@Wineaux15
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Are there ANY successful Scorp & Aqua relationships?
i see you still lingering to that particular scorp ehehe
Posted by AerialView
i see you still lingering to that particular scorp ehehe
Well A LOT has developed! I’m not lingering... in fact I attempted to move on, but HE won’t let me! @HazyFlo Darn Gem Moons!
*follows thread* 👀
Posted by AerialView
i see you still lingering to that particular scorp eheheWell A LOT has developed! I’m not lingering... in fact I attempted to move on, but HE won’t let me! @HazyFlo Darn Gem Moons!
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i hear ya lol
Posted by AerialView
i see you still lingering to that particular scorp eheheWell A LOT has developed! I’m not lingering... in fact I attempted to move on, but HE won’t let me! @HazyFlo Darn Gem Moons!
☹️ But but.... Gemini moons are awesome
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Yes they most certainly are! I attract Gem Moons like flies to turds.... not sure if you’d be attracted to fellow Aquas with your Aqua Sun due to your Moon.
Posted by Whorpio
*follows thread* 👀
I thought you said he wasn’t any good in bed! That’s a “no no”
Posted by Whorpio
*follows thread* 👀I thought you said he wasn’t any good in bed! That’s a “no no”
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I went back a couple weeks ago and we smashed. It was pretty good that time because he wasn’t tryna rush it.
But also in general I’m starting to think an aqua would be good for me maybe.
Posted by Whorpio
*follows thread* 👀I thought you said he wasn’t any good in bed! That’s a “no no”
I went back a couple weeks ago and we smashed. It was pretty good that time because he wasn’t tryna rush it.
But also in general I’m starting to think an aqua would be good for me maybe.
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Haha! Didn’t I tell you that long ago? Why do YOU think a Aqua would be good for you? It’ll be a challenge to pin one down period... but especially when he finds out you know... did you tell your Aqua friend?
Posted by hazyFlo
I’m pretty sure if my Scorpio ex never moved away, we would still be together regardless of how he is.. he had a lot of growing up to do but I’m happy for the new life he has now. He’s transforming.Despite the usual nagging and bickering of couples, the relationship was very routine and emotionally close. I never had to worry about abrupt changes, nor knowing what his true motives were. We held open communication and did everything together. I let him take control of what suited him best, matters I never cared for and in return he made me feel safe.
It’s funny because in the end we both knew we wanted each other, just could never go about to explain that. The day we decided to make it work, everything fell into place. We were synced.
He only has one air placement, Gemini moon. The rest of his chart is half Scorpio and half Capricorn. Very extreme and intense men, introverted serious intelligent moody silent didn’t like to be bothered much, worked hard and enjoyed a laid back life. At times, his gem moon made him charming silly and social, cracking jokes but he was still serious most of the time. Always thinking too deep or pacing.
The only water placement I have is, Pisces Venus. The rest of my chart is airy or fire. I blame being on the cusp of aqua/Pisces and being born on the week of sensitivity. I can be playful and like having a good time but majorly I’m introverted, caring, sensitive, emotional, and always in my thoughts or dreaming.
Him:
Scorpio sun
Gem moon
Cap Venus
Scorpio mars
Me:
Aqua sun
Aries moon
Pisces Venus
Gemini mars
Damn that synastry is flawless
Posted by Whorpio
I went back a couple weeks ago and we smashed. It was pretty good that time because he wasn’t tryna rush it.But also in general I’m starting to think an aqua would be good for me maybe.
Haha! Didn’t I tell you that long ago? Why do YOU think a Aqua would be good for you? It’ll be a challenge to pin one down period... but especially when he finds out you know... did you tell your Aqua friend?
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Maybe you did tell me, but it’s not like I could convince him to be attentive back then! All he wanted was to party with his friends and I was just the body he needed to jizz inside before getting drunk. Very interesting dynamic we had. But he’s cleaned up his life in the past month or so; such a shame I had to move 😕
And I never told him about what I do.
I’ve been talking to a male aqua here in PM’s and he’s given me perspective into how y’all function, and it goes real well with my sag bits.
Posted by Whorpio
I went back a couple weeks ago and we smashed. It was pretty good that time because he wasn’t tryna rush it.But also in general I’m starting to think an aqua would be good for me maybe.
Haha! Didn’t I tell you that long ago? Why do YOU think a Aqua would be good for you? It’ll be a challenge to pin one down period... but especially when he finds out you know... did you tell your Aqua friend?
Maybe you did tell me, but it’s not like I could convince him to be attentive back then! All he wanted was to party with his friends and I was just the body he needed to jizz inside before getting drunk. Very interesting dynamic we had. But he’s cleaned up his life in the past month or so; such a shame I had to move 😕
And I never told him about what I do.
I’ve been talking to a male aqua here in PM’s and he’s given me perspective into how y’all function, and it goes real well with my sag bits.
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Yes I agree.
Posted by AerialView
i see you still lingering to that particular scorp eheheWell A LOT has developed! I’m not lingering... in fact I attempted to move on, but HE won’t let me! @HazyFlo Darn Gem Moons!
☹️ But but.... Gemini moons are awesome
Yes they most certainly are! I attract Gem Moons like flies to turds.... not sure if you’d be attracted to fellow Aquas with your Aqua Sun due to your Moon.
Lol flies to a turd! Nice way of saying we’re 💩. I have yet to find an Aqua irl that I’m attracted to. Celebrities would be Tom Hiddlestone and Gerardo Pique - he has a beautiful smile 😍 I find myself being attracted to Gemini’s and Aries irl. 🤷🏻♀️
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That sounds about right! I think that’s who Gem Moons should be attracted to.
Posted by Whorpio
Maybe you did tell me, but it’s not like I could convince him to be attentive back then! All he wanted was to party with his friends and I was just the body he needed to jizz inside before getting drunk. Very interesting dynamic we had. But he’s cleaned up his life in the past month or so; such a shame I had to move 😕And I never told him about what I do.
I’ve been talking to a male aqua here in PM’s and he’s given me perspective into how y’all function, and it goes real well with my sag bits.
Let me guess .... 🙋🏻
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Do you have a penis?!
Posted by hazyFlo
I’m pretty sure if my Scorpio ex never moved away, we would still be together regardless of how he is.. he had a lot of growing up to do but I’m happy for the new life he has now. He’s transforming.Despite the usual nagging and bickering of couples, the relationship was very routine and emotionally close. I never had to worry about abrupt changes, nor knowing what his true motives were. We held open communication and did everything together. I let him take control of what suited him best, matters I never cared for and in return he made me feel safe.
It’s funny because in the end we both knew we wanted each other, just could never go about to explain that. The day we decided to make it work, everything fell into place. We were synced.
He only has one air placement, Gemini moon. The rest of his chart is half Scorpio and half Capricorn. Very extreme and intense men, introverted serious intelligent moody silent didn’t like to be bothered much, worked hard and enjoyed a laid back life. At times, his gem moon made him charming silly and social, cracking jokes but he was still serious most of the time. Always thinking too deep or pacing.
The only water placement I have is, Pisces Venus. The rest of my chart is airy or fire. I blame being on the cusp of aqua/Pisces and being born on the week of sensitivity. I can be playful and like having a good time but majorly I’m introverted, caring, sensitive, emotional, and always in my thoughts or dreaming.
Him:
Scorpio sun
Gem moon
Cap Venus
Scorpio mars
Me:
Aqua sun
Aries moon
Pisces Venus
Gemini mars
Damn that synastry is flawless
Thank you,
Unfortunately he’s tried getting in contact with me again, I’ve had to remove my info and delete my accounts. I think our time together had run it’s course. I want him to find a woman who can provide him happiness with his new life, that woman isn’t me.
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Well it happens that way sometimes.
Posted by OneKnight
I know 3. 2 are very long term. They had ups and downs, but still going great now.The third one is a fresh relationship. Going good.
I would never ever be with an Aqua. People in their 20's end up with Aquas, cause they don't know better.
😒
my college bf was an aqua. the WORST relationship EVER. wasted 3 years!!!
Going 11years with one,i dont think its her scorp thats my problem but her sag placement she always think whats gonna happen will happen and you dont need to move an inch,in my mind i was like "your not a tree move!get your life together" but thats my cap talking,i have to adjust to her temper as i have a short temper as well,she have to adjust with her clingyness as i like my alone time and im busy with my life,we are still learning from each other after all those years,our banter and playfulness is always fun never got bored with her and her i like the mystery aura in her,we both have pluto in our ascendant and a pluto scorp in 8th house,my moon is her sun so maybe thats why we understand each other so well
Posted by hazyFlo
I believe the relationship works better with an Aquarius woman and Scorpio man.
Yes I agree. Most of the Scorp & Aqua relationships I know are where the female is Aquarius and the male was the Scorpio. They’re going really well and have been together for years.
Posted by bittercupcake
My friend is an Aqua married to a Scorpio. I also knew an older Cambodian woman who was a Scorpio married to an Aquarius. Still married after 40 years.
he must have sagittarius or at least a 9th houser, lol like Dylan McDermott. He has NO sag but he's a 9th houser, and married foreign women. 2x (well Maggie Q is foreign born)
Posted by Wineaux15
In real life,I know many relationships in this pairing. It’s mostly the female who is Aqua and Male who is Scorp with a lot of air in his chart. The ones I know have been together a LONG time and don’t argue as much as I’ve seen couples who are astrologically considered compatible. If you are in this pairing... what compromises have you made to make it last? How’d you meet? How long have you been together? What’s a common misconception between you two? What’s your Moon, Venus, and Mars? What draws you to one another? How’d you finally figure out you two would get along? This can be friendly relationships as well.
female aqua here with scorpio but my husband is not a stellium scorpio, he's got leo and sagittarius, no other air placements. people who dont know me, think i'm a kept woman lol and my neighbors call me "house mouse" cause i love staying home and being a homebody. yet my man gives me alot of freedom.he's the best thing ever and the best man ever.
i know another aqua female but i haven't talked to her in a very long time, and she is married to an AIRY scorpio man. with Aquarius moon, Libra mars, and she has Sag mars, Capricorn venus. it's been a long time since i seen her but she's the type that married an airy scorpio. i think her scorpio man only has one scorpio placement, his sun and he's pluto virgo generation, she's pluto libra.
Posted by hazyFlo
I believe the relationship works better with an Aquarius woman and Scorpio man.Yes I agree. Most of the Scorp & Aqua relationships I know are where the female is Aquarius and the male was the Scorpio. They’re going really well and have been together for years.
It works if the Aquarius has heavy Pisces or cancer placements.
Scorpio men usually prefer a strong yet soft woman. He doesn’t want to be dating someone who’s always trying to challenge him. This is exactly how my Scorpio ex was or any Scorpio man with heavy Scorpio placements. He wants a woman at the end of the day.
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i agree, but also earthy. lol i also think the scorpio has to have a fire domiannt or air domiannt chart. or both air/fire dominant.
Posted by bittercupcake
My friend is an Aqua married to a Scorpio. I also knew an older Cambodian woman who was a Scorpio married to an Aquarius. Still married after 40 years.he must have sagittarius or at least a 9th houser, lol like Dylan McDermott. He has NO sag but he's a 9th houser, and married foreign women. 2x (well Maggie Q is foreign born)
I have no idea what 9th houser is or this House terminology. How do you determine if a person is a 9th houser or any other houser?
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gurrrlll...look!
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Dylan_McDermott
Born: October 26, 1961, 1:54 PM
In: Waterbury (CT) (United States)
Sun: 3°05' Scorpio AS: 28°58' Capricorn
Moon: 9°50' Gemini MC: 22°43' Scorpio
Dominants: Capricorn, Scorpio, Libra
Saturn, Jupiter, Mars
Houses 9, 12, 1 / Earth, Water / Cardinal
Posted by hazyFlo
I believe the relationship works better with an Aquarius woman and Scorpio man.Meh. The jury is still out on that...
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aren't you into Virgo women withAries moons? and Leo venus?
we already know what type you're interested in. 😛
Posted by hazyFlo
I believe the relationship works better with an Aquarius woman and Scorpio man.Meh. The jury is still out on that...
aren't you into Virgo women withAries moons? and Leo venus?
we already know what type you're interested in. 😛
Just to bang Selma Hyeck's brains out at least twice. I won't be marrying the woman.
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too bad. she's married to an AIR sun...and was dating an air moon...so that makes me guess you have some air definitely cause she's all fire.
uh huh...lol
Posted by bittercupcake
My friend is an Aqua married to a Scorpio. I also knew an older Cambodian woman who was a Scorpio married to an Aquarius. Still married after 40 years.he must have sagittarius or at least a 9th houser, lol like Dylan McDermott. He has NO sag but he's a 9th houser, and married foreign women. 2x (well Maggie Q is foreign born)
I have no idea what 9th houser is or this House terminology. How do you determine if a person is a 9th houser or any other houser?
gurrrlll...look!
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Dylan_McDermott
Born: October 26, 1961, 1:54 PM
In: Waterbury (CT) (United States)
Sun: 3°05' Scorpio AS: 28°58' Capricorn
Moon: 9°50' Gemini MC: 22°43' Scorpio
Dominants: Capricorn, Scorpio, Libra
Saturn, Jupiter, Mars
Houses 9, 12, 1 / Earth, Water / Cardinal
lol how do you figure it out for yourself though?
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i don't. lol i just look at astrotheme stuff and read and also go to astro.com and i first got reading cafeastrology stuff. you is smart, figure it out too, maybe we learn togther.lol
The most passionate and horrible relationship I had was with an Aquairian (I'm a Scorpio).
I've never loved or been loved so deeply in my life. The passion was out of this world. At one point, I felt like we could read each others minds.
Not meant to be for us since we had different life style goals and the personality traits from our respective signs made it impossible to be together.
We ended up cheating, abusing, and lying to eachother. Literally trying to make the others life horrible out of spite. Weird thing is that we still loved eachother.
The relationship lasted 7 years. Been broken up for a year. Thought of him a week ago. Got a voicemail from him today saying he still loves me. (*sigh*)
Posted by bittercupcake
My friend is an Aqua married to a Scorpio. I also knew an older Cambodian woman who was a Scorpio married to an Aquarius. Still married after 40 years.he must have sagittarius or at least a 9th houser, lol like Dylan McDermott. He has NO sag but he's a 9th houser, and married foreign women. 2x (well Maggie Q is foreign born)
I have no idea what 9th houser is or this House terminology. How do you determine if a person is a 9th houser or any other houser?
gurrrlll...look!
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Dylan_McDermott
Born: October 26, 1961, 1:54 PM
In: Waterbury (CT) (United States)
Sun: 3°05' Scorpio AS: 28°58' Capricorn
Moon: 9°50' Gemini MC: 22°43' Scorpio
Dominants: Capricorn, Scorpio, Libra
Saturn, Jupiter, Mars
Houses 9, 12, 1 / Earth, Water / Cardinal
lol how do you figure it out for yourself though?
i don't. lol i just look at astrotheme stuff and read and also go to astro.com and i first got reading cafeastrology stuff. you is smart, figure it out too, maybe we learn togther.lol
lol I have this book called Relationship Astrology- trying to learn more about synastry between two natal charts. I'll exchange info with you once I get it
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sounds great!
Posted by hazyFlo
I believe the relationship works better with an Aquarius woman and Scorpio man.Meh. The jury is still out on that...
aren't you into Virgo women withAries moons? and Leo venus?
we already know what type you're interested in. 😛
Just to bang Selma Hyeck's brains out at least twice. I won't be marrying the woman.
too bad. she's married to an AIR sun...and was dating an air moon...so that makes me guess you have some air definitely cause she's all fire.
uh huh...lol
Hell fucking no! I have almost 0 air. And I like it just fine that way.
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really? lol then it must be your AIR houses.
cause my man don't find selma hayek all that great. and he has no air.
edit - gotta be your venus and moon attraction and house placement and also, whats in your 7th.
Posted by bittercupcake
My friend is an Aqua married to a Scorpio. I also knew an older Cambodian woman who was a Scorpio married to an Aquarius. Still married after 40 years.he must have sagittarius or at least a 9th houser, lol like Dylan McDermott. He has NO sag but he's a 9th houser, and married foreign women. 2x (well Maggie Q is foreign born)
I have no idea what 9th houser is or this House terminology. How do you determine if a person is a 9th houser or any other houser?
gurrrlll...look!
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Dylan_McDermott
Born: October 26, 1961, 1:54 PM
In: Waterbury (CT) (United States)
Sun: 3°05' Scorpio AS: 28°58' Capricorn
Moon: 9°50' Gemini MC: 22°43' Scorpio
Dominants: Capricorn, Scorpio, Libra
Saturn, Jupiter, Mars
Houses 9, 12, 1 / Earth, Water / Cardinal
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Yum.... me likey! He has the same placements as the Scorp I’m attracted to! I wonder what chart looks like for his foreigner?
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In real life,I know many relationships in this pairing. It’s mostly the female who is Aqua and Male who is Scorp with a lot of air in his chart. The ones I know have been together a LONG time and don’t argue as much as I’ve seen couples who are astrologically considered compatible. If you are in this pairing... what compromises have you made to make it last? How’d you meet? How long have you been together? What’s a common misconception between you two? What’s your Moon, Venus, and Mars? What draws you to one another? How’d you finally figure out you two would get along? This can be friendly relationships as well.