Stalked by my ex-Scorpio BAH!!!

Help... my ex-Scorpio is driving me nuts. He can't take the hint that it is over and is stalking me online. I keep getting these e-mails with him asking, "why are you doing this and that? Are you trying to find someone else? I thought you wanted to be alone." It's like... bahhhh I talk to people online! Get a friggin life! Any ideas on how to ward off a stalker?

Just keep the msgs short in reply, don't explain yourself!!!! Just answer with yes or no statements. I had a scorp stalk me before so I understand how it feels. Go about your life, just think of him as ...a fly on the wall that flies around you once in a while...and the more u try to slap it, the more it flys around

I have a myspace and hotornot account. He constantly stalks my myspace account and sees when I log on. I've barely used hotornot, other than for fun. I got a message in my e-mail saying someone sent me a message through there so I logged on to see what it was. Of course, he must have been monitoring that as well too. He's just getting all crazy about stupid online crap. I've tried being nice about the whole issue, but I guess being nice is giving him hope? lol I've tried ignoring it but then he has his family members and friends bugging me. I seriously don't know how to be more clear with him.... that he is crazy. I seriously don't even know why I have to deal with this stupidness when I'm not even with him anymore. BAH!

don't deal with it, just ignore him. You had already said everything you needed to, its just him refusing to listen

Have you tried Hemlock Honey Tea?

Did it end badly between the 2 of you?

No, I told him that he was being too smothering and I couldn't handle the relationship. He was too emotionally chaotic. He started going to a therapist and ever since has been sending me e-mails saying he is different now. Which.. I'm glad he's getting help to manage his emotions better, but I'm still sick of him. lol I know.. it's mean.. and cold.. but dang there's only so much a person can take before you just don't care if a person changes or not.

Ok fair enough why did he go to the therapist is he that crazy? If you were to tell him straight that you've broken up and are free to do whatever you want in your private life would that affect him really badly? Cos if he could accept that then maybe there is a friendship to be saved there?

zoolanders - He has a lot of troubles handling his emotions. Mental illness runs in his family and he was brought up in a chaotic household. So, I think that has a lot to do with how he is the way he is. I think with a little therapy he will be able to manage himself a little bit better but the environment when around him is way too stressful

unusualcancer - I'm starting to realize just how hard it is to get rid of a Scorp... I could tell him 100 times that we aren't together and he continues to try and impress me some other way to change my mind. It's just so frustrating.

can't you block his account? or you don't wanna do that?

I find it easy to get rid of scorp like that or just ignore the hell out of them - but they may seek revenge --- lol ! funny stuff...

LOL, as much as I'd love to slut myself around in another country and sleep with his best friend... I'm afraid that this slut is scared of the Scorpion stinger. I really don't to cause any revengeful drama against myself. What's a safe way out? Like... not getting on their bad side?

lol, Rikkaidai I wouldn't really like to do that... was just joking around. 😉 You'll come to learn that I am one of the least serious people in this world haha.