Trait?

I'm not sure if this is an Aquarius trait.

but i was talking to my mother this evening about one of her grandsons.
That she helps take care of him daily, so he sees her everyday. She takes care of a Taurus sun/Aquarius moon/ with Gemini venus and mars natally, baby boy, and a teenager (my brother in law's first child from another woman).

and my mother said that he doesn't seem to like being affectionate around her, and is much much more happier to see the other grandparents who he sees only every other weekend. So, my mother and father kind of got sad/disappointed in that.

I remembered something. I used to be, as a baby and a child shunned the affections of my pisces grandmother who loved me very much when she was alive. I adore and love her very much, and showed that to her for many years. But when i was a child, i was willfull, and was so annoyed at her helping me and caring, and shunned her love. I didnt really shun her love, I was just more annoyed.
But i loved my grandmother so very much it hurts. She never gave up on me, and although i didnt react the same way to my grandfather, was more loving and affectionate. I wonder if it's just a "trait" that Aquarius energy has?
Because, in time, i hugged, was Always with my grandmother, and gone to places with her side by side till the end.

I told my mother this, and she laughed and smiled. It seemed to make her remember. And she said, you're right, and said -- I shouldn't feel so sad, that this too shall pass.

also you have to understand, i also reacted the same way with my other grandma for a short while. And weirdly she loved me the most out of all her grandchildren, until one of her grandsons were born, and we were both her favourites.

and also, they were both my grandmothers who took care of me alot, and while i didnt react the same way with my grandfathers ---it's because they were out working alot so i didnt get to see them as often as grandmothers.
none of us are perfect in love, but
i guess, this is also appropriate:

My brother is an example of this. Almost like polar opposite now. I use to be his role model, he even wrote about it in school. Funny thing is that I was never around for his childhood, I was the distant brother that seldom talked to him and at times taught him maths, science, arts, etc.

He use to say that anyone taking care of him annoyed him and would rebel just because he could (how typical lol). Now that he's almost entering his 20s he's changed a lot. He takes care of his mum quite well and even tries to understand our father. I'm actually quite proud to be his brother. We don't talk much these days at all and I think he accepted that I'm just never going to be part of the family.

As for me I really don't know, I grew up with no one caring for me so I can't say... I would probably find it annoying because to me it feels like being restricted and not being able to learn from an experience or generally feeling caged. I've also come to realise because of this I find anyone entering my life who tries to care for me find it a nightmare because I'm quite stubborn in accepting help.

Posted by CaptainPimp
Sooo your q is. Are aquas not affectionate toward pisces that give them to much?
Im no aqua, but from noticing my relatives/gf. Yes.
They are far less affwmectionate toward me than anyone else. Maybe i shower them to much 🙂. How i am, giving.
However my mom who is cap n shows way more luv than me. Is loved by all. Maybe its the way we show it ^^.

If that is your question :p lol.

lol no not just towards pisces. I was very very affectionate towards my first husband. but super shy.

i'm talking about with close family that you're with all the time and not babys but older people. Your parents and grandparents ect.

Posted by aquasnoz
My brother is an example of this. Almost like polar opposite now. I use to be his role model, he even wrote about it in school. Funny thing is that I was never around for his childhood, I was the distant brother that seldom talked to him and at times taught him maths, science, arts, etc.

He use to say that anyone taking care of him annoyed him and would rebel just because he could (how typical lol). Now that he's almost entering his 20s he's changed a lot. He takes care of his mum quite well and even tries to understand our father. I'm actually quite proud to be his brother. We don't talk much these days at all and I think he accepted that I'm just never going to be part of the family.

As for me I really don't know, I grew up with no one caring for me so I can't say... I would probably find it annoying because to me it feels like being restricted and not being able to learn from an experience or generally feeling caged. I've also come to realise because of this I find anyone entering my life who tries to care for me find it a nightmare because I'm quite stubborn in accepting help.

i wonder too if it's rebellion. Is that an aquarius trait? Rebellion? I thought that was an Aries trait.

I'm sure since my sister is an Aries, little Taurus with Aquarius moon baby has some aries in him, or at least his sun or moon is in 1st or something signficiant. or maybe rising in aries.

maybe that's a "natural" instinct to just rebel when you're little.

James Dean was after all the Rebel. (without a cause) and he had Aries rising, leo mars, Scorpio moon though.

i mean, i've mentioned James Dean songs/James Dean references before.

but i didnt see it in myself so much. but when i look back, there's that little rebel.

this is a pretty cool song by Aquarius moon/Virgo sun Joan Jett: