LonLon
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Lost in Air..
If you look at my other posts you will see that I'm quite a sensitive romantic Aqua. I'm also open to the idea of seeing both sides of any issue and then giving the people concerned a fair break — or enough rope to hang themselves if you prefer.
However, if what you??ve said is accurate then drop kick this guy out of the ballpark, because he's obviously playing you — and his game, if you can even call it that, is devoid of any beguiling subtlety. It's dreary, shallow, unimaginative, devoid of any artistry or craft, and to be honest embarrassing in its tenth rate simplicity.
Aquas are natural flirts - we flirt all the time. A little harmless flirting, devoid of any serious meaning, makes people smile — and Aquas love to make people happy and feel good about themselves. But if we are interested in someone, really interested, then we don't flirt seriously with anyone else. This guy just wants to rise to a challenge to satisfy his own twisted ego. He's the type of Aqua that gives us good Aquas a bad name.
If you want a broken heart then by all means keep entertaining his tawdry advances. Or take my advice, drop him, don't look back, and find someone else — anyone else.
However, if what you??ve said is accurate then drop kick this guy out of the ballpark, because he's obviously playing you — and his game, if you can even call it that, is devoid of any beguiling subtlety. It's dreary, shallow, unimaginative, devoid of any artistry or craft, and to be honest embarrassing in its tenth rate simplicity.
Aquas are natural flirts - we flirt all the time. A little harmless flirting, devoid of any serious meaning, makes people smile — and Aquas love to make people happy and feel good about themselves. But if we are interested in someone, really interested, then we don't flirt seriously with anyone else. This guy just wants to rise to a challenge to satisfy his own twisted ego. He's the type of Aqua that gives us good Aquas a bad name.
If you want a broken heart then by all means keep entertaining his tawdry advances. Or take my advice, drop him, don't look back, and find someone else — anyone else.
I agree with Harlequin. I bet you've covered his ass many times before so he wouldn't get into troubles. I bet he confused you all the time with his ever changing attitude. He might have pulled you close in the lift or in the office to get some benefits for his twisted ego while enjoying you looking confused and falling head over heel for him, yet till trying to helplessly pushing him away .... I bet he has enjoyed the phone game with you where he'd pretend to get angry when he didn't receive a reply from you but would ignore your calls/text and with some of the lamest escuses that you know it couldn't happen.I bet he got people got angry at him for his over flirting or dare I say "sexual harassment" in a way till the point that he got into trouble? I bet that he's around or over 40 as well and his behaviour is the same or getting worse by day. If all points are true to some per centage then you bet he won't change that fast . You can only stay there in his net to stroke his ego because all others have seen his true colour along time ago. Only you believe that the "dark and tragic" figure might need some saving.
Well,it's rare when a virgo x aqua relationship works out. . . i'm on the same page as you ,just that i am the aqua and the virgo played me.
So..if we aqua's are serious then we do stay loyal and we don't flirt with other people.If we are serious about someone then we do disappear but in a short amount of time are back again.
We don't change attitude towards the person we love,so my advice is to accept that he's a bastard and ask your friends for help so you'll feel better . (aka : going out for walks/for a drink or something like that) and with time you will forget the dude and see his real face.
We aqua's sometimes can be hurt by deep and smart sayings,so just tell him that "i don't love you,i loved only who i thought you were" and then let it go.
So..if we aqua's are serious then we do stay loyal and we don't flirt with other people.If we are serious about someone then we do disappear but in a short amount of time are back again.
We don't change attitude towards the person we love,so my advice is to accept that he's a bastard and ask your friends for help so you'll feel better . (aka : going out for walks/for a drink or something like that) and with time you will forget the dude and see his real face.
We aqua's sometimes can be hurt by deep and smart sayings,so just tell him that "i don't love you,i loved only who i thought you were" and then let it go.
@EXAM: EVERYTHING I mean EVERYTHING you stated..happend..smh..I mean everything down to his age...I don't know why I wanted to save him..but I kept my distances...did not hang with him for my bad day. We talked this weekend..later on that night I told him..I want you to tell you me you appreciate me and missed me. His responce. I love you and missed you...but when I looked at him face to face..ya, I see through the BS..I am a very romantic person, Very touch feely and that is odd for a Virgo, Very loving Virgo, and I think my kindess gets taken for my weekness..and at one point I felt like we connected....we use to be able to talk about anything...we kinda started back to that area...but my heart is healing from so many other things right now..I told him..you missed out on something that could have been good for you and too you..@Harlequin @ his flirting..I see...And his game is very old..to me..thus why when he told me he loved me..I did not respond the way he wanted me to I think..just like the first time..he kinda seemed up set I did not respond..but I don't beleive in throwing that word or action around..not my style ..I would never want to mistreat anyones heart.
@B.B Virgo men and women are diffrent..my youngest brother is a virgo.*born on my bday..I am older then him by 10years* They do havea commiment problem young..but as the grow older..the settle..trust me.
@B.B Virgo men and women are diffrent..my youngest brother is a virgo.*born on my bday..I am older then him by 10years* They do havea commiment problem young..but as the grow older..the settle..trust me.
It'd be easy for me to pre-judge this situation b/c of course, my 1st instinct was to tell you to run like hell & never come back. BUT when it comes to Aquas & their feelings (or lack thereof), things are always more complicated than necessary & confusing.
On 1 hand, it's VERY possible that this guy is just playing games with you. Idk WHY some people do this or WHAT they even get out of this, BUT it's very COMMON for an ex to creep back into someone's life & "test the waters" just for the HELL of seeing if they're sweet words/actions still have any AFFECT on the other person. This Aqua guy may not even want you back at all, BUT then again, he might truly still love you but know deep down that he doesn't deserve you. OR he might just continue on doing all of the things he's doing/saying b/c it's OBVIOUSLY working/affecting you. It sounds dead wrong & manipulative, but that's b/c it IS. Granted, some men are natural flirts, BUT it seems like his recent flirting is surprising to you, thus that only leads me to believe that flirting is something he must not do naturally or else you wouldn't be so disgusted right now. So him having a "wandering eye" all of the sudden is a BAD sign.
However, this Aqua male might still have unfinished emotional business with you. He may know deep down that things will never be the same again and/or that you 2 won't ever get back together, BUT remember, that doesn't mean his feelings for you completely shut off all the way.
Us ladies were all taught to believe that when a man takes out his time to kiss a woman passionately (and ESPECIALLY in certain places) that it must mean he cares more than the average Joe. BUT this probably isn't the case if his intentions from the get-go were to "WOW" you all for his own sneaky motives.
If I were you, I'd take a few steps back. If he's all of the sudden spewing out his emotions b/c it's his way of getting closure, that's fine. BUT, since you aren't yet exactly clear of his motives/intentions, it's best for you to be safe & keep your emotions at a distance. Don't EVER forget why things ended in the 1st place.
On 1 hand, it's VERY possible that this guy is just playing games with you. Idk WHY some people do this or WHAT they even get out of this, BUT it's very COMMON for an ex to creep back into someone's life & "test the waters" just for the HELL of seeing if they're sweet words/actions still have any AFFECT on the other person. This Aqua guy may not even want you back at all, BUT then again, he might truly still love you but know deep down that he doesn't deserve you. OR he might just continue on doing all of the things he's doing/saying b/c it's OBVIOUSLY working/affecting you. It sounds dead wrong & manipulative, but that's b/c it IS. Granted, some men are natural flirts, BUT it seems like his recent flirting is surprising to you, thus that only leads me to believe that flirting is something he must not do naturally or else you wouldn't be so disgusted right now. So him having a "wandering eye" all of the sudden is a BAD sign.
However, this Aqua male might still have unfinished emotional business with you. He may know deep down that things will never be the same again and/or that you 2 won't ever get back together, BUT remember, that doesn't mean his feelings for you completely shut off all the way.
Us ladies were all taught to believe that when a man takes out his time to kiss a woman passionately (and ESPECIALLY in certain places) that it must mean he cares more than the average Joe. BUT this probably isn't the case if his intentions from the get-go were to "WOW" you all for his own sneaky motives.
If I were you, I'd take a few steps back. If he's all of the sudden spewing out his emotions b/c it's his way of getting closure, that's fine. BUT, since you aren't yet exactly clear of his motives/intentions, it's best for you to be safe & keep your emotions at a distance. Don't EVER forget why things ended in the 1st place.
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