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so what if....
Here's how I see it. I believe everyone is promised atleast 1 soul mate in their lifetime. But it's up to US as to if we open up our own doors to 1. MEET that person, 2. ESTABLISH love with that person & 3. Actually KEEP & MAINTAIN that same love with that person. Nature doesn't do all the work; we have to put some work in too. Timing could easily make the scales imbalanced.
You could have bad timing & potentially miss out on your soul mate through:
1. Being too unwilling to give up an ex or current boyfriend (who isn't meant for you)
2. Not being emotionally mature or available enough during the time that you first swap eyes with your soul mate
3. Being blinded to the fact that the person you have already met IS your soul mate.
There are plenty of ways/reasons bad timing can interfere & affect someone's ability to seek, find & maintain that person who is atleast 99% compatible with you. I think it all depends on YOU. Like I said, nature just presents that person to you, but it's up to YOU as to actually have the wisdom & techniques to keep that person around and/or vice versa.
You could have bad timing & potentially miss out on your soul mate through:
1. Being too unwilling to give up an ex or current boyfriend (who isn't meant for you)
2. Not being emotionally mature or available enough during the time that you first swap eyes with your soul mate
3. Being blinded to the fact that the person you have already met IS your soul mate.
There are plenty of ways/reasons bad timing can interfere & affect someone's ability to seek, find & maintain that person who is atleast 99% compatible with you. I think it all depends on YOU. Like I said, nature just presents that person to you, but it's up to YOU as to actually have the wisdom & techniques to keep that person around and/or vice versa.
Here's how I see it. I believe everyone is promised atleast 1 soul mate in their lifetime. But it's up to US as to if we open up our own doors to 1. MEET that person, 2. ESTABLISH love with that person & 3. Actually KEEP & MAINTAIN that same love with that person. Nature doesn't do all the work; we have to put some work in too. Timing could easily make the scales imbalanced.
You could have bad timing & potentially miss out on your soul mate through:
1. Being too unwilling to give up an ex or current boyfriend (who isn't meant for you)
2. Not being emotionally mature or available enough during the time that you first swap eyes with your soul mate
3. Being blinded to the fact that the person you have already met IS your soul mate.
There are plenty of ways/reasons bad timing can interfere & affect someone's ability to seek, find & maintain that person who is atleast 99% compatible with you. I think it all depends on YOU. Like I said, nature just presents that person to you, but it's up to YOU as to actually have the wisdom & techniques to keep that person around and/or vice versa.
You could have bad timing & potentially miss out on your soul mate through:
1. Being too unwilling to give up an ex or current boyfriend (who isn't meant for you)
2. Not being emotionally mature or available enough during the time that you first swap eyes with your soul mate
3. Being blinded to the fact that the person you have already met IS your soul mate.
There are plenty of ways/reasons bad timing can interfere & affect someone's ability to seek, find & maintain that person who is atleast 99% compatible with you. I think it all depends on YOU. Like I said, nature just presents that person to you, but it's up to YOU as to actually have the wisdom & techniques to keep that person around and/or vice versa.
thank you for the analysis. Do you think its very natural that when you do meet this person you have a 99% compatibility rate with that one or both of you RUNS for the hills. It sounds so dumb and cliche but deep down inside i know that im meant for him and vise versa. I also know that its something big, i feel it and i felt it the 1st night i met him. I ran away bc im scared but also because i know its not the right time and that in order for him to realize his feelings, i have to be out from under his thumb.......
Well it's not that bad timing keeps people apart. It's each person's level of self-awareness, patience & maturity that can easily divide 2 people who were meant to attach. You may be the only person that understands how important it is to leave & get yourself together (for you AND him in the long run) but if he isn't mature enough or understanding of this, it won't matter how compatible you both are if he isn't willing to wait on you. Not everyone ends up with their soul mate or with the one they are 99% compatible with.
So many people spend their whole lives looking for the person that will make them say, "Yep, that's him. He's the one," just by first meeting him/her. So it's natural that when you finally find yourself standing in front of that person, you naturally run away like hell b/c of how UNUSED to you are in finding someone who's actually good for you, for a change. If you're running away b/c of insecurities and/or any things that the 2 of you could've worked on TOGETHER, that's not a good thing. But if you're just going in the dressing room of life & being determined not to come back out until you are fully ready, dressed to the nines & as beautiful as you're gonna get, then hey just pray that he'll understand this & even further admire you b/c of how much of a soldier you are for YOURSELF.
So many people spend their whole lives looking for the person that will make them say, "Yep, that's him. He's the one," just by first meeting him/her. So it's natural that when you finally find yourself standing in front of that person, you naturally run away like hell b/c of how UNUSED to you are in finding someone who's actually good for you, for a change. If you're running away b/c of insecurities and/or any things that the 2 of you could've worked on TOGETHER, that's not a good thing. But if you're just going in the dressing room of life & being determined not to come back out until you are fully ready, dressed to the nines & as beautiful as you're gonna get, then hey just pray that he'll understand this & even further admire you b/c of how much of a soldier you are for YOURSELF.
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