shall i leave him?

hi friends..
this is sangicrab again.my aqua guy is longing behind my best friend who is an virgo.she is not ready to become close to him and keeps hurting him.but still my aqua guy trys to win her...as aqua loves challenges.

when he gets hurt by her he comes to me and again when he gets a chance to impress her he does it ...

how should i take it...is it jus that he likes challenges and so he's doin or is he flirting around

help
sangicrab

Hello sangicrab!

I don't know much about aqua-men, but here's my "take" on the situation. Whether or not this guy enjoys challenges or not, seems like he has someone else in his heart-- ahead of you. He could be the best guy in the world, but why are you settling on being 2nd in his life?

You're asking people to give you advice on whether you should leave him, and I think you should go with your instincts on this one. What does your gut stay? How long do you want to be 2nd place?

I know you care for him a lot, but what are these emotions you have for him-- when they're only returned when he's not getting what he needs from someone else?

On that note, I'll leave you with a song...

*clears throat*

You love her,
but she loves him,
and he loves somebody else -
You just can't win.
And so it goes until
the day you die.
This thing they call love,
its gonna make you cry.

I've had the blues,
the reds and the pinks.
One thing's for sure...

LOVE STINKS

Love stinks...yeah yeah...

I tell you what? get even and you for Virgo to?. "REVENGE" is sweet?!

Help given."not sure is recived"
Qbone

Bah.. "run" dropped from my post some how should read "run for Virgo too..

I guess.."run" got scared and escaped form my post?. Damn "run"

🙂 very cute

All of the above advice is and comments are very valid and all have merit.

However, I'm guessing that deep down, you really do like/love your Mr. Aquar.

I'd do two things first before I would make the final decision to leave and these are the thingys I would do.

Number one - instead of trying to figure your Mr. Aquar. out (no point my dear, we are enigmas, even to ourselves) but you are right we do the chase or the hunt or the challenge. Instead, I'd sit down your dear"little Ms. Virgo" pal. You say she's says hurtful stuff etc. and he turns away for a while. Well, I guess it's not hurtful enough.....and me thinketh that she might be quietly be enjoying the "flirting game" with your Mr. Aqua. despite her protests.....so you sit her down, up close and personal and tell her exactly what you want her to say to your Mr. Aquarius...e.g. I don't find you in the least bit attractive, you actually turn me off" - or something maybe not quite as hurtful but along those lines....use your womanly wiles!!!

If that doesn't appear to be working, plan B! Although aquarians are the least likely to be jealous, we certainly feel those pangs now and then though you will never know!
So honey, next time you are out with his pals, you make a play for the most attractive in the group, the whole nite, laugh, drink, banter, flirt withthe guy the WHOLE nite and I mean the WHOLE nite - at end of nite, if Mr. Aquar. wants to leave you home, you insist on making your own way.....that will give him food for thought and a taste of his own medicine.

And if that fails, how about flirting with Ms. Virgo's favourite guy and when she doth protest to you, you say well, I am saying stuff like you say to my Mr. Aquar. and he he's just not listening!!! Boys!!! Men!!! See how she likes that and reacts!!!!

And if all three fail, then you're fcuked!!!!! No, you are not really. You've just learnt a lesson in love like we all do and have to go through.

I wish you the very best Sangicrab.

A x

hi friends...
i can't beleive my eyes..so much people to help me out....thankz everybody.i saw all your advices.
dear sweet-p..you are very true...The minute you don't want him he'll want you. The minute you have him back again he'll get bored and do exactly the same thing.

i was facing the same thing for the past 1 year...
aahh...i'am jus tired.

hi friends...
i can't beleive my eyes..so much people to help me out....thankz everybody.i saw all your advices.
dear sweet-p..you are very true...The minute you don't want him he'll want you. The minute you have him back again he'll get bored and do exactly the same thing.

i was facing the same thing for the past 1 year...
aahh...i'am jus tired.

dear alana...

This virgo girl is my best friend but as u said i doubt if she is taking advantage over him.But i don't want to analyze that stuff.
she keeps saying i'am telling him but he is not listening.
even if my friend virgoen was taking advantage if my aqua guy was true he should have not let her do that...he should have stuck to me.

i don't want this stuff...some girl comes in between and takes away your guy...either way i won't blame that girl,it is the guys responsibilty to see he sticks to his love.

but he is still chasing her,i have already given him three chances.
as i said before he keeps goin behind her,gets hurt,comes back to me and again the same story.


enough is enough...
so as per all of your suggestions i've decided to end it up and just ignore him.