Ignoring them does work!!!

The aqua that pretty much "dogged" me sent me a text message out of the blue!! 12:30am my phone beeps and I get ..."Sorry I shouldn't have done you like that. Don't respond to this. I had to get it off my chest" Ain't that a HOOT??!!!!
It took a month and a half...but it did work. I ignored him and he came to me...WOW

"Don't respond to this." Think about it. He wants to release his words for himself. Just be careful sweetie. He should want your response, otherwise it's still all about him, his timing, his blah blah blah

-pessimistic exlover of aquarians

yeah well pay attention to the ass and hes running for the hills, i hate the games!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i can only handle it for so long, the dilly dally blah blah i mean sure we all want a challenge but sometimes it becomes too much AQUAS DEFINATELY respond to being ignored, its a sick thing.

do i sound bitter?...heh

I agree with TaurusGoddess...I think it may still be about him in his head. Wait him out and don't respond. See what happens

CL

Oh believe me I know it IS all about him..I knew from the "I just had to get this off my chest." comment. That wasn't to make me feel better. He did it to clear his head because deep down he knew he was wrong. Plus I had been praying for God to not allow him to rest until he made things right. My faith tells me he hasn't slept well in WEEKS!! God is so AWESOME!!

OH I forgot to mention that after that text I responded with a simple "thank you." He texted back "THANK YOU!!!" just like that. His concious(sp) is eating him alive!!
Prayer works!!

aquarious men are a bunch of immature little boys but boy can they kisssss

hey i should know i'm aquarious myself

AMEN!! YESSSS THEY CAN!!! Thats what hooked me in!!! Our first date we kissed for damn near four hours straight!! WHEW!!

Yes Aqua men are some of the best kissers...

They have juicy lips!

OH AND HE CALLED TONIGHT!!! Out of nowhere again. Very chatty!! I ended the convo because I got another call. He sounded so shocked when I was like "I have to call you back. I gotta take this other call..." He was like "Uhhh errr okay bye." YES I SHUT HIM DOWN!! WHOOO WEEEEEE YEAAAA MEEEEEE!!!

And he sent me an email talking about how much he enjoyed our conversation!!! Wow I'm 3 for 3...

We texted back and forth for a lil while a few days ago. I called and left a message. I'm kinda glad he didn't answer..*smile* I'm still amazed he got back in touch at all. I'm also happy I'm om the other side of the emotional fence.

I can't believe you turds talking about Aquarian men with such contempt!! First, you are freaking right about the kissing thing, no one surpasses us; not the Scorpio hotheads, not the Libra sensitive souls, not even the Aries hotheads -- we know how to kiss beautiful women by INSTINCT. Your comments about ignoring us, I must admit, are absolutely correct! That get's our attention real freaking quick. We are a bit astounded and wonder what the f*ck is going on. Then we panic and simply have to call to find out what in God's name is going on!!!!! We may even call repeatedly, obsessively, depending on the circumstances. The odd thing is, we can neglect you women for WEEKS before we reach this state. But have you noticed that we always treat women very, very carefully; as though they were queens and demi-gods and half-divine. At least I do. Maybe I deviate a bit on this point. . . .

I have no freaking idea why I am baring my soul on this point, so that you all get inside information about these things, but I just can't help myself. I feel sad that so many Aquarians never get married and transmit their genes to the next generation (our only hope!), because no one understands what in God's Name we are doing or thinking about. For instance, how in God's name could I go through 42 years without getting married? I just don't understand it. Remember, Aquarius is both the sign of genius and of madness; too many of us have been lobotimized in the past. We tend to lay low most of the time; and I can't believe that I am actually (1) writing this message, (2) posting it on some public site.

The truth shall set you free 🙂

I agree with all of it. He is the best kisser and also he has been calling and texting me like we just met!! I still keep my distance because I dont trust him with my...anything!!!I have taken a HUGE step back!! I am watching him! I am afraid if I let him back in he will only hurt me again.

Oh definately!! Hes not getting anything from me...I would like to say ever again but I'm being honest...until he proves himself to me. And its gonna take a lotta proving!!!! I don't trust him so much that I prolly couldn't perform anyway.

I don't think it's ignoring them that works I think it's giving them their space to figure out what they want. being true, sincere and honest with yourself and them is the only way to go. Something about you has him doubting your connection and he needs the space to figure it out or it could be him testing you to see how sincere and deep your feelings are for him. Either way if it's meant to be it will be and agonizing over it makes you un happy get on with your life and do some honest soul searching about how true your connection with him really is.

aqua are the best kisses! AQUAS DEFINATELY respond to being ignored,why is that? and if want to attract to aqua i fancy do i keep my distance??