Life Experiences

Hey there Aquas. I have a general question about the Aqua life experience.

For example, Aries don't USUALLY learn from their mistakes at first. We keep ramming our heads up against a tree, until we're bloodied and hurt, only THEN do we really learn our lessons.

How about for you Aquarius folks? Do you need one time to learn your lesson? Does it take a lot of different experiences before you can judge something, be it a situation, or character traits?

I noticed with my mom Aquarius that she only needs one example to define a situation. For example, "Betty" is a b-word because she gave her a look when they first met. Thing is, Betty could have had allergies, and her 'look' was holding back a sneeze.


Thoughts?

Posted by feby
Nothing personal Penny, it's just for me here...

None taken personal, lol.


It's hard for us to learn our lesson. Ego has to be shattered. But we will learn.

For me life is a constant lesson of learning and unlearning. Lately I'm trying to treat my anxiety/OCD by respecting the mistakes that I make and not beat myself up so much, I have been known to constantly make a mistake over and over but its because I need to really understand how hot the water can get before I get out of the bath....I like to see what I'm made out of and brinkmanship is a trait found in aquarians with scorpio moons.

Posted by The_eleventh_sign_11
For me life is a constant lesson of learning and unlearning. Lately I'm trying to treat my anxiety/OCD by respecting the mistakes that I make and not beat myself up so much, I have been known to constantly make a mistake over and over but its because I need to really understand how hot the water can get before I get out of the bath....I like to see what I'm made out of and brinkmanship is a trait found in aquarians with scorpio moons.

I like your pic - hotness!

Scorpio moons EXTREME so I get the reason why you need to test the waters.

I have a three strike system.

I make mind up immediately on good/bad folks.
Not always accruately. But mostly.
Often, (negative) opinions form very fast. Thats not Aqua. Thats Aries.
I make [positive] opinions quickly too. Thats aqua alright. When we met someone who is an 'ideal'.

I needed multiple times to learn lessons.
When younger, I didn't listen (Aries Moon) even though I thought about it (Aqua/rising) and dreamed of change (Pisces Venus) lol

So its different for all Aquas...
Ive met a few mature 20-something Aquas in my time, but not many...
I think we get better with age.

But then, I would say that...

My Aqua guy (Taurus moon, Aries mars), can drop a person or relationship at the drop of a hat, but when it comes to learning from mistakes, that just doesn't happen. He'll do the same thing over and over with the same dismal results and wonder why bad stuff keeps happening. And will refuse any advice to fix the situation. Stubborn to the core.

I believe it has to do with karmatic evolution as well as exulted and debilitated planets more then signs.

Feby I like how considerate you... 😉

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