Libra Girl and Aquarius Guy H.E.L.P P.L.Z

hey i was just wondering if you could help me. ok i will try n cut the story as much as I can but including the main detail...here it goes lol

Last year this aquarius guy used to always stare at me and he caught my eye, he was in all my friends class's so I used to see him quite a lot. We both had an instant attraction but didn't talk to eachother until he added me on facebook and i started talking to him on facebook chat. We started getting know eachother from there and got along great and I told him I liked him also because he was being rather flirtatious and hinted out the fact that he liked me back...once when I used to do my work at the library he once wrote his initials on a peice of paper surrounded by a love heart and put it on my desk. Ofcourse, I was over the moon and everyone knew me and him had a thing for eachother...as time went by he used to text me on random occasions and as I am not usually easy to get, used to get annoyed when he didnt text back straight away but i brushed this off, as summer came i didnt see him and started talking on facebook chat again and he had so many girls he was chatting too, I mean there was this girl whom i assumed was acting like his girlfriend and so i left it and thought he was a total idiot who just flirted with everyone, but i acted as if i didnt care. Anyways a whole year passed by and i didnt see him at university after two months and i heard that he failed the year, so i thought just leave it life goes on...UNTIL all of a sudden last month i was doing my work and out of the blue he came up to me and started talking to me I was really shocked but happy to see him and we were talking for the whole NIGHT! Neither of us knew where time went and the next day the same thing happened we got along so well and the third day he asked if me if i wanted to go out to chill so i agreed and after the long hours of talking he kissed me, even when i said i hadnt kissed anyone before, and didnt intend to. now im very confused and have texted him saying how i feel I want him to say 'lets go out' but i know as an aquarius he doesnt show his feelings and hes acting like nothing happened :S I want a relationship with him but i dont want to force anything on him neither do i want him to disappear.

Not to bust your bubble, BUT if this guy was truly interested in you, he would've acted on his attraction for you back then. When a man is truly into you, he doesn't just "forget" about you or go on with his life as if you never existed. People quit/withdrawl from school all the time; that doesn't mean that we magically forget about the bonds/friendships we made while we were there.

It'd be different if he didn't have any way other than seeing you at school to contact you, BUT he did. He had ample opportunity to keep up with you online (facebook) the entire time. The fact that he didn't doesn't necessarily indicate that this guy was THAT into you. Sure, he may have liked you a little bit, BUT not "enough."

But hey, things change. Maybe this time around, he won't let distance or space stop the both of you from progressing into something further than friendship.

Maybe he was emotionally involved with some other chick back when you 1st met him...maybe that can explain why he never fully pursued you consistently even after he quit school. Now he's probably not talking to the same girl anymore, thus that's why he's back in your life.

If I were you, I'd take it a little easy. Yes, Aquas like to take things slow & may not reveal their feelings right away, BUT don't get it twisted...We don't let good things get away; we're not dumb robots. We're consistent when we WANT to be & inconsistent when we want to be...either way, whether we keep up with you or not is a CHOICE that we make & 99% of the time, if we make the choice NOT to keep up the communication with you, it's b/c we're not interested in you ENOUGH to feel the need to do so.

I think you should just sit back and continue doing whatever it is that your doing because its obviously working. And you are right Aqaurius will flee if they feel the walls of a relationship closing in on them before they want it too. So if he takes too long then you have every right to back off and do you until he makes up his mind. BUT, whatever you do, dont try to force him or push him into a relationship he will only pull away. Im a libra gal and i dated an aqaurius male. He was only 17 then and i was 18 on my way to college. And even though he was young he was very thoughtful and very sweet. He was more than a bf he was my friend. He was one of the most thoughtful and fun boyfriends i ever had. Key thing to remember with aqauris males is you will often feel he treats you as one of the guys...thats because he desires a spouse/gf that can be his friend and his woman. They say this should happen in any relationship, but with aqua males it goes doubles. If you are one of those damsels in distress, dependent, emotional, mushy gushy type of women you better keep stepping because you will get your feelings hurt here. Unintentionally of course, they're too sweet for that. 😉 lol

alrite thanks for the feedback much appreciated, yeah i have been very patient and like to remain that way i hate things to go fast anyway i give him as much freedom he wants because in a way im like that too but just bit more emotional which I don't show to him lol and yeah it has been like a rollercoaster, fun but you never know whats around the corner :/

i don't know how do you know what moon you are :S but yes he's acting as though we are going out 🙂