Scorpio girl & Aquarius man Young parents & Not married :(

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Ok so im a scorpio girl and was with a aquarius man for 5 yrs now. We had a nasty argument last month(FEB) which led to our break up right after. We didnt speak after 2 weeks after breaking up. But i tried to chase after him the 3rd week. Begged him every DONT's for aqua traits i did. (I guess its the overwhelming feeling that i missed him and ready to fix things) My aqua rejected me BIG TIME. even though we have a kid together. He says he wasnt happy and all but he doesnt want to break up. he just wants time to think. Thats all he kept saying last time we saw each other face to face. I still begged and begged and nothing. Fast forward to 2 weeks ago, he reached out to me asking why have removed him from my spotify and netflix account(we share one account). To which i replied as im feeling a little better now, i told him i asked him to remove himself before but he didnt and so i did. We had an arrangement for visitation for our kid yet he broke it off. This week, he asked me if i was off work the next day so he can visit our kid. I was so confuse on why would he need to know if it was my day off work since he only wanted to see his kid right?feeling not ready to see him i told him he can come by on another day, which he did yesterday. After seeing my kid his parents called me today saying he didnt come home(he is staying with his parents again). I msg him bothered about why would he leave so early when he wanted to see our kid so bad and then not come home to his parents after. I know i shouldnt be doing anything anymore.. but it bugs me the fact that he pretty much threw everything we had just like that and he seems happy and just having fun all the time. Someone please help—
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we had an arguement. and things got. more heated up in public.. as a scorpio.. i kinda blew up... had to put up with all the fuck ups like disappear and the back and disappear again... i blacked out.. so we got into a fight in a public area... after 2 weeks of not talking... wen we finally met.. he was ok... but i knnow he was still mad.. he said awful things... and when i said if he wasnt happy then break it off for good" he said yea.. im breaking up with u and then asked me if i was breaking up with him too.. i said no.. we have a kid together... l still love him.. i just dont know how to fix this... everyone tells me that he isnt worth it. after all the heartbreak and such... but here i am still trying to figure things out.. but i dont contact him anymore. im just wondering... if aquas are done... are they really done?... should i just move on? i just wish he could come to his senses... idont want a broken family.. 😢
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I know i shouldnt have begged. I felt shit about it actually afterwards. Anyway, i just found out he left the country for 3 days to have a vacation. The thing is, he knows its our 6 anniv tomorrow. and he left today until Sunday. And according to his friends, he told them not to tell me no matter what. I msg him and he was denying it. Maybe it really is time to move on.. I cant believe he would do this out of all the days off he had this month. He chose to do it on our 6 anniv.

What should i do? im so confuse.. hurt and angry. I dont know what to do.
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hi vixen14. i get what everyone is saying. i guess im just really looking for advise in terms of my aqua. he doesnt seem to care at all... just having the time of his life. and he is just nasty to me even when talking about our kid and arrangements for visitation. i feel like for some reason.. my aqua is self distructing. he has never had anyone to talk to about his feelings aside from me. and now.. i dont get why he is tje nasty one even though he is the one who broke it off.. i mean.. why do all this when im not even doing anything anymore. i just want to understand and i want to know if theres a chance he would come back.. we were highschool sweathearts. so it hurts that he just dropped me just in a snap of a finger.. could reallt use some insight on why aquas behave like this.. and what can be done about it to make him calm. down and see stuff more cleearly.
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hi vixen14. i get what everyone is saying. i guess im just really looking for advise in terms of my aqua. he doesnt seem to care at all... just having the time of his life. and he is just nasty to me even when talking about our kid and arrangements for visitation. i feel like for some reason.. my aqua is self distructing. he has never had anyone to talk to about his feelings aside from me. and now.. i dont get why he is tje nasty one even though he is the one who broke it off.. i mean.. why do all this when im not even doing anything anymore. i just want to understand and i want to know if theres a chance he would come back.. we were highschool sweathearts. so it hurts that he just dropped me just in a snap of a finger.. could reallt use some insight on why aquas behave like this.. and what can be done about it to make him calm. down and see stuff more cleearly.
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I know i shouldnt have begged. I felt shit about it actually afterwards. Anyway, i just found out he left the country for 3 days to have a vacation. The thing is, he knows its our 6 anniv tomorrow. and he left today until Sunday. And according to his friends, he told them not to tell me no matter what. I msg him and he was denying it. Maybe it really is time to move on.. I cant believe he would do this out of all the days off he had this month. He chose to do it on our 6 anniv.

What should i do? im so confuse.. hurt and angry. I dont know what to do.
Look I know people are advising you to move on and to forget him cuz he’s not worth it, but ultimately it’s YOUR life. If my Aries would have paid attention to his friends we wouldn’t be together despite him wanting to. When we were apart I tried moving on to someone else and I was cruel to him. I didn’t buy him gifts for his bday or our anniversary, went to Cancun without him...I did some other messed up things too because in my mind “i was done”. When an Aqua is done, we can be so mindless and unsympathetic. Cold, cruel, and uninviting. He on the other hand, would invite me and take me to $ 200+ a meal restaurants, take me on trips (including the one to Europe), buy me gifts and send me flowers every week. I still would say no because I was hurt and because to me, it was pointless to get back together with someone to repeat the same story.

I finally caved when I sat down and analyzed all the men that were interested in me, my goals, my needs and wants. He fit the bill + he was the father of my kids and I saw in him a huge change. I decided to finally go with the flow and here we are. A year later and were still good, minus the days he doesn’t want to do chores around the house. We plan to get buy our home in a few years, hopefully in Georgia and have another baby after my business and schooling is done.

You can turn the tide but it all depends on what you want and what you’re going to do, to make your relationship better.
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