FlyingBurritos80
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Sex Question For Aquas...
I can't speak for all Aqua's on this matter but I have a lot of Aquarius in my chart. Based on my own personal obervations of myself, I'd say my sex drive is probably considered low in comparison to a Scorpio. I dated a Scorpio guy once and he was much more sexual than me. I think one of the major differences between a Scorpio and an Aquarius is a Scorpio needs to express themselves more physically and an Aquarius tries to find a connection more mentally. That's not to say that we don't like sex at all. Once I feel a deeper connection with someone I become more sexual. Sex to me is meaningless when there is no time given to develop feelings and it can take quite a while for an Aqua to get to that point. No mental chemistry equals no sexual chemistry which equals no enjoyment. Give it time and if it feels right for her then you will see a change. It may be a bit different for her being that she has a Moon in Scorpio. Personally, in one of my best relationships, it came to the point where HE was the one tired of doing "it." Haha.
Well compared to a Scorpio, I'm sure this Aqua girl's sex drive is not as high as yours. BUT like you said, depending on the MOON, that really tells the true story of her level of sex drive. If her moon is in Scorp then her sex drive will be alot more higher & active than it would had her moon been in Aqua. Aqua moons generally like to experiment & tend to be more "freaky" but the FREQUENCY for which they engage in this behaviors are not as often & only become established with a well-liked/loved partner.
I don't think this Aqua girl cares about how often the sex is as much as you do. If anything, she's more interested in the QUALITY of the person FIRST so that she can decide how much QUALITY she will put into the sex. You might like her a little more than she likes you so it's not uncommon for 1 person (specifically the male) to be more quickly ready to have sex first. And sometimes it's not that Aquas don't have high sex drives, they just wait on the RIGHT person who knows how to properly INITIATE/open the door for that type of activity. Alot of Aquas are known for being freaky & for suprising/shocking their partners. If anything, you might be the only one whose already planning out how often a week you guys will have sex, b/c Scorpio is all about QUANTITY in the bedroom in the beginning. And with her, she's probably focused more on the qualities she sees in you FIRST before she even gets started on the quality/quantity in the bedroom.
Whatever you do, don't pressure her or try to influence her to be as sexual as you. If she's comfortable, she will shock you with how intense & high her sex drive really is. It's not that Aquas don't have high sex drives, oh they do. They just understand SELF-DISCPLINE alot more than Scorpios
I don't think this Aqua girl cares about how often the sex is as much as you do. If anything, she's more interested in the QUALITY of the person FIRST so that she can decide how much QUALITY she will put into the sex. You might like her a little more than she likes you so it's not uncommon for 1 person (specifically the male) to be more quickly ready to have sex first. And sometimes it's not that Aquas don't have high sex drives, they just wait on the RIGHT person who knows how to properly INITIATE/open the door for that type of activity. Alot of Aquas are known for being freaky & for suprising/shocking their partners. If anything, you might be the only one whose already planning out how often a week you guys will have sex, b/c Scorpio is all about QUANTITY in the bedroom in the beginning. And with her, she's probably focused more on the qualities she sees in you FIRST before she even gets started on the quality/quantity in the bedroom.
Whatever you do, don't pressure her or try to influence her to be as sexual as you. If she's comfortable, she will shock you with how intense & high her sex drive really is. It's not that Aquas don't have high sex drives, oh they do. They just understand SELF-DISCPLINE alot more than Scorpios
Hell, Aquas sometimes are the freakiest & have the most explicit ideas. But because they understand the art of self-discipline & usually DO NOT intiate first, they are often mistaken for women with low sex drives and/or not being able to keep up.
I'll tell you this...Once you get her in the bedroom, she'll shock the hell out of you! Hell, YOU might be the one who can hardly keep up! lol. 🙂
I'll tell you this...Once you get her in the bedroom, she'll shock the hell out of you! Hell, YOU might be the one who can hardly keep up! lol. 🙂
Plus with ANY woman (not just Aquas) there are tons of things that influence how high OR low her sex drive is, For example:
1. How she views sex in general.
2. How she chooses her sex partners (whether they're based more on looks/phsyical chemistry OR mind/intellectual chemistry)
3. Of course there's always the possibility that she's had a bad sexual experience & for the time being, has decided to hold off on sex (which clearly gives off the signal to others that her sex drive is not high)
Or
4. She might be one of those closet-freaks. She won't be the 1st one to intiate anything, but once it gets started, you won't be able to stop her! You'll wonder where all the FREAKINESS & Stamina came from!
5. And there's always the women who PURPOSELY pretend not to have sex drives so that they won't give off the wrong impression to the person that they actually like. Some women secretely hide/conceal their true level of sex drive b/c they are afraid of rejection, being taken advantage of or losing the intellectual/emotional connection once the sex has occured.
1. How she views sex in general.
2. How she chooses her sex partners (whether they're based more on looks/phsyical chemistry OR mind/intellectual chemistry)
3. Of course there's always the possibility that she's had a bad sexual experience & for the time being, has decided to hold off on sex (which clearly gives off the signal to others that her sex drive is not high)
Or
4. She might be one of those closet-freaks. She won't be the 1st one to intiate anything, but once it gets started, you won't be able to stop her! You'll wonder where all the FREAKINESS & Stamina came from!
5. And there's always the women who PURPOSELY pretend not to have sex drives so that they won't give off the wrong impression to the person that they actually like. Some women secretely hide/conceal their true level of sex drive b/c they are afraid of rejection, being taken advantage of or losing the intellectual/emotional connection once the sex has occured.
First, thanks guys for taking the time to give your responses. I do appreciate it.
I do want to clarify some things though. I think it is a scorpio moon not sure since it falls onto the day it actally becomes a scorp moon. Depending on the time of birth it could be a libra moon.
If it was a Libra moon, I would have been out faster then Forrest Gump running to the restroom. Not because of the moon but the rest of the chart doesnt have anything to compensate. Based on what I've seen from my friends who dated aquas with a lot of air in their chart, they hardly ever wanted sex. Even though the aqua gals felt a deep mental connection to them. My buddies dumped the aqua gals because of the low sex drive.
And the Aquas not wanting them to break up. But my friends stood their ground saying they need sex on a regular basis in a relationship. And that the girls wouldnt be able to change.
Dont get me wrong Ive never put any pressure at all or hinted about sex with my prospective Aqua. I could be drastically misreading but I am getting the "would like to be in a relationship" vibe. So I've been thinking it through very deeply.
I'm someone who puts 100% in a relationship. When I am with someone, that is it. Sex drive compatibility isnt an issue if its not a strong sexual attraction. But again, she is freaking hot. Let me give you a better idea.
Gals, imagine you are in a relationship with Johnny Depp. But Johnny Depp hardly ever wants to have sex at all. Given he's Johnny Depp I can safely assume you girls would get a big case of blue balls.
Well apply that scenario to my concerns about being in a relationship with an aqua. And you can see where I am coming from. I'm all about mental connection too. But I think my sag moon/mars ability to separate emotions from sex is playing a part since she's pretty. Us Sag Moons and maybe some Sag suns are about cutting to the chase. Jump in, ask questions later. If I am going to commit myself fully, there needs to be an idea of what the sexual chemistry/libido is like.
If we dont think its there or no potential, the better it is to cut ties early on so no one gets hurt. I try to be as honest as I can with girls. I've been jerked around more than once by ones who lacked the courage to do it themselves. For myself straightforwardness is the way to go so I'm not wasting these girls time. I'm just trying to get an idea in case she asks the question.
I do want to clarify some things though. I think it is a scorpio moon not sure since it falls onto the day it actally becomes a scorp moon. Depending on the time of birth it could be a libra moon.
If it was a Libra moon, I would have been out faster then Forrest Gump running to the restroom. Not because of the moon but the rest of the chart doesnt have anything to compensate. Based on what I've seen from my friends who dated aquas with a lot of air in their chart, they hardly ever wanted sex. Even though the aqua gals felt a deep mental connection to them. My buddies dumped the aqua gals because of the low sex drive.
And the Aquas not wanting them to break up. But my friends stood their ground saying they need sex on a regular basis in a relationship. And that the girls wouldnt be able to change.
Dont get me wrong Ive never put any pressure at all or hinted about sex with my prospective Aqua. I could be drastically misreading but I am getting the "would like to be in a relationship" vibe. So I've been thinking it through very deeply.
I'm someone who puts 100% in a relationship. When I am with someone, that is it. Sex drive compatibility isnt an issue if its not a strong sexual attraction. But again, she is freaking hot. Let me give you a better idea.
Gals, imagine you are in a relationship with Johnny Depp. But Johnny Depp hardly ever wants to have sex at all. Given he's Johnny Depp I can safely assume you girls would get a big case of blue balls.
Well apply that scenario to my concerns about being in a relationship with an aqua. And you can see where I am coming from. I'm all about mental connection too. But I think my sag moon/mars ability to separate emotions from sex is playing a part since she's pretty. Us Sag Moons and maybe some Sag suns are about cutting to the chase. Jump in, ask questions later. If I am going to commit myself fully, there needs to be an idea of what the sexual chemistry/libido is like.
If we dont think its there or no potential, the better it is to cut ties early on so no one gets hurt. I try to be as honest as I can with girls. I've been jerked around more than once by ones who lacked the courage to do it themselves. For myself straightforwardness is the way to go so I'm not wasting these girls time. I'm just trying to get an idea in case she asks the question.
Sorry... Correction - (Getting the "Would like to be in a relationship" from HER)
Posted by krysrenee7
Well compared to a Scorpio, I'm sure this Aqua girl's sex drive is not as high as yours. BUT like you said, depending on the MOON, that really tells the true story of her level of sex drive. If her moon is in Scorp then her sex drive will be alot more higher & active than it would had her moon been in Aqua. Aqua moons generally like to experiment & tend to be more "freaky" but the FREQUENCY for which they engage in this behaviors are not as often & only become established with a well-liked/loved partner.
I don't think this Aqua girl cares about how often the sex is as much as you do. If anything, she's more interested in the QUALITY of the person FIRST so that she can decide how much QUALITY she will put into the sex. You might like her a little more than she likes you so it's not uncommon for 1 person (specifically the male) to be more quickly ready to have sex first. And sometimes it's not that Aquas don't have high sex drives, they just wait on the RIGHT person who knows how to properly INITIATE/open the door for that type of activity. Alot of Aquas are known for being freaky & for suprising/shocking their partners. If anything, you might be the only one whose already planning out how often a week you guys will have sex, b/c Scorpio is all about QUANTITY in the bedroom in the beginning. And with her, she's probably focused more on the qualities she sees in you FIRST before she even gets started on the quality/quantity in the bedroom.
Whatever you do, don't pressure her or try to influence her to be as sexual as you. If she's comfortable, she will shock you with how intense & high her sex drive really is. It's not that Aquas don't have high sex drives, oh they do. They just understand SELF-DISCPLINE alot more than Scorpios
That is an excellent description, krysrenee!! I don't know if that is necessarily the case with Scorpios more about Quantity than Quality but that always felt like the case to me. I agree, that Aqua's care more about how pleasurable the moment is rather than how often it occurs. If it is done right the first time then we are set for a while. Shoot, it might be so good that we can't physically do it again for a week. Haha! j/k 😉 But yes, we do like to shock and it's annoying when you get with someone that keeps trying to push the sex issue and is all over you. That makes no room for spontaneity and fun. That was how I alway
Continued.... That was how I always felt with my ex Scorpio because he was constantly diving at me! It was a big turn off. I think playing a little hard to get is beneficial when someone is seeking an Aqua. We don't always initially make the first move but if you play a little hard to get and tease. Chances are we will be doing the diving.
FlyingBurritos: I don't know the situation with your friends and their Aqua's. Maybe, the more the issue was pushed the more it turned them off to the idea and made them not sexually interested. That would be what would happen to me in that scenario. I was once with a Leo that I was really into and he was more passive about the sex situation. And when we weren't having sex we were enjoying each others company and interests. It gave me a feeling of comfort and security and that's what kept me. Because he was more passive about sex, it struck my curiosity more and I was the one always initiating sex. To a Scorpio, I am sure our sex drives will always be considered low. But if an Aqua really likes you there will be a good amount of sex. At the same time, we love change and adventure and don't want to lay in bed all day either. Granted, we can do a lot of exploring in the sheets and that helps, but we like to go out and see the world at least sometime haha.
"I don't know the situation with your friends and their Aqua's. Maybe, the more the issue was pushed the more it turned them off to the idea and made them not sexually interested"
My friends are too passive aggressive for that. They would initiate, but the girls would show little interest. And my guys would back off after that. They never pushed the issue.
"At the same time, we love change and adventure and don't want to lay in bed all day either"
Who said anything about sex in bed? 😉
Here's the update on the Aqua girl. I cut her loose, but not the reason you all are going to think.
The more I got to know her, the less I liked. She turned out to be very conceited, and narcissistic. Just a stuckup, self-entitled beyotch.
Girls, you aint the only ones who find cockiness a turn off. (Although I'm very cynical when women say that. Cause I've seen girls continually date cocky a-holes.)
I will admit being enough of a shallow douchebag that if we had sex and it was good and frequent, I would overlook that personality defect.
The only good thing that came out of her mouth was this. She said that I'm the only guy who never pressured sex on her immediately. Gee, I wonder why guys would do that, when she has such a "glowing" personality.
I think I handled cutting things off well, myself. I could have been like a lot of men and F.A.R -(F--k And Run) her. But I never even had sex with her. I'm a gentleman after all, not a scoundrel. Although niceness is basically a recipe for heading into the Napoleon Dynamite zone with women. And I wouldnt want a girl to start thinking of me as "nice" after all 😉
My friends are too passive aggressive for that. They would initiate, but the girls would show little interest. And my guys would back off after that. They never pushed the issue.
"At the same time, we love change and adventure and don't want to lay in bed all day either"
Who said anything about sex in bed? 😉
Here's the update on the Aqua girl. I cut her loose, but not the reason you all are going to think.
The more I got to know her, the less I liked. She turned out to be very conceited, and narcissistic. Just a stuckup, self-entitled beyotch.
Girls, you aint the only ones who find cockiness a turn off. (Although I'm very cynical when women say that. Cause I've seen girls continually date cocky a-holes.)
I will admit being enough of a shallow douchebag that if we had sex and it was good and frequent, I would overlook that personality defect.
The only good thing that came out of her mouth was this. She said that I'm the only guy who never pressured sex on her immediately. Gee, I wonder why guys would do that, when she has such a "glowing" personality.
I think I handled cutting things off well, myself. I could have been like a lot of men and F.A.R -(F--k And Run) her. But I never even had sex with her. I'm a gentleman after all, not a scoundrel. Although niceness is basically a recipe for heading into the Napoleon Dynamite zone with women. And I wouldnt want a girl to start thinking of me as "nice" after all 😉
Well good for you! Hope you find what your looking for.
Although a majority of aqua girls I know go for nice/dorky guys as oppose the hott douche bag.
Although a majority of aqua girls I know go for nice/dorky guys as oppose the hott douche bag.
I'm an Aqua girl and dated a Scorpio for a while. The sex was HOT!
GEEZ, all this for a BOOTY CALL—
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