteristic.
Tell me why do you preach something and when you see someone trying to deviate from it or to voice their own choice/opinion that deviates from your own, you judge and dismiss them?
This is a common trait I've seen in Aqua men in particular,
This picture flashes in my mind:
I shake my head and walk away. They're even worse when given a little power or authority, because then they seek to punish the "transgressor".
Posted by AriesLove
And BTW I've never known Aquarius to be an intelligent sign, especially not in comparison to Aries. They are creative and passionate when it comes to something they enjoy otherwise they are sloppy and lazy. Very dependent on Aries energy and skill. I consider them followers not leaders. Their ideas are not innovative, they are good at mocking others advancements. They need guidance and someone to keep them on track. Also they display outbursts of jealousy if you even mention an idea better than theirs.
It's not judgementalism it's an highly sensitive jealous person.
personally I think my sisters are smarter than me. quicker and smarter. i'm just more slow. lol
i'm more of a follower than a leader, so that's true.
I will definitely mock some advancements. I don't like genetic engineering, but I have to deeply invest research into that. I don't like some things that science does. some things need to be left alone to nature. But looking for cures, is good.
actually for myself if you find something worthy for others, as in idea, great. More responsibility to you. lol
that's how I see it. I have my own responsibilities,
Posted by bumboklattdude you're already a 5th house sun or packed 5th. that right there. lolPosted by tizianiits just a philosophyPosted by bumboklatt
its because anything is possible in our minds. We are not Leo where we believe something wholeheartedly.
We are fixed air where anything is possible
We dont believe in anything wholeheartedly except that no one knows anything and there is infinite amounts to learn
that is where the arrogance comes in. Its a fixed belief that anything is possible
When you feel judged you are dismissing your belief in yourself
people judge no matter what the sign. In fact, you are judging by your own experiences.
I know we are annoying sometimes with our arrogance but Aquarius true essence is selfless. Its putting emphasis on the individuality and potential of people.
We are not flexible so that someone may prove us wrong. Sometimes we dont directly prove things, instead we set the stage to be proven wrong
It being selfless probably makes it even more annoying. How many people - Aquarius or otherwise - are really at the stage of maturity to be embodying selflessness and fully understand its implications on the people around them? Very few, I'd wager. It takes a lot of experience to probably gauge both the emotional cause and effect, for the Aqua and for people in their life.
In some ways young Aquas are worse than Leo. Leo is just pride, whereas in Aquarius it's expanded into conceit.
Disclaimer: Obviously this is just theory and not personally applicable to everyone of the sign.
cause Sun sign equals philosophical awareness
of course we are all human but the arrogance is definetely there since birth lol
its purpose is not arrogant, its the person who is immature
thats why Taurus and Scorps (practical and emotional awareness) clash with our viewpoints because there is never enough experience in this life to prove an IDEA as practical and emotional FACT
idk if that makes sense lol
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Not too sure but it's a trait that I also picked up from most of the Aquas I know. They always are up for 'open' discussion which just means they want to prove you wrong in every way.
Though I do find it very entertaining when I meet aquas that try to teach me information about a field I've studied and work in for over a decade. Especially when their eyes light up when another friend mentions what I do for a job.
Each to their own. I feel like perhaps they like to seem knowledgeable and think to low of others that only they can grasp the information that they read or learn about.
Though I do find it very entertaining when I meet aquas that try to teach me information about a field I've studied and work in for over a decade. Especially when their eyes light up when another friend mentions what I do for a job.
Each to their own. I feel like perhaps they like to seem knowledgeable and think to low of others that only they can grasp the information that they read or learn about.
Aquarius is fixed. Being an air sign doesn't really change the fact that its influence can make one arrogant and stubborn.
Also Saturn is Aquarius' true and only ruler. Get over it you mortals lmao.
Also Saturn is Aquarius' true and only ruler. Get over it you mortals lmao.
@bumboklatt
Thanks for your posts! I find them insightful, and will reply as soon as possible.
@aquanib
Nobody really, if you don't take my Aqua MC, Saturn, and 11th house sun into consideration. Has it occured to you that I might ne talking down from the same tower, before you got offended?
Thanks for your posts! I find them insightful, and will reply as soon as possible.
@aquanib
Nobody really, if you don't take my Aqua MC, Saturn, and 11th house sun into consideration. Has it occured to you that I might ne talking down from the same tower, before you got offended?
Posted by AriesLoveDo you have a good example of this nonsense assessment? Because regardless of my feelings to any particular Aqua, I find them to be quite like they are described and I love this sign for it.
And BTW I've never known Aquarius to be an intelligent sign, especially not in comparison to Aries. They are creative and passionate when it comes to something they enjoy otherwise they are sloppy and lazy. Very dependent on Aries energy and skill. I consider them followers not leaders. Their ideas are not innovative, they are good at mocking others advancements. They need guidance and someone to keep them on track. Also they display outbursts of jealousy if you even mention an idea better than theirs.
It's not judgementalism it's an highly sensitive jealous person.
Posted by aphrodite3I've found most mathematics men, who are GENIUS in math are Gemini dominant. My grandfather for one. And my sister was dating in the past a long time, a cancer sun, with Gemini personal placements,Posted by CancerOnTheCuspPosted by RamOfPeaceI have encountered several with that characteristic.
Tell me why do you preach something and when you see someone trying to deviate from it or to voice their own choice/opinion that deviates from your own, you judge and dismiss them?
This is a common trait I've seen in Aqua men in particular,
This picture flashes in my mind:
I shake my head and walk away. They're even worse when given a little power or authority, because then they seek to punish the "transgressor".
I love the blatant satanism throughout the whole movie and the title. and it's funny how you relate an aquarius to tom cruise's role in the movie, using the rain man's powers for his own selfish gains.. hmm
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so the rainman is cancer/Gemini, and Tom Cruise, Leo/Aqua?
Blaise Pascal, Cancer/Gemini cusp, A genius in math.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blaise_Pascal
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juan_Caramuel_y_Lobkowitz
also strong Gemini. lol
Lol my aqua cousin does that he's one of those highly opinionated people. He's actually thinks he's just helping people. It makes he's mother mad lol.
I haven't had any issues like this with Aquas but I can see it being a problem for other people/signs. One Aqua man I know is very intelligent & yes very fixed but open to opinions. He's came to me for advice a few times. My BF is Aqua moon , again very intelligent , is right a lot of the time about a lot of things but knows & accepts that he's not always right. They both accept its impossible to always be right about everything, both are not judgemental & just open in general
Posted by aphrodite3😕
@AriesLove But seriously, Leviathan is the demon that rules over Aquarians and it stands for envy so I can see that but me personally am better than that so idk. But you Aries people are not even real leaders like that.. most of you. Aries reminds me of corrupt politicians in a sense. They are leaders, some in good ways, most in bad.
where did you hear that?
from this...
Posted by aphrodite3Yea I know lolPosted by SofiaV87Exactly. I don't know everything. I don't know if aliens exist or not but I do know ghosts exist. I don't know if every girl is a smut but I do know most girls are. You know?
I haven't had any issues like this with Aquas but I can see it being a problem for other people/signs. One Aqua man I know is very intelligent & yes very fixed but open to opinions. He's came to me for advice a few times. My BF is Aqua moon , again very intelligent , is right a lot of the time about a lot of things but knows & accepts that he's not always right. They both accept its impossible to always be right about everything, both are not judgemental & just open in generalclick to expand
Posted by AriesLoveI base it off being Aqua dominant. And off having over 10 men and women of this sun sign in my life on a regular basis for the last two years. That's a big enough private lab to extract data from, beyond "bad experiences, family, exes, and kids".Posted by RamOfPeaceI base everything off my experience. I could easily find this whole thread nonsense assessment. I'm hoping you are basing your findings off more than just an ex.Posted by AriesLoveDo you have a good example of this nonsense assessment? Because regardless of my feelings to any particular Aqua, I find them to be quite like they are described and I love this sign for it.
And BTW I've never known Aquarius to be an intelligent sign, especially not in comparison to Aries. They are creative and passionate when it comes to something they enjoy otherwise they are sloppy and lazy. Very dependent on Aries energy and skill. I consider them followers not leaders. Their ideas are not innovative, they are good at mocking others advancements. They need guidance and someone to keep them on track. Also they display outbursts of jealousy if you even mention an idea better than theirs.
It's not judgementalism it's an highly sensitive jealous person.
My cousins ex wife is an Aquarius, I see how she acts all the time, not to mention his constant complaints about her. Lazy, sloppy, jealous, sensitive, absent minded, list goes on. I've witnessed these things first hand from her.
I dated an Aquarius male for about 3 weeks earlier this year, couldn't get past his sensitive nature he took everything literal.
My ex friend/coworker is an Aquarius she is the sloppiest coworker ever. I handle QA and I can't talk to her about anything without her becoming overly defensive. It's ruined any friendship we did have.
I have an Aquarius child but I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt because he's still young.
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Posted by aquanibI didn't see them :OPosted by RamOfPeaceLmao im not offended. Was hoping 3 smilies would be enough to convey that sentiment. 😄
@bumboklatt
Thanks for your posts! I find them insightful, and will reply as soon as possible.
@aquanib
Nobody really, if you don't take my Aqua MC, Saturn, and 11th house sun into consideration. Has it occured to you that I might ne talking down from the same tower, before you got offended?
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Posted by aquarius_beautyI don't believe into the "evolved/unevolved" theory, it's just another preconceived notion we created to make ourselves feel better when there's no closure, provided explanation, or butthurt feelings are running rampant.Posted by RamOfPeaceThat's because you're dealing with immature, unevolved Aquarians. A true evolved/mature Aquarian will never judge or impose their views on other people. I would get upset when I'd give advice to those I loved, but they never listened. I was only out looking for their well being but people took it the wrong way. It's not until something bad happened (outcome) of my advice that they'd come to me telling how 'right I was and how they should have listened to me'. At one point I just gave up and said F it. If you don't care why should I? I'll give advice but if you don't listen I'm no longer going to care if you follow it or not. It's up to you how you wish to live your life. I got my own life to worry about.
Tell me why do you preach something and when you see someone trying to deviate from it or to voice their own choice/opinion that deviates from your own, you judge and dismiss them?
This is a common trait I've seen in Aqua men in particular, including my ex and my friends. Yes, you might have the means of experimenting, yes you might have the sparkling intellect and scientific means of proving, testing, and probing.
But if the other human being is either not at that stage of life yet, has a drastically different background/upbringing from you, is uncomfortable with the situation/decision, and maybe simply does not want to accept your way/POV/ whatever the fuck it is you are so adamant about?
What's with immediate mental crucifiction/dismissal of the person? This is where I find that the Fixed air lacks true mobility, radicality, and eccentricity. Give up your Saturnian co-ruler on this. I swear, I'm more accepting sometimes just for the sake that my air moon is Mutable.click to expand
All of us here are definitely "evolved" versions of our sun signs, be it 25 or 65 year old users. Suuure.
I've seen people on here - including myself - preach the evolved mantra in the past, and then sporadically copy the same behavior the user was enquiring about.
Posted by AriesLovePosted by RamOfPeaceWhy don't you ask the 10 Aquas you know in your life these questions dumb dumb?
Tell me why do you preach something and when you see someone trying to deviate from it or to voice their own choice/opinion that deviates from your own, you judge and dismiss them?
This is a common trait I've seen in Aqua men in particular, including my ex and my friends. Yes, you might have the means of experimenting, yes you might have the sparkling intellect and scientific means of proving, testing, and probing.
But if the other human being is either not at that stage of life yet, has a drastically different background/upbringing from you, is uncomfortable with the situation/decision, and maybe simply does not want to accept your way/POV/ whatever the fuck it is you are so adamant about?
What's with immediate mental crucifiction/dismissal of the person? This is where I find that the Fixed air lacks true mobility, radicality, and eccentricity. Give up your Saturnian co-ruler on this. I swear, I'm more accepting sometimes just for the sake that my air moon is Mutable.
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You can also stop posting in this thread you know, if you feel so offended that your butting in met retaliation. Rockyroadicecream can be your bff
The only issue I have is when Aqua refuses to see they lost an argument and try to compensate using personal insults and raising their voice (very atypical for an Aqua, though).
Posted by AriesLoveYep, that's your dxp full time job apparently.Posted by RamOfPeaceWhy? Because I'm making complete sense and pointing out your contradictory statements.Posted by AriesLovePosted by RamOfPeaceWhy don't you ask the 10 Aquas you know in your life these questions dumb dumb?
Tell me why do you preach something and when you see someone trying to deviate from it or to voice their own choice/opinion that deviates from your own, you judge and dismiss them?
This is a common trait I've seen in Aqua men in particular, including my ex and my friends. Yes, you might have the means of experimenting, yes you might have the sparkling intellect and scientific means of proving, testing, and probing.
But if the other human being is either not at that stage of life yet, has a drastically different background/upbringing from you, is uncomfortable with the situation/decision, and maybe simply does not want to accept your way/POV/ whatever the fuck it is you are so adamant about?
What's with immediate mental crucifiction/dismissal of the person? This is where I find that the Fixed air lacks true mobility, radicality, and eccentricity. Give up your Saturnian co-ruler on this. I swear, I'm more accepting sometimes just for the sake that my air moon is Mutable.
You can also stop posting in this thread you know, if you feel so offended that your butting in met retaliation. Rockyroadicecream can be your bff
An Aqua dominated person created this thread looking for advice for all her Aqua dominated "friends" then when she gets comments on her public thread she questions the validity of those comments.
So in conclusion I think it would only make sense to go talk to your Aqua dominated "friends" and ask them why the hell they treat you like shit.
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But if the other human being is either not at that stage of life yet, has a drastically different background/upbringing from you, is uncomfortable with the situation/decision, and maybe simply does not want to accept your way/POV/ whatever the fuck it is you are so adamant about?
What's with immediate mental crucifiction/dismissal of the person? This is where I find that the Fixed air lacks true mobility, radicality, and eccentricity. Give up your Saturnian co-ruler on this. I swear, I'm more accepting sometimes just for the sake that my air moon is Mutable.