Rude Aquarians

Well, the aquarians here must be a rare breed, because this girl i have been trying to get to know is RUDE, RUDE, RUDE! And i can't be bothered anymore 😉

She is arrogant and has no reason to be.

She is short.

She is kind of good looking, but not in a typical way, so i don't understand why she walks around with her nose in the air like nobody is good enough for her...?

Whilst i still think she is kind of cute (and that's visually only), she is in no way like the guys and girls here... Not interesting, not funny (at least i don't think so), not impartial and not gracious. And you can rattle on about how an aquarian doesn't care about what others think, but she is ridiculous. She doesn't care to the point of being RUDE.

She is definately an astrological anomaly. I am an interesting person, nice, and educated.

And who ever said libra and aquarius are a good match? I don't think so.

Sorry, just venting. I usually like aquarians, but this one has left me cold, numb and limp. Just like her personality.

Nah,that friend is the one thats the rare breed of aquarian.All but one has been quiet so when thier snapped out of it,something may seem rude but it's not arrogance it's just blunt honesty,based on the ones I know.And thats alot my father,brother,uncle,boyfriends sister,and quite a few friends.Most of the time they seem to be more concerned with you and having fun rather than themselves.They do got thier issues but it's usually not any of those it's usually insecurities of some type.They don't have much faith in themselves on some things.

Ok, here's my comment, as an Aquarian who tries to be aware of my strengths and also my failings (I'm a way foregone Aquarian with nearly 100% of the stereotypical traits . . .). You simply have to think outside of the box; say something to her that is completely unexpected, unconventional and bizarre. It doesn't matter what it is: tell her she looks like Emma Goldman, tell her you really, really like "fake plastic trees" by Radiohead, tell her that the most brilliant movie of the last 20 years is "The Big Lebowski --
it doesn't really matter, so long as it is completely out of the box and crazy. You just have to shake her up to get her to realize that you actually exist. Once she notices, she will spend one whole hell of a lot of time checking you out; you may actually have to fend her off. . . .

oh is that why,they like me?i am kinda weird alot.

I guess i don't want to have to "think outside of the box" to allure her, or anybody else for that matter. Well, i do "think outside of the box", but i don't see why i should have to jump through hoops to prove it to her. If she wants to talk to me, then she should try to get to know me. Afterall, she has been the one who has been staring, and for no apparent reason. I am going to be honest and ask her straight out, why she has been staring at me. That should put an end to her little game.

I got this off a website:

"Negative traits of Aquarius: Self absorbed, rude and without tact, prone to eccentricity, unwilling to share ideas or fight for beliefs, voyeuristic curiosity about others and rude".

What i don't understand is why the Aquarians on this board and most of the ones i have known in real life are not like this? Yet this excuse for a human being i am trying to avoid is...

Help! How do i get this girl off my back? What started out as interest has now turned to sour grapes and it is all her fault. I am simply minding my own business.

How do i shake her?

Hi Greeneyes..sorry to hear about your friendship going sour - hopefully and maybe in time things will work out but....if it is not for the moment and it is causing you much stress then change needs to happen. This situation is not particular to any one sign so no one please take offense. As in any relationship where you know the issue cannot be resolved than the "no contact" rule must be applied and STICKING TO YOUR WORD is a must! Once you give in - your word then means nothing and the cycle begins again - so, if you really want to end this relationship no before hand if you want to implement the "no contact" rule. It does work.

My best wishes to you my friend and to your friend as well~

ooopsss...no means "know" - typo!

I've tried ignoring her, it just makes it worse.

We were never in a relationship, infact, we hardly know each other as friends. We work together and i sort of have a superior position to her, so that's where the fascination for me (i am assuming she is interested in me in some way, or else why would she look at me so much?) comes from *i think*.

If ignoring them works, then perhaps i should give her more attention so she leaves me alone? But i'm not sure i want to be left *that* alone now... Oh so confused.

What is this convulted "relationship" i have with her? It's driving me mad. On one hand i hate her guts, and on the other, i feel as though i am hanging in there for some unkown reason, unbeknownst to myself.