Libra women, should I take the lead?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by SofaKing on Wednesday, October 14, 2015 and has 8 replies.

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@J_suzanne14
10 Years

I'm a libra and i would say you should go ahead and talk to her. Especially if you've seen her around. I get very shy when i think someone could be interested in me and i want the guy to make the first move, then after that it's more of a give and take. She shouldn't reject you or anything since you have already talked on FB. She should be friendly and happy to know you noticed her! If you keep seeing her, but don't say hi, or even wave, then if i were her i would think you didn't have much interest. I hope this helps (:

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@letterbox10
10 Years

Posted by SofaKing
Hello everyone!

I've come here for a bit of advice from my fellow libras 😉

This girl that goes to my Uni just started texting me through FB. The thing is we've really never spoken to each other, I just added her to FB because I thought she was pretty (eh.. lol).

We're both med students and apparently she found out through my profile I'll be going to X hospital for training. So she just texted me about it with smiley faces and all that, and asked me about it because she wanted to know more about that hospital.

I told her we could maybe have a talk at school since I don't like chatting through FB, and she said yes, that we should talk at school.

However I've seen her walking around me at school but never stopping by to say hi.

I thought libra women didn't like to be pursued, so I've restrained myself from saying hi the past few days.

Should I go ahead and be the first to talk or should I wait for her to make a move? or what?

lol

thanks!

Make a move already! Gahhh! 😄

You were the one who mentioned the two of you should talk about it at school, so she's probably waiting for you to approach her to talk about it. God, you med students, so damn smart but so socially-awkward... they really don't teach social skills in med schools do they? *rolls eyes*

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@fkpkr
10 Years

make a move. if she likes you she's just waiting for you. we only hate "the moves" if we dont like the guy

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@DD_Raymond_Reddington
10 Years

From one man to another, it is always appropriate for you to take the lead. If the relationship begins with her leading, it may end that way too. Be in-charge - not bossy, not over-bearing, but quietly and confidently in-charge..

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@LibWman
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I agree take the lead and pursue her especially if she seems interested. I wouldn't even bother with a man unless I was actually interested so she most probably is.