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mixed signals from aqua guy?
he also forgot my birthday too so??
My advice is to friendzone him and find a real boyfriend, because for him you are one of his FRIENDS and this thing is ok for him, but let you waiting alone for probably nothing if you dont have a way to be togheter in the near future... Even if he likes you the distance will stop him to even think about somthing more serious.
For aqua a lover is more like a best friend with benefits. They are loyal and awsome lovers but you definatley need tge sexual tension, because this is one of the key factors that keep them in a relationsip. In a first place a deep friendship and in the second place a sexual tension (for aqua boys in particular, because aqua girls have somehow a feminine state of atachement but they are needing the sexual tension too).
In order for this thing to work you have to have a common vision about a possible future togheter (ex. We can move in the same country and town when we finish studies, etc.) witch he accepts and waits for somehow and keep somehow of a sexual tension, by hitting gym and droping ocasionally 2-3 sexy pics on social media or places where he can see them. They dont have to be ostentative, just find a reason to make him see one of those from time to time.
Even with this stuff it will be very hard and you should wait very long time with low chances of succes. Is not worth it. Is too mutch to wort it. So you better find another guy.
My sincere advice because I know how it feels but i personally decided that 6 months until i can be with her are a fair time to spent in hel 😆. Aries man in a long distance relationship with aqua girl.
For aqua a lover is more like a best friend with benefits. They are loyal and awsome lovers but you definatley need tge sexual tension, because this is one of the key factors that keep them in a relationsip. In a first place a deep friendship and in the second place a sexual tension (for aqua boys in particular, because aqua girls have somehow a feminine state of atachement but they are needing the sexual tension too).
In order for this thing to work you have to have a common vision about a possible future togheter (ex. We can move in the same country and town when we finish studies, etc.) witch he accepts and waits for somehow and keep somehow of a sexual tension, by hitting gym and droping ocasionally 2-3 sexy pics on social media or places where he can see them. They dont have to be ostentative, just find a reason to make him see one of those from time to time.
Even with this stuff it will be very hard and you should wait very long time with low chances of succes. Is not worth it. Is too mutch to wort it. So you better find another guy.
My sincere advice because I know how it feels but i personally decided that 6 months until i can be with her are a fair time to spent in hel 😆. Aries man in a long distance relationship with aqua girl.
Yeah it sounds like he has friend zoned you.
I didn't read anything but the title and I'm just gonna say one thing: mixed signals = emotionally unavailable for whatever reason. Therefore, don't even try with this guy.
Posted by 4freshthank you so much for replying
My advice is to friendzone him and find a real boyfriend, because for him you are one of his FRIENDS and this thing is ok for him, but let you waiting alone for probably nothing if you dont have a way to be togheter in the near future... Even if he likes you the distance will stop him to even think about somthing more serious.
For aqua a lover is more like a best friend with benefits. They are loyal and awsome lovers but you definatley need tge sexual tension, because this is one of the key factors that keep them in a relationsip. In a first place a deep friendship and in the second place a sexual tension (for aqua boys in particular, because aqua girls have somehow a feminine state of atachement but they are needing the sexual tension too).
In order for this thing to work you have to have a common vision about a possible future togheter (ex. We can move in the same country and town when we finish studies, etc.) witch he accepts and waits for somehow and keep somehow of a sexual tension, by hitting gym and droping ocasionally 2-3 sexy pics on social media or places where he can see them. They dont have to be ostentative, just find a reason to make him see one of those from time to time.
Even with this stuff it will be very hard and you should wait very long time with low chances of succes. Is not worth it. Is too mutch to wort it. So you better find another guy.
My sincere advice because I know how it feels but i personally decided that 6 months until i can be with her are a fair time to spent in hel 😆. Aries man in a long distance relationship with aqua girl.
he does flirt from time to time and says sexual things and during the last conversation we had he said that our conversations keep him stimulated mentally and sexually and he always compliments me saying im hot and pretty etc and ive noticed when i change my profile photo he tends to message me a day or two after despite ignoring me for weeks
we have sorta mentioned visiting each other and living together one day and over the past year ive noticed hes gotten more and more open and our conversations get very deep about things you cant talk to the average person about, thats why im so confused? i cant tell the difference between him flirting or being friendly.
he does flirt from time to time and says sexual things and during the last conversation we had he said that our conversations keep him stimulated mentally and sexually .Why are you sexting with someone who ignores you? It puts you in a position to be the "jack off" girl.
I didn't intend that mean, but just wanted you think about it.
Posted by truecapnoo dont worry about it being mean, i like honest peoplehe does flirt from time to time and says sexual things and during the last conversation we had he said that our conversations keep him stimulated mentally and sexually .Why are you sexting with someone who ignores you? It puts you in a position to be the "jack off" girl.click to expand
i dont know actually, it wasnt really full on sexting just flirting
i guess i just saw people talking about aquas acting like this then leaving and coming back because they start getting feelings for you and freak out bc they're not used to emotions
but that has opened my mind to the different possibilities
Posted by MrMiyagiright—!! thats what i thought! a week after my birthday he messaged me and i did mention it like i said 'im legal now so thats cool' when updating him about my life then he ignored everything i said and just replied to that and said that he was sorry he missed my birthday and asked me when it was
BIG RED FLAG:
Posted by helpmepls
basically recently he ignored me for 3 months
thank you
Any aqua guy or any guy who is interested doesnot forget somebody's birthday !!!! He may be likes you but he is not into you ........... atleast for now. Who the F disappears for 3 months ! Is his name mercury retrograde by any chance ?click to expand
i think whats confusing me is that i told him that he seems happier or more confident and he replied with 'thank you. thats great to hear.. probably more in love with you' ?? what does that mean!!! if you "love" me then why wont you talk to me for 3 months
Posted by Astrology101yeah i turned 18 but we're the same age hes 25th january 1997 and im 2nd october 1997 and we've been talking for about a year now, i think its the libra side of me craving love.. and the thing is i see different people say different things about aquarius on here, like if they like you they will ignore you and be aloof etc so im not sure anymore??Posted by helpmeplsWhat do you mean you are legal now?.... If you were not of age then it could prolly be one of the many reasons he wasn't pursuing you. And for good reason. If you are just 18... please take your time. This guy isn't even around. Take him as a friend for now... and don't make any notice of things unless he commits and does something concrete(ex: asks you if you like him)... If he likes you and wants to be with you he will let you know ... loud and clear. If you don't understand him, it is prolly a good thing to take your time.Posted by MrMiyagiright—!! thats what i thought! a week after my birthday he messaged me and i did mention it like i said 'im legal now so thats cool' when updating him about my life then he ignored everything i said and just replied to that and said that he was sorry he missed my birthday and asked me when it was
BIG RED FLAG:
Posted by helpmepls
basically recently he ignored me for 3 months
thank you
Any aqua guy or any guy who is interested doesnot forget somebody's birthday !!!! He may be likes you but he is not into you ........... atleast for now. Who the F disappears for 3 months ! Is his name mercury retrograde by any chance ?
i think whats confusing me is that i told him that he seems happier or more confident and he replied with 'thank you. thats great to hear.. probably more in love with you' ?? what does that mean!!! if you "love" me then why wont you talk to me for 3 monthsclick to expand
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im used to his typical disappearing acts for days to weeks at a time, but for some reason i thought they would eventually stop? or do aquas do this forever?
basically recently he ignored me for 3 months and thats the longest time hes done that, but during this time he also moved a second time to another country, then he messaged me saying he missed me and we had a good conversation and he seemed really talkative and he told me he started playing in a band and i jokingly said "how long does it take for the girls there to swarm when you're in a band" and he replied with "pretty quick tbh girls here are kinda slutty" "i havent been into anyones personality" "i like you" and then he changed the topic to something else after saying that, im just confused now because he hasnt talked to me since and its been 3 weeks and i wasnt sure if he was saying that in a friendly way— i have no idea and i dont know if hes interested in other girls, can aquas be players? i know people say there are 2 types of aquas like the introverted awkward one and the friendly outgoing one and hes definitely the quiet one
so yeah any advice/reassurance/perspectives would be appreciated, what are some big red flags that he loves you? its harder to figure out via text plus i think my biggest issue with him is trying to figure out the difference between his friendly talk and his flirty talk?
sorry for any confusion,
thank you