What do aquas feel about their insignifant others showing off about themselves (quiote leonine behavior). Like if the person tells the aqua how everyone compliments them and thinks they are so great. Are aquas turned off by this showing off behavior or do they not care and just ignore it.
Showing off in front of an Aqua
Do not care, but beyong a certain limit it might get annoying. Do care if they show off their private parts.
Yes I meant like me showing off in front of my aqua guy friend. Like sometimes I am silly to a point where I want to show him how the world finds me attractive so I tell hime what they say to me. I realize it is silly and now am realizing I did it a few times and I should stop.
Did I do any turning off at that point lol? I did it innocently but I dont want to give the impression that I am a big ol showoff. ANyway I did it a few times recently to see that my greatness is validated by the rest of the world. I do it cause sometimes I am not sure if he sees my greatness (or maybe he does and doesnt express it too much to me) so i feel compelled at times to show him that many think I am wonderful lol. I know I am being a goofball, but at least I realized it the minute I did it. Anyway, what do you think. If I stop all is well? Did I do any harm to his opinion of me?
Did I do any turning off at that point lol? I did it innocently but I dont want to give the impression that I am a big ol showoff. ANyway I did it a few times recently to see that my greatness is validated by the rest of the world. I do it cause sometimes I am not sure if he sees my greatness (or maybe he does and doesnt express it too much to me) so i feel compelled at times to show him that many think I am wonderful lol. I know I am being a goofball, but at least I realized it the minute I did it. Anyway, what do you think. If I stop all is well? Did I do any harm to his opinion of me?
In my experience this does not wash with Aqua guys, my ex would have looked at me disapprovingly and then promptly put me in my place by telling me in about a million ways how I am NOT that great at all.
Uh Oh!
Now what— How can I reverse it or can I —
Now what— How can I reverse it or can I —
"I do it cause sometimes I am not sure if he sees my greatness (or maybe he does and doesnt express it too much to me) so i feel compelled at times to show him that many think I am wonderful lol"
If you are looking for praise and confirmation of how amazing you are lol trust me you're barking up the wrong tree with an Aqua guy! He may think you're great but he's unlikely to tell you if he feels you are fishing for it.
If you are looking for praise and confirmation of how amazing you are lol trust me you're barking up the wrong tree with an Aqua guy! He may think you're great but he's unlikely to tell you if he feels you are fishing for it.
Thanks Stafish, good advice. Ok so is it too late to be chill now that I was doing all that silly showing off? By the way, it was true what the others were saying and I just wanted my guy to know. Anyway I will stop.
How can I fix it from this point on?
How can I fix it from this point on?
Just be cool and be yourself, let him make his own mind up - because whether or not he thinks you're great won't have anything to do with what the rest of the world thinks of you trust me, he'll make his own mind up on that thank you.
Thanks Thetis. I am figuring that out now! lol
Oh Fire signs have to show off and flirt! Its that jealousy sentiment with Fire girls > they wan't their boyfriends to be atleast a little jealous (Aries and Leo) > If you are an Aries chick then that';s a given natural its a psychological matter of selfreassurance but if you are with an Aquarius or Gemini then these guys must atleast pretend to be jealous cos you are showing off, you are the "light of the party" and you are flirting innocently > its an Air signs quirk so they should pretend to be jealous some. If you were to compare the charming Libra men with Leo girls if the Libras are too typical they simply won't mind the Leo girls gettin' all the attention > this can make Leo extremely jealous! the Libra guys at the parties get just about as much attention from the ladies.
"selfassurance"
or is it selfassurEnce?
Yeah that's wuz up Fire girls Leo and Aries need their men to be atleast some jealous and possessive which Air signs have to atleast imitate.
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