I have just started dated an aqua. Now the first thing i thought when i knew he was aqua is that this is not going to work with him needing his freedom and me needing security but we seemed to get on perfectly most of the time, good sex, good conversation, good fun etc. In the 3 months that we have been dating i have noticed times when he has needed his space and even though it has killed me i have given him that space because i am aware of his needs. Anyway we usually text each other during the days (accept for the days when he needs his space, then he won't text me or call but i just deal with it) but last week i was busy and didn't get a chance to text him...so he calls me saying that he is feeling neglected and that i must not love him anymore, i laugh it over but know he is serious. Anyway yesterday i was feeling kind of low and called him, he said he was at work and would call me back because he could tell i wasn't myself but he didnt, i was feeling neglected myself so texted him to say i was thinking about him and missed him...still got nothing. This morning he texts me to say good morning and i tell him i'm feeling neglected just like he told me before. He responds asking me if i'm having a bad day and when i say yes i get nothing back. He has not called or anything and i'm trying to remain calm but it seems rather selfish to me...i'm always there through his bad moments but he never seems to be there for mine. He tells me he loves me but will then act as though he's not interested. He said he's scared of losing me but will do things to make me question the relationship. Is this why they say Taurus and Aqua is not a good mix?
