Sorry for the typos. Don't know how to turn off the autocorrect.
This is confusing

Hes full of it. Scorpio moon needs emotion.
But what about Aquarius in his Mars, Venus, and sun?

Show him your emotions, but give him space
Hmmm, makes sense. Thats what I've been doing now and he seems happy 😄
Ugh I meant he said he doesn't matter to me. I don't know why I wrote "I don't matter to him"
Sorry, I Was sleepy.
Sorry, I Was sleepy.

I have an aqua sun and Scorpio moon. I've been told it's the most difficult combo to have. We guard our emotions but they are boiling under the surface. Create a safe environment for him to open up to you and once he fully trusts you, he will.

Everyone wants to feel wanted, loved, appreciated, respected... Even aquas. In fact, especially aquas.
Hiding your emotions in a relationship is not a good thing. If you hide your emotions, that's the same thing as lying by ommission. The thing an aqua wants most from someone is for that person to feel like they can be themselves. When you hide your emotions, you're not being yourself and an aqua sees right through that, which is a turn off for them.
This whole issue of hiding emotions from an aqua is a myth. You feel intense like, say it. You feel love, say it (just not too early). You feel sad, admit it. You feel upset, let them know. It is okay to let them know you have feelings for them, just do it logically and maturely. The misconception that gets misinterpretted is don't ACT emotional. No crying, yelling, over reacting. Emotions are fine. Just keep them logical.
Hiding your emotions in a relationship is not a good thing. If you hide your emotions, that's the same thing as lying by ommission. The thing an aqua wants most from someone is for that person to feel like they can be themselves. When you hide your emotions, you're not being yourself and an aqua sees right through that, which is a turn off for them.
This whole issue of hiding emotions from an aqua is a myth. You feel intense like, say it. You feel love, say it (just not too early). You feel sad, admit it. You feel upset, let them know. It is okay to let them know you have feelings for them, just do it logically and maturely. The misconception that gets misinterpretted is don't ACT emotional. No crying, yelling, over reacting. Emotions are fine. Just keep them logical.
How do you create a safe environment for him to open up?

Aquas with moon in scorpio have huge abandonment issues, hes pushing you away to gauge your reaction.
Its all scare tactics, we can be cold as ice when we need to be but on the inside some of us "especially the men" are coming to terms with this thing called love and connecting with others we burn really hot beneath the surface.....Because we're air and water we tend to be very much like a shaken up bottle of soda, we can put ourselves under heaps of pressure and people sometimes feel like they are walking on egg shells around us because we can explode under any given moment, I think maybe that's my perspective of a younger Aqua/scorp the more mature ones tend to lose their fizz but in no way am I flat at this point of my life....We're very secretive, even though we can talk a shit load about ourselves and our emotions there's still shit loads about us that you will never know, that that's just how we are.
To create a safe environment where he can open up don't be afraid of him when he flips out, he will say a lot of crap but he doesn't mean it, its all bait and traps for you to fall for to see what he can get away with.....Keep your cool, be level headed and learn the art of diffusion when hes at the apex of his rage or anger just agree with him and say "yep you're right" not because he is but just because its a clever way of dismissing him and sending the child off to bed.
Its all scare tactics, we can be cold as ice when we need to be but on the inside some of us "especially the men" are coming to terms with this thing called love and connecting with others we burn really hot beneath the surface.....Because we're air and water we tend to be very much like a shaken up bottle of soda, we can put ourselves under heaps of pressure and people sometimes feel like they are walking on egg shells around us because we can explode under any given moment, I think maybe that's my perspective of a younger Aqua/scorp the more mature ones tend to lose their fizz but in no way am I flat at this point of my life....We're very secretive, even though we can talk a shit load about ourselves and our emotions there's still shit loads about us that you will never know, that that's just how we are.
To create a safe environment where he can open up don't be afraid of him when he flips out, he will say a lot of crap but he doesn't mean it, its all bait and traps for you to fall for to see what he can get away with.....Keep your cool, be level headed and learn the art of diffusion when hes at the apex of his rage or anger just agree with him and say "yep you're right" not because he is but just because its a clever way of dismissing him and sending the child off to bed.
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