ok she is a slut....

enuff say... i guess she give me an answer... she just wrote a butt load of things on her page and put this guy picture in her page and has a heart on it w/ his name... i mean like cmon.... and the dood looks like something out of a movie... the bad kind... anyways... if she wana do that. its her choice, i think she just dont want something too good to be true, and she never tell me her answer...

immuture.... wasted me so muchhhhhh fcuking time. im done, and done. i give her my heart, she give me poop in return, i mean if the guy was remotely good looking then maybe... i would feel better, but she took a piece of crap, and im not being bias. hes like bad looking dood. anyways, if thats the answer she give me then i will take it as a thanks, dont need to waste anymore time. god if she only know how many girls are interested in me, but whatever.

its stupid, shes young. dunno what is better, blah blah. i said to myself, i dont feel like playing in her game anymore... she just too full of it, and she will get hurt, i dont like that, but i realize she needs her lesson too. i guess im not important to her and she just do that to my face knowing that i will see it. har you know what, its her lose.

i can offer her her dreams, and she offer me craps, alot of it. no more mr.nice guy, if she told me like it is we could have still be friends, you know... no games, but by her not saying like anything its retarded, and now its not that my feeling is hurt, its showing me how immuture she really is. i never look at her as immuture, but thats she ever give me.

if she told me she dont like me, i would atleast put her close to my heart, and now she lose that too, too bad i have a feeling she will come back but now that shes cant have that spot in my heart anymore.
i might be a little full of myself, but whatever. when she gets old, and still dating these losers(gangsta wanabe...), and have nothing. i wonder if she would think back and say what if i date that guy who's (one of the richest kid in town)(also a very nice person)(and funny)(okey and immuture). i just wonder if she will think back when she is older...

maybe its my problem that i let her push around, so i guess i'm too soft, i didnt see anything wrong with it because i loved her. but she just think i'm her batch or something...lol doood, if i'm a dick i would say i can buy your whole fcuking family and sale it and buy it back again... but whatever. this is just angry talk. sorry. anyways.... i know there is a girl whos interested in me and i kinda find her cute. god why am i so faithful to this girl, well anyways if there something happen i will update this. pz out.

From the words of Madonna (from Forbidden Love - Erotica):

"Rejection is the greatest aphrodisiac..."

Candyman66 maybe that's why you're drawn to her so much. If you love her that much let her be herself - and ironically she will probably be more likely to drift closer to you again.

You know what?

You sound like a kid who can't have his candy so you're having a tantrum. Now you're calling her a "Slut." Is she? Did she sleep with a bunch of guys you know? What exactly qualifies her as a "Slut?"

Take some of your money and spend it on tuition for finishing school and learn how to be a gentleman.

Getting burned sucks, we all know that, but calm down. Seems like you are a bit aggressive and attach too much of your self-worth to your wealth. Obviously your money doesn't mean that much to her.

Yeah I mean we come to that part of civilisation where different types of life style s exist. When people use the word slut- i wonder how much welcome is a woman who can be very comfortable with her sexuality and exercises her right to make her choice without having to prove her "decency" & in her own terms.

ok ok, i might over express my feeling. but the whole point is just like you say, when a kid lose his candy, hes sad, but can he have his moment of sadest where he can say wahever he wants and wouldnt feel bad about it for once, that's all i'm saying. because i do respect her for whaever she's worth, that is why i spend so much times. but like i say, dreams are too good to be true. life is funny, and i feel like i can finally move on... so either way all of you guys comment show you cared. thanks. the day is still early, if anything happens i will update it pz.

What your going through is too bad. There ARE some women out there who like to be treated well and who appreciate it. Maybe you should try to look for someone older?

A long time ago a friend of mine was consoling me over a rough break-up I had. He told me to put the guy "on a shelf." He said not to throw him out of my life completely, but just to put him away somewhere. You know what happened? My life moved on and I forgot what shelf I put him on.

This will pass quicker than you know.

But listen, always keep your hands clean in the end. Don't ever act in a way or say such things where you make yourself loose class. Let the girl have good memories of you regardless of the situation. It will make it easier for her to return to you later if she wants.

Then, you can dump the bitch.

candyman99c, im sorry to hear this for you but this is what i was trying to tell you in my post because from your post i could know she was not serious. This is what i meant by just enjoy Your life. You'll know the Right One becasue she will give you just as much as you give. When you move on and she see you are happy with your life that is maybe when she want you back. But then it maybe too late for her. Good Luck!

"When you move on and she see you are happy with your life that is maybe when she want you back But then it maybe too late for her."

May not be. Or may be. But all this makes it sound like as if the female in question dserves to be punished.

Candyman many have been on this road that you have been through. HUman mind and relationships are jsut too complex to have soem simple answers. Here your trauma is more to do with your inability to pull back from her rather than her lack of open communication with you. And I am glad you are accpeting this.

All of us have a right to vent out our feelings. When disaapointment hits actually what happens is that we wud love to blame the forces which are out of our control or we start blaming hte perosn whom we were expecting soem fulfillment from and the person doesnt measure up. But actually what really happens is our mind is cursing our own self for nto seeing and accpeting what was always obvious.

The best thign to do is to forgive ourselves FIRST. The rest will be simple.

"When you move on and she see you are happy with your life that is maybe when she want you back But then it maybe too late for her."

May not be. Or may be. But all this makes it sound like as if the female in question dserves to be punished.

Looneybird, No im not saying this as if she deserves to be punished,.being the Aqua that I am and the female in question is also Aqua,.this has happened to me because i know my aloofness and not take things so seriously i have pushed away a few"good guys" and realized this untill Later. Now in having said that maybe she has done the same maybe she has not. maybe she just wasnt feeling him and only wanted him as a friend, I really cant say. They're both young so thats a factor also. If an Aquarian like you ,.you'll know it there wont be any doubts or games played and then again like OFA said hell I confuse myself sometimes,lol

It's not punishment, it's called taking ownership for your life. The only punishment will be self on her. She sounds shallow and shallow people hate knowing they missed out. But by the time that day comes, he will have been engrossed in his own live to even care what she thinks. He will have the self confidence to not be put back in such situations. In the end no one cares for his heart other than him. I'm telling him how to help himself. As for her, that's not is concern anymore.

Thank You Primegen!, thats whats i was trying to say,.now that was Well Said!

LOL Primegen..the last one is sure funny.

I was anticipating the reply that you gave. see my point is that is it necessary that the female is goign to regret not having him once he moves away form her? We always try to make our friends/acquaitances feel better by telling them that "the loss is his/hers". Is it necessary to get a grip on ones life by wishing that the ohter one day looks at the rejected party as a great loss? And mind you in this whole event what she may miss is his friendship and not him as a lover. See this is the loss. And I am not goign to question why it should be. Many peopel think that once friendship progresses to love expectations and once the love goes phut it cant be reverted to frenship.

In any given situation the female and male perspectives are both important. it gives a good balance to both the sexes. 🙂

Blueaqua I do get your point. I am just adding another pespective to this situation.

"Blueaqua I do get your point. I am just adding another pespective to this situation."

looneybird,its cool, points and perspectives are a good thing*wink*: )

ok, what a day. alot of random shit happens, its unreal. i mean this morning i wrote the message and got out to work, blame, got hit by a trunk... okey... funny how life works you know... anyways... the whole day i just been taking batching all day... which i can handle... and i went out smoke a cig, and i just saw my aunt out of no where... didnt expect that one, i hide my smoking soooo what a day.

Read through the posts here. Nothing proves that candyman's heartthrob is immature. Assumptions assumptions assumptions. Blimey!!!!

Branh - until a woman knows and understands herself, she cannot possibly know or understand what she desires. I also feel this same applies to men = superficial relationships - good point. Perhaps this also has a lot to do with age? I know what I want - a man ignores me? yeah, okay...no relationship there - next! What you are speaking of in the above is "game playing" and for some, this is what they want - for others...it is simply a waste of our time!

You have made some very valid observations thou 😉

Just you wait Branh...one day when you least expect it...she will enter into your life and you my friend will never be the same 😉

Branh is human - we ALL fall and so will you, someday. 😉

Never say Never!

I'm not following this too closely but I gather that this aqua female is just not playing by this mr virgo's rules and not that she is simply a bad or nasty person. There is no set of rules by which every couple on the planet must follow to have a fulfilling and lasting relationship; it's more a case that the two people share the same values and priorities and can communicate well with eachother. That's why if mr virgo loves this girl then he should let her be herself because, afterall, if she changed her true nature, would she not be losing the essence of what makes him love her?

i understand what you guys are saying, but shes hanging w/ these bad boys wanabe... and thats not a right path to go... i mean i been there, and its all wasted of time, if it wasnt my friend who died then i would still be one of those bad boys, and most of them dont end up pretty... i just dont want her to trap in these life, i think she been living that kinda a life for a while, i seen her older friends... going no where. i guess i just want her to have better one... even its not w/ me. thats why i pushed my love to her in a way, that way they can detach from those people, but nope, she went back... and im like man...shes cutting school, hanging out w/ gangbangers... i mean cmon... she think they are cool... lol give me a break.