Lucky!!

Well, i usually read a whole lot of Aqua bashing on here, so now i just wanted to say that i have ended up with maybe the best Aqua in the world and i?m delighted. He doesnt play the games, he isnt aloof or off-hand or immature, he?s simply great. True its been a short time, but everything we have so far is based on fun,truth and communication and it seems to be working for us. Maybe he?ll get colder, maybe not, but right now it seems hard to imagine how it could get better. Ahhhhhhhhh.

The libra/aqua thang = so true.

Most Aquas that I know are warm... Not cold.

It really depends on what 'you' bring out of each other. Sounds like the vibes are harmonious.

Yeah. it?s great! We share moods and the same ideas, its so weird. We were just saying how its weird that we?ve lived without each other until now, cute!

How did you two meet?

Did you get butterflies when you first laid eyes on him or did it grow to something different?

I could DEFINITELY see a libra & aqua together...quite happily

Oh most definetely Libra & Aquas mesh well together. So many people have heard about how cold & distant Aquas can be that when they meet one, they automatically expect to see these things in them & some people even make themselves believe that they see coldness & distance & other known Aqua traits even when they are not even present. Libras love verbal communication as a means of establishing anything real & Aquas require the same type of intellectual connection too as a means to get into our hearts.

BUT also know that Aquas normally start off as either very distant in the beginning or very forward & willing. The Aquas that give everybody an equal shot in the beginning normally don't turn cold or distant until something happens to make them this way (usually wrong doing on the other person's part) & I believe that happens with ANY & everybody (regardless of your Zodiac)

Yeah, we just met a month ago now, but we have been completely inseparable since then!! Actually he approached me, but my sister was over to visit for only 5 days and i told him i wasnt interested in being with him for that reason, but he came to the bar where he knew i was going and the rest is (recent) history.

Krysrenee..i have been waiting every day since to experience that Aqua coolness, but it has been the complete opposite, so im just starting to relax about the whole thing. In fact he?s just a little possessive and im wondering if im being too sensitive?? For example he was working on Saturday morning, and at some point he drove past my house. My shutters were still down at midday because i had stuff to do and didnt bother to open them. Anyways, i went shopping and AS SOON AS i got in the door, the buzzer went...i mean was he waiting outside for me to get home?? And then he said "what time did you get up/where have you been/show me what you bought" etc, totally questioning me..although not in a threatening way. Its unexpected, im expecting to be hit with a cold wind, and i get the other extreme. I told him i wasnt happy with him asking me, and he just said it was because he?s interested..whatever.

anyone showing up to your house without calling is boardline crazy and the fact that you havent really know him for too much longer than a couple of months is something to be worried about.


My aqua wasnt cold nor distant up untill recently, when we first start hanging out she was very warm i saw her all the time. It's not till recent weeks that she started disappearing on me.i"m not taken it to the heart i'm just letting things be.

virgo28: anyone showing up to your house without calling is boardline crazy and the fact that you havent really know him for too much longer than a couple of months is something to be worried about.

Hmm...ladies seem to be overexited when I drop in unsuspectedly with plans 4 the night...maybe I AM crazy...ha haa

Well, its finally happened..im being hit by the cold wind! Ha, i have to say that im kind of relieved because i just knew it was all good to be true (see above or previous posts). One day he cant get enough and the next bye-bye, not answering texts and avoiding me etc. Luckily im too busy right now to think too much about it.

Well, at least i cant say i wasnt warned 🙂

It is Aqua!! They are so hot/cold. Gotta love them, but they'll leave you hanging every time.

Let's see...count 3 Aquas on my hand...2 months for each, and by the second month, the cold wind was blowing in all three cases. The last Aqua, I didn't really notice when he stopped calling/texting/emailing. But then all of sudden, he's back now. Now I notice that he left, but his loss, because it didn't really affect me and I've moved on...

your aqua will be back. Your degree of whether you'll care or not is open to speculation.

Actually this afternoon he said he was dealing with some "minor" issues but i didnt ask him what they were. He said he will see me tonight for 1,000 kisses 🙂 Cant wait!!!!

Aries left out in the cold for an Aqua! OH THE HUMANITY!

"Aquas do this a lot, but the truth is, if you felt the connection, so did they, and they will always hold you in high regards..they probably didn't even realize they stopped getting in touch...and they probably didn't get in touch b/c they probably had nothing to say..."

Yeah there's usually only one of 3 reasons as to why we show up one day & disappear the next
1) We're not that interested (in the first place) & we know that if we shower you with attention, we'll be leading you on (so we try to balance out things for YOUR sake)

2) We can feel ourselves getting "too" attached to you (when we least expected it) & as a means for protection, we back off a little (not necessarily with the intention of NEVER coming back around, but for the intention of leaving long enough to see how WE feel when they're not around)

OR
3) We need our own space & independence. Aquas can love you HARD without having to see you or talk to you every day. Once they love you, that's it, it's done, there's no questions asked. Depending on our mood, sometimes we have a big craving for giving and receiving affection. And some days (since we figure that the foundation is strong enough to the point that space apart can't break the relationship) we just want to be alone. Sometimes we don't even realize that we "leave em hanging" but just like a typical aqua, we justify in our OWN minds why we needed the space anyways

Geesh...Now that I think about it, we are some pretty difficult creatures......(Long Pause): AWWW WELP!

Actually the reasons he was out of touch were none of the above!! He just knew i was in class so what was the point of calling when he cant reach me..i understand that. Besides we celebrated our first monh together yesterday..we are truly inseperable and we?re relocating together to the south in September. Its great, i have zero complaint.

Just to console others, i dont believe in the whole "i need space crap". That excuse goes for anyone and i?m sorry it means he?s not that interested so save precious minutes of your life and tell them to fuck off in the first "cold" instance. I have had it with aqua?s before and also others of other signs..they are not THAT unique!!!

Just to console others, i dont believe in the whole "i need space crap". That excuse goes for anyone and i?m sorry it means he?s not that interested so save precious minutes of your life and tell them to treetrunk off in the first "cold" instance. I have had it with aqua?s before and also others of other signs..they are not THAT unique!!!

well said lady sola.

Have fun with your Aqua, sounds like a dream.