My aquarius guy is so aloof!

My latest love interest is an Aquarius. He know he likes me! But when we finally get comfy.... he gets distant. What is up with that? I have Aquarius in Mars and I am too this way to a certain extent. Any Aqua males out there have an explanation from the guy point of view?

WOW!!!! I cannot believe how many questions there are about Aqua guys being soooo aloof!

Yeh...read the two posts above and these others are good too...

Do's and Don'ts for dating Aquarius

What do Aqua Guys Look for in a Relationship with

Is this Aquarius Guy into me?

Trying to understand Aquarius Men

Good Luck! 😛

"Message posted by: primegen on 6/17/2006 11:46:58 PM
Yeah, maybe if women just learned to treat us the way we like rather than the way they want, they wouldn't ask this question all the time."

Thats would be easy if the Aquas didnt be so aloof in the first place. Thats the point! I'm not into playing fruitless games. I like to get to the point. Say what you want because I dont read minds.

He gets distant with me. Everytime we talk and get flowing if the conversation gets too much for him he gets distant with his emotions. He has to go! It never fails. He wants me to believe he is unmoving emotionally. I know otherwise. I feel that he wants me to chase him and I'm not going to. I'm very upfront. It is what it is with me. I'm very good at getting people to open up to me early usually. I am a good person who sincerely cared about others well being but when I talk to him he keeps his distance when he know he likes me!

My patience is thin so even though Sag and Aquas are suppose to be able to deal, I will move on quick by nature but I want to stick around to see if he opens up more. What do aqua males really seek? how do they usually perfer a person to get to know them? its hard to get to know them truly because they stay at bay.

No, Im not into the whole ego stuff. If he thought I was boring he would say so. He is just as blunt as me with views on people and things. His emotions with him at stake is different. He acts as if he doesnt like me when in fact I know he does. Thats the real issue here. I dont want him to chase me! its stupid. I like to get to the point. Its either you are seeking to be with me or you are not, simple. Being unpredictable naturally is fine by me when we having fun and stuff but not with emotions. I want him to let me know how what he wants to do. Obviously he likes me if he cant say he does because I know if he didnt he would quickly say he doesnt bluntly.

He says "Why didnt you call me or leave a message?" I say I called you yesterday and I was doing something. He says "No, dont do that!" Now if I say "Why didnt you call me?" He says "Well you just have to get use to me not calling you everytime, you cant get uptight about that."

With various people I have seen him around or come into contact with he is like any normal person. With people who are close to him (family) he is distant with his emotions. He use treat me like normal. As we got more in depth he became distant. Its hard to explain.

Geminilover, yeah thats true! I just want him to admit it. I dont understand why he is fighting the emotions.

OMG I do the same thing...its something about someone knowing u too well that freaks me out.

You know what just deal....that goes for HP74 too.
Check out her board: Deciphering...

aqua men are just too cool for most😉

AprilBaby,
I'm glad you feelin me on this one.

I'm just starting to kinda 'see' this aquarius.. man.. ya'll got me nervous LOL even though.. i think i would like the 'aloofness' seeing i can't stand clingy.. GL.. are the men and women both that way?

"Message posted by: Lady_M on 6/19/2006 12:21:26 PM
OMG I do the same thing...its something about someone knowing u too well that freaks me out.

You know what just deal....that goes for HP74 too.
Check out her board: Deciphering..."

I went to dinner with my cousin yesterday. She is an Aqua and her boyfriend mentioned something mushy to her in regards to a farytale marriage proposal he wanted to do for her and she got really weird. Its plain and obvious she loves him but the emotional comment made her somewhat embarrassed or something. She kind of joked him off like "Haha, you too deep" she knew she liked it though. She just denied it.

She made it as it didnt bother her either way.

Due to the fact that they might want something more that we (I) can give...

i love that song, i played it until i broke

not I broke,(mistake) it the CD!! i dont break!

'I cleaned the house....'

WOW a man cleaning his house??!!!😛😛