Posted by dolluxeThank you for your feedback! You are right! 🙂
This is like your 4th post on your Aqua. He disappeared on you right? He was out of the country on business and lost his phone. He reached out via Instagram a week after he's supposedly arrived.
Just sayin.
Posted by LalapefakadaIt jerks off his ego.
We've known eachother for two months have been on about 4 dates and I'd like to see him again. He texts me but doesn't ask to see me. Why text me then? I'm so confused😢( I won't ask to see him because he obviously don't want to see me. Do aqua men do this ?
Posted by LiveAndLoveThis is a terrible idea.
Why not just ask him? You could always try to flirt a little and say hey am I ever going to see your face again or are you just going to forget about me? ?❤️
If he doesn't respond then I'd move on and forget about him. Don't wait around for any guy whose not willing to put in the effort to make time for you.
Posted by xonimiThis was my situation as well.
I would just stop responding to his texts. If a guy wants to see you, he will see you. The last guy I dated would make a lot of effort to see me in the beginning. He'd go out of his way just to stop by and see me for a bit. But then, almost overnight, he just stopped. never made any attempts to see me for 3 months but texted me often and told me he missed me. I didn't want to believe that he had lost interest so I held on and kept waiting for him to make an effort. Big mistake. If I had let him go earlier, I wouldn't have been so hurt.
Ghost him. Don't respond to any of his texts. One of 2 things will happen:
1. he freaks out, gets his shit together, and makes the effort (unlikely since it doesn't seem like he is interested so don't expect this to happen)
2. he doesn't really care and stops texting you.
if 1 happens then great. if 2 happens then you let go of a man who was just wasting your time.
Posted by rakacWHAT A SHOCKER THAT A CANCER MADE UP THIS RIDICULOUS POST.
What if he's feeling the same way about you?Maybe he doesn't mask because he thinks you don't want to see him? Thats kind of lame excuse from my point of view, if you like a person you can invite him to meet up, doesn't matter who sets up the date, you or him. Just my option, but assuming he doesn't want to see you without really knowing and only thinking about it is kind of childish, if you give up so easily for the things that even not might be real and are only in your head. Damn i don't understand how people are like this, he texts you, that means he invests some time to do this, i def wouldn't waste my time texting for a person i don't want to talk, it's not like he's ignoring you or saying he doesn't like you, it's your own choise to do as you please, but the things you say about he doesn't want to see me it's only in your head, your made it yourself, and you don't really know the truth, i'd invite you to ask him out or talk to him about it.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThe only ridiculous thing is to make up shit in your own head before knowing the truth. el oh elPosted by rakacWHAT A SHOCKER THAT A CANCER MADE UP THIS RIDICULOUS POST.
What if he's feeling the same way about you?Maybe he doesn't mask because he thinks you don't want to see him? Thats kind of lame excuse from my point of view, if you like a person you can invite him to meet up, doesn't matter who sets up the date, you or him. Just my option, but assuming he doesn't want to see you without really knowing and only thinking about it is kind of childish, if you give up so easily for the things that even not might be real and are only in your head. Damn i don't understand how people are like this, he texts you, that means he invests some time to do this, i def wouldn't waste my time texting for a person i don't want to talk, it's not like he's ignoring you or saying he doesn't like you, it's your own choise to do as you please, but the things you say about he doesn't want to see me it's only in your head, your made it yourself, and you don't really know the truth, i'd invite you to ask him out or talk to him about it.
el oh el.click to expand
Posted by rakacTell me, how's telling women to tolerate this nonsense any good for their overall well being?Posted by rockyroadicecreamThe only ridiculous thing is to make up shit in your own head before knowing the truth. el oh elPosted by rakacWHAT A SHOCKER THAT A CANCER MADE UP THIS RIDICULOUS POST.
What if he's feeling the same way about you?Maybe he doesn't mask because he thinks you don't want to see him? Thats kind of lame excuse from my point of view, if you like a person you can invite him to meet up, doesn't matter who sets up the date, you or him. Just my option, but assuming he doesn't want to see you without really knowing and only thinking about it is kind of childish, if you give up so easily for the things that even not might be real and are only in your head. Damn i don't understand how people are like this, he texts you, that means he invests some time to do this, i def wouldn't waste my time texting for a person i don't want to talk, it's not like he's ignoring you or saying he doesn't like you, it's your own choise to do as you please, but the things you say about he doesn't want to see me it's only in your head, your made it yourself, and you don't really know the truth, i'd invite you to ask him out or talk to him about it.
el oh el.click to expand
Posted by MissMPfft, he's not shy. Texting is a shy guy's paradise. No face to face contact.
Similar thing is happening to me. We txt'd for a bit then he went out of town, didn't hear much from him which was fine then when he came back we txtd a lot then met up once with some mutual friends then he txtd me everyday but hasn't asked me out. He did tell me he was shy though. I've decided if he doesn't ask me out within another week I'm just going to be like so are you ever going to ask me out? I would rather just cut straight to the point rather then waste my time txting someone daily i'm never going to see. You should either do the same or just forget him.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamThat's a nice way for you to introduce yourself, dipshit. 😄 I already told the reasons, if you're 2 blind to see it's you who's blind, not me, she only told he's only not asking her out, but he's texting her, so why would you say give up before even trying to invite a person to meet up or ask him why he doesn't ask before you pull the plug out? For me just sounds like insecure person trying to avoid rejection rather than having more faith in himself , geting some courage and asking a person out or why he doesn't simply invite her to meet up, as simple as that. Maybe he doesn't want to, maybe he has something going on, who the fuck knows, but the things is, without asking, without action and only reacting on your own inner thoughts you created upon a person is fucking bullshit and judgemental 🙂 She never told she's tolerating anything, she just says he doesn't invite her to meet up, how about growing some courage and askim him ? or askim him why he doesn't invite her to meet up anymore? To scared to do you? Rather walk away with your thoughts that he wasn't worth it, explaining to yourself and trying to convince subconscious that he was the bad one while you didn't even bother to ask anything ?If you don't bother to ask a person you like a question or something like that, you're either a insecure coward who's afraid of rejection or simply don't deserve a person, to me communication is the big part. It's like people say, if you never move you are always in the same place,if you don't go after what you want you'll never have it and this one fits this topic: IF YOU NEVER ASK THE ANSWER WILL ALWAYS BE NO. Thank you for your time and have a lovely day dipS.Posted by rakacTell me, how's telling women to tolerate this nonsense any good for their overall well being?Posted by rockyroadicecreamThe only ridiculous thing is to make up shit in your own head before knowing the truth. el oh elPosted by rakacWHAT A SHOCKER THAT A CANCER MADE UP THIS RIDICULOUS POST.
What if he's feeling the same way about you?Maybe he doesn't mask because he thinks you don't want to see him? Thats kind of lame excuse from my point of view, if you like a person you can invite him to meet up, doesn't matter who sets up the date, you or him. Just my option, but assuming he doesn't want to see you without really knowing and only thinking about it is kind of childish, if you give up so easily for the things that even not might be real and are only in your head. Damn i don't understand how people are like this, he texts you, that means he invests some time to do this, i def wouldn't waste my time texting for a person i don't want to talk, it's not like he's ignoring you or saying he doesn't like you, it's your own choise to do as you please, but the things you say about he doesn't want to see me it's only in your head, your made it yourself, and you don't really know the truth, i'd invite you to ask him out or talk to him about it.
el oh el.
Go ahead, dipshit, please, list the reasons. I'll be waiting.click to expand
Posted by rockyroadicecreamI agree with you to an extent but he told me face to face he's usually really shy so i'm kind of keeping that in mind a bit but we only met for the first time last wknd so i'll give it 10 days if he hasn't asked me out i'll be ditching.Posted by MissMPfft, he's not shy. Texting is a shy guy's paradise. No face to face contact.
Similar thing is happening to me. We txt'd for a bit then he went out of town, didn't hear much from him which was fine then when he came back we txtd a lot then met up once with some mutual friends then he txtd me everyday but hasn't asked me out. He did tell me he was shy though. I've decided if he doesn't ask me out within another week I'm just going to be like so are you ever going to ask me out? I would rather just cut straight to the point rather then waste my time txting someone daily i'm never going to see. You should either do the same or just forget him.
The ice has been broken and he can text you. If he can't bother to initiate any plans, he's just stringing you along.click to expand
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