@cloudyminded
16 YearsPisces
how to make an aquarius do something?
Well honey, if he hasn't fallen to peer pressure yet from his own friends, there's probably a BIG reason why he hasn't. It seems he's already made up his mind NOT to smoke, for whatever reasons & since he hasn't allowed his decision to be swayed by a GROUP of friends, it's unrealistic to assume that you (just ONE person) could undue his final decision.
If he doesn't want to smoke, don't make him. Hey, if you want to, that's your business but if he doesn't want to, then respect that. You never know why he decided not to. Everyone has their own reasons that could range from family problems with drugs all the way to them simply just not wanting to.
He might've been "tricking" you or testing you to see if you'd fall to the pressure but that doesn't mean that he will. Idk why he was teasing/tricking you but it's obvious that if he hasn't picked up the habbit by now, there's a good chance he won't. And if he does all b/c of you, Idk if that's necessarily a good thing ;~/
Sounds like he was indeed tricking you to me. He obviously doesn't want to smoke but he was interested in seeing if you would respect and support his decision - as a true friend should - or try to force him into doing something he doesn't want to do. Giving you enough rope to hang yourself so to speak.
If you carry on applying the pressure instead of acting like a friend should then I'm fairly certain he will smoke on that day. His temperature will boil, the smoke will erupt from his hears and he will explode as only an Aquarian can.
Posted by FeistyAquarian
You can't make an Aqua do anything...we are fixed to the max! In fact, it's rather common to tell an Aqua to do something and then they will go out and do the exact opposite or ignore you.So good luck with this one!! 😉
Which makes things easy sometimes. 🙂
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Yup. Just be insistent about doing the opposite of what you want.
But if he knows that's what you're doing then it could get complicated. Maybe if you say it while you're doing a headstand or bending over and talking between your legs then...I don't know...see, I'm getting confused, so anything can happen at that point.
Posted by FeistyAquarian
You can't make an Aqua do anything...we are fixed to the max! In fact, it's rather common to tell an Aqua to do something and then they will go out and do the exact opposite or ignore you.So good luck with this one!! 😉
Which makes things easy sometimes. 🙂
True.
Just say...Dude!! Smoking weed is terribly horrible for you and I never want to see you do it ever!!
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I'm so happy I could find somebody to give me a straight answer! This is what I was going to go for.
The boards are so nice
Posted by FeistyAquarian
And damn, you look a lot like one of my Taurus friends!
I hope that's a compliment
Posted by pigeonpie
Cook something and sprinkle a bit in.🙂
😉
Posted by FeistyAquarian
You can't make an Aqua do anything...we are fixed to the max! In fact, it's rather common to tell an Aqua to do something and then they will go out and do the exact opposite or ignore you.So good luck with this one!! 😉
Which makes things easy sometimes. 🙂
True.
Just say...Dude!! Smoking weed is terribly horrible for you and I never want to see you do it ever!!
I'm so happy I could find somebody to give me a straight answer! This is what I was going to go for.
The boards are so niceclick to expand
Are you also going to do the part where you talk between your legs (my suggestion)?
And in pig latin, I want to add. "On't-day moke-say eed-way!"
im aqua and i have pressured ppl (aries/taurus/libra) into chiefin wit a nigga before..it aint nuttin
i jus like to see everyone have a good time and feel like me...jus knowinq how great the feelinq of floatinq in the air off sour diesel jus makes me want to spread the love...i aint gonna have my friend feelinq sick in the corner while eveyone is frass...NO..im makin my niggas smoke lol
^ exactly, i have nothing but mad love for my friends
"Make them do something"?
You can't, we only do it if we want to.
We are people, not a "challenge". And we're not stupid, so forget that reverse psychology rubbish because we're already playing it with YOU...but you don't realise it.
It comes down to respect. If we say "No", we don't need to justify it, the answer is still the same and you either respect it or you get lost.
Pushing people to do something will only cause resentment and you really don't want us to break out the passive-aggressive retaliation tactics.
Give it up, there's more for you to smoke if you do :o)
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My friend is telling me he won't smoke weed, all his friends do but he was saying how he was going to with me, then saying he was tricking me, but I am going to get him to smoke that day. Any suggestions?