Need advice!!

So...I am with an aqua who just recently said he wants to be exclusive. Yay! Right? Well....I just discovered that he is on some adult site that is geared towards NSA, FWB, if you will. I am not sure how to take this! Help!

Hi WWilson,
First off let me ask you this? Have you ever "dabbled" with your sexuality? And what sign are you?
Aqua men and woman can get a little freakish in the bedroom pushing the boundries between rique and down right dirty.
If you are not the type, nor have never expieremented with the idea of a swingers party, threesome (with female or male)then the Aqua may not be for you. They are above and beyond in mind, so to share the body is something that does not bother them, but does bother the rest of us.
They connect on a intellectual level, not the physical.
So your Aqua being on a NSA/FWB site, tells me, he enjoys the "freakish" side of himself, plans on continuing this cycle, or will ask you to join.
Depending on where you are at depends on if you will partake or not.
And don't tell him you are game, and then back out. He will see right through it. Try it if you like or try to bring out his other more "decent" fantasies.
Some may not be as bad as you think. 🙂

I'm a sag. I am very open to new things or what others may consider "freaky". What I don't like is being in the dark. He opened his email while sitting with me and there was an email from this site. I didn't know what it was and just happened to look this morning. If he claims we are exclusive and yet is on this site trolling, I have a problem with that. I have NO issues as long as he is open as honest. I am not sure how to approach it with him.

Has he ever talked to you about his sexuality? Or rather, his fantasies?
Ask him what some of his fantasies are. You will find out a whole lot about him, and what he likes.
As for finding his email, are you sure you were not looking for it? It seems to me you are trying to find out the truth without talking to him?
Talk to him. See what happens. Him keeping you "in the dark" is what is making you see him in the wrong "light".
🙂

Ask him what his definition of "exclusive" is.

Go from there.

only u have the q to this question. so he wants to b exclusive -- cool. he's on adult websites though -- how do YOU feel about that? if u can accept it, cool. move on & be happy. if it really bothers u and u think u'll continue to nag him about it forever then pls just stay friends lol