need my fellow aquas to slap me a vote on this

I've been thinking a lot about long term, I've been foolish most of my life and dated and loved people in the wrong ways too fast. Obviously the fact that I'm doing this raises red flags. Here's my problem.
Him: passive, he has a lot more compassion for people who act like complete idiots, even called me names and he still stands by them (I got into a debate with a native american who claimed that Americans are the best thing to exist, I reminded him that Americans....well could be more specific than Americans...but the white man has robbed the natives of their land, ends up calling me a bitch because I told him he's blind) he has no problem with threesome's, kissing men, and having no standards as to where to draw the line. His Gemini Venus and cancer mars makes him passive af.
Me: I seem passive and I can be passive about things such as food or simple choices but sleeping with multiple people and having sloppy careless relations everywhere makes me feel discusting inside just thinking about it.
I also can't stand people who stand up for those who act out of negativity or claim to be so powerful. I have rules that I live by and I've dated plenty to know staying here where I am with my pants on is where I am safe.
I've been debating on up and ignoring him, giving myself time to lose feelings or move on. I live him and I know with given time I can move on... Maybe years if that.
Despite the fact that we all have our own outlook, perspectives and values in life, looking at me and him as two individuals, say...if you were me and you knew how strongly I feel about just loving one person, would you move in? In one answer say yes...or say no.
Thank you my fellow Aquarius

I have a sagg mars and cap Venus.

Move on* we need a f'n edit button

what?? 😕


i had to re-read 3x. i should have stopped at 2x.

i still dont get what you're trying to do? is there a purpose to this?

Posted by downstairsmixup
I've been thinking a lot about long term, I've been foolish most of my life and dated and loved people in the wrong ways too fast. Obviously the fact that I'm doing this raises red flags. Here's my problem.
Him: passive, he has a lot more compassion for people who act like complete idiots, even called me names and he still stands by them (I got into a debate with a native american who claimed that Americans are the best thing to exist, I reminded him that Americans....well could be more specific than Americans...but the white man has robbed the natives of their land, ends up calling me a bitch because I told him he's blind) he has no problem with threesome's, kissing men, and having no standards as to where to draw the line. His Gemini Venus and cancer mars makes him passive af.
Me: I seem passive and I can be passive about things such as food or simple choices but sleeping with multiple people and having sloppy careless relations everywhere makes me feel discusting inside just thinking about it.
I also can't stand people who stand up for those who act out of negativity or claim to be so powerful. I have rules that I live by and I've dated plenty to know staying here where I am with my pants on is where I am safe.
I've been debating on up and ignoring him, giving myself time to lose feelings or move on. I live him and I know with given time I can move on... Maybe years if that.
Despite the fact that we all have our own outlook, perspectives and values in life, looking at me and him as two individuals, say...if you were me and you knew how strongly I feel about just loving one person, would you move in? In one answer say yes...or say no.
Thank you my fellow Aquarius

oh ok...
you want to know if this guy is good for you or not?

if he annoys you, why are you with him? Let him be. He is who he is.

btw, hello Patti Smith 😄 😄 😄


it's just that you look so closely similar to the young Patti Smith.



*waves*

Posted by lisabethur8
btw, hello Patti Smith 😄 😄 😄


it's just that you look so closely similar to the young Patti Smith.



*waves*

Haha she looks like my mom

Thanks for the inspiration. Talked to my fellow Aquarius sun, he has a Scorpio moon and cap Venus, I really value his opinion. He said all red flags and to run for the hills. The hills it shall be. Thnx!