need help :(

I'm an Aquarius duh! But I need help...I can't seem to detach myself from this problem...Me and my best friend( a Capricorn) split up...i got freaken tired of her shit and having to apologize all the time...and so I backstabbbed her so we wouldn't be friends anymore. She thinks that I'm trying to get people against her. WRONG. I'm not like that, but she's doing that to me.....I don't care...and yet...I feel so heartbroken that she's trying to steal ppl away from my life b/c i supposedly did that to her. I mean I'm trying to distance myself from this situation and I just can't seem to be truly unemotional towards this situation.

Be brutilly honest with us aquarian child and we will give u the answers.

spit it out how did u back stab her?...

Just cos ur an aquarian doesnt mean u can detatch yourself from shit like a light switch.....aquarians make friends really easy were the sign of freindship.....of course its gonna hurt u hearing ur ex bestie is spreading shit about u...who knows maybe u deserved it and need to apologise to her *again*.

stealing people from your life sounds so dramatic....people are sheep theyre not stolen cos its illeagle...theyre hearded away....by another shepard in your case little bo peep.....what u need to do is show that ur side of the grass is greener. and they will come running.

but once theyre in your feild shut the gate and keep the bitch out.

well she asked if i'd like to go out with her to church...i said no....she got angry that i didn't want to spend time with her outside of school...i just really want to get rid of her for a long time...i mean she's very...how do you say...negative..she's like a damn scorpion man...ugh...she's a poisonus person...she's evil!!!!!!!......anyways....so I guess i told another besty of mine about the situation...she had a whole lot to say about the cappy....i mean my bestie who i told the issue to had huge issues with her too....and the cappy thought that i was talking behind her back to other ppl but i was trying to explain my situation and they had to say that they felt the same way about her...to almost everyone that i am close to....she seems like....the devil....am i really wrong about letting ppl express themselves about her? particularly the ppl she that me and her were close too? and when i say sorry to her every time we both have an issue im the one that has to forget about the situation...im the one that's always wrong...when clearly she admitted to that she was the person that was always wrong...that was only last week that she said that. i don't believe her...i mean....god...she's such a you know what...gosh i just wish that i could forget about this situation like the rest...and i don't know how to anymore...

sometimes when people are playing up u need to go up to them and give them a good slap for theyre own sake......yeh caps can be really depressing....but i read theyre good for aquas for spiritual reasons which is why shes trying to drag u to church....in my case my cappy would bring weed over evertime and wed read celestine prophercies together and do her naturopath assignments together ~sigh~ i miss thee......

anyways......stop playing the victim.....you need to know its ok to be in trouble sometimes even hated that your gonna piss her off so what she can deal with it!

you expressed ur problems about her to ur bestied and it did a domino effect on the school yard.....it was bound to happen.

the bitch got what was coming to her u need to change ur perception of the situation so it makes u feel better that trait is alot better than making urself detatched and it comes in an aquarian package

your right...but i did explain how i felt about the situation to her...she called me fake which im not...I do admit that i need to stop acting like the victim, but she needs to act like she actually cares. I don't know what the hell it is with cappys but they always seem to attract to me and i just don't seem to like that...im not a religious person like her and she should know by now that i don't hangout with people from my school outside of school...i mean she should pretty much get the point of who i am...the both of have been friends for 2 years and practically know everything about each other...

Well 1...Don't ever feel bad for being honest about your opinions about others. Sure, there's always a right/wrong way to go about EXPRESSING those very opinions, but either way, how you feel is how you feel. And even though it might suck to keep your mouth shut about her, especially if you have valid complaints, BUT it's apparent that the people you are telling don't have any problem getting your "thoughts" back to her. You might've meant well & been as honest as it gets BUT problem with telling other people how you REALLY feel about your own best friend is that the story is NEVER in it's original form by the time it gets back to the person being talked about. So I'm not saying it's your fault for having an opinion BUT you also have to take responsibility. If you didn't say much (& especially if you're not going to say it to her face) then no one can twist anything. People can't twist words that never happend/were said.

2. This is all childish. Who cares if she's taking all your friends away. It's obvious they weren't really your friends to begin with if they're willing to up & walk away from you all in the name of hearing 1 side of the story (hers). I know it's easier said than done BUT at the same time, you've got to grow up & move on. These things happen in friendship all the time.

Let her embarrass herself. Don't go around talking about her, even if you mean well b/c you've already got proof that people can twists your words if you do. Stop giving her and/or anybody ELSE the ammunition to further make things worse b/w you & your best friend. You said so yourself that you were waiting to get rid of her a long time ago, so be happy! Be careful what you wish for b/c you just might get it. AND you did! Honey, in life people will talk about you EVEN when you've done no wrong; you might as well get used to that now. It's not what they call you, it's what you answer to. Keep your head held high & go about your business. Trust me, eventually she'll get the point (better that way) & finally leave you alone.

If she's evil, oh well. Let the people running around & kissing her azs & believing her figure that out. Better them than you

ILL give you some advice stay the fuck away from Capricorns, You should apologize to us for posting this shit.

I hope that is an apple your sticking in your mouth and not cake your to young to get into bad habbits also we need a drama board so these people have some place to go.

very good