Should I or should I not?

I have been been friends with an aquarius for a year now and a few months ago he said I love you. It came at such a shock to me that I did not respond with the same. Since then he has become affectionate and he contacts me all the time, yet he constantly flirts with other women and I dont feel like our friendship is transitioning into a relationship. Do I tell him I love him or do I wait?

Let's put aside his feeling and ask yourself first: Do you love him? Do you want to say it now? Why must your friendship turn into a relationship? The guy expressed his feeling for you but it didn't imply that he wanted you as a girlfriend in commited or exclusive way, right? Love is a fickle feeling and it isn't that glamorous like lots of people imagine it to be. What important here is yourself. How do you feel about this? Can you just date him and take your time to find out more about him? Or do you feel the need to be his one and only and vice versa? What is it? Don't let it turn into some sort of selfish desire to keep someone completely or thought of a fancy courtship that might never happen here. Once you know what you want, you can move forward.

As for his side, I can't speak his mind but I can tell you that there is no harm to confess your mind. People like to say that Aquas are unemotional and will be scared by intensity but it is not completely true .If you can express yourself intensely , ardently and truly but uniquely. The way that he never experiences from anyone else. You are the first one to do so, the first one to blow his mind away , the first one to send that electricity down his spine ....then you're a true winner here. In short, Aquas like variety and unique things so if they haven't tried, they will usually be curious and tempted. The key here is to know, to understand, to acknowledge , to empathize who is he, do you know?

just my opinion as an aqua- he is probably flirting with other women because you didnt respond. I do this all the time. If I'm interested in someone and I show myself, and they dont respond, I act as if its no big deal and I can move on whenever I feel like it. A lil bit of pride mixed with a test because we observe the way you react when we give others attention to see if you're hiding it. Me and my last Aqua would do this when we first developed feelings, but we would make a point to let each other know that we weren't involved with anyone else, although the msg was that we could be.

The best way to know is to simply call him on it. Ask him what he meant by it, what kind of love does he have for you? Pick his brain and he will give you clues to what you want to know. Then you'll know how to respond.