keep extending invites?

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virgoperplexed1
@virgoperplexed1
19 Years

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if i keep inviting the aqua male to events/bars/parties and he takes me up on the offers but never returns the favor, should i keep calling for him to come hang out? Do they get annoyed? I guess I should know that they will do whatever they want to do but is it a good idea to keep extending invites in terms of trying to deepen a friendship/relationship? Or should I back off? Do they scare easily?
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virgoperplexed1
@virgoperplexed1
19 Years

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Thanks Antibling...

Yeah I guess I don't mean "return the favor" as much as I mean he rarely initiates anything like "hey I'm goin here..." which I would take to understand as "I don't ever think of you or want to hang out with you..." but when i invite him out he comes and we have a great time, so I get confused. I tend to think that people who want to see you will invite you out...geez i dunno. I dunno if he's just "shy" (even though we've been friends for a couple years) or "doesn't care" and I should get the hint...