Aquapanosh
@Aquapanosh
13 Years
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Posted by tbird
Well aquas are just classified as aloof. I think it's because you guys are in your heads a lot analyzing everything and then doing it again before you act when others are wanting a reaction/action so to speak sooner that what you guys are willing to give (I'm not saying that a bad thing). That and containing your emotions very well so no one can decepiher them makes you guys an enigma to others. Your very complex which leaves others perplexed on how to engage you in one form or another. Non-aquas don't know how to take your words or reactions.
Aquas seem to be direct but other times you are indirectly direct... you're a mystery and sometimes leaves things for interpetation which leaves others scratching their noggins thinking which way am I supposed to take that? And then there's the romantic side of you guys. Which I'm not going to touch. lol Mmmm....yeah.
You guys are very sweet,alluring and gregarious creatures which is wonderful. You seem to go out of your way for those you hold very dear to you. You do spend time with such people but when you guys are aloof (for a lack of a better term) i.e. breaking pre-arrange plans, leave in mid-conversation, break all contact for days/weeks then you leave the person wondering if you still care (in one form or another), which I've read happens a lot. lol
The Taurus (which LOVES stability and routine which you guys loathe) he will want a set schedule of when you see each other for instance once a weekend, but to you seeing him once a month could be good enough. Which to him = you don't care or don't want to be bothered. Taurus want to see/have contact with the person they care for a lot (well a lot to aquas). I have a Taurus moon and I can TOTALLY see/relate to that.
So yep... people do classify you lovely water barriers as aloof because honestly we cannot find another word that fits you. Which really doesn't define who you are cause honestly... aquas can not be contained in any group/definition...such as air cannot be contained.






Posted by tbird
One last thing about Taurus (sun and moon) we KNOW what we want. We are slow movers esp when it come to relationships (likewise for aquas) so that's good. But once we get there we are stubborn and will wait... Oh boy we will wait,endure and fight for what we want, tooth and nail. We will travel the ends of the earth to get what we want and if/once we achieve it we will charish that sucker forever. Taurus don't fall for just anyone so when we do we know there is a reason for such affections and will endure almost any and everything you throw at us. Doesn't mean we will take everything lying down, but we are slow to anger as well. So it would take a lot to piss us off... seriously. lol But we will get pissy and throw it back at you and after a while we will get over it and become our cool, calm, collected and earthy selves again.
I dunno if you and the Taurus guy are in a relationship or friendship but I'll tell you what once he decides he wants you...Pfff forget-about-it. The guy is gonna stick around and even if your unsure and only want friendship at the time he will accept it but always be waiting for the time you want more. When you do.... *sigh* get ready for it. That's all I gotta say. We can be a rock.

Posted by WaterCup
what i observed with other ppl, mainly sadge, libra and aries is that they get lonely to be with other ppl. Me on the other hand get lonely to be with me, im not a socialbutterfly at all. The more ppl there are, the lonelier i get. My social days (meeting up with friends) are far apart, my friends stay hours away maybe thats the reason- very fine with me, i like it that way. Just saying

Posted by tbird
but to you seeing him once a month could be good enough.

Posted by RealTalkPosted by tbird
but to you seeing him once a month could be good enough.
But there just has to be a happy medium. Don't be too aloof & don't be too clingy. 🙂click to expand



Posted by WaterCup
but if they send a long ass text, i hope they dont mind when i reply with shorty- i hate texting

Posted by WaterCup
in a way chem i think we do have a scale too or at least i do, not a crazy one though (like that of u know who). For an example, i didnt find a relationship with another aqua fulfilling- too cold emotionally and those who were too hot, overwhelmed me emotionally. I think i have a mirror too, lol. If u dont call, i dont either. I even count text words, dont wanna out do them so to speak, lol.

Posted by aquajPosted by chemengin
And taurus...well i really have nothing to say about them. the one i dated always called to see where i was. if i wasnt with him then he thought i was with another man. I will never forget he tried to accused me of that while i was getting my eyebrows arched. all i could do is laugh.
One of my best friends is an Aqua and she broke up late last year with a Taurus, who continued to pick her up from her social engagements, call her to check up on her everytime she was out, and even offered to take her on vacation (they went to the Dominican in January). This was after she made him move out. In her mind, they are still friends. In his mind, well, let's just say when he came over unannounced to pick up his mail and her new male friend was there (because she's dating again), his head hit the roof. I have literally never seen such a possessive man. I actually really like the guy, but like even when they were together, he would call her four times everytime we were out together and ALWAYS come pick her up. When he continued doing that even after they broke up I was just like, "...wtf??"click to expand








Posted by tbird
One asked me what did I want from him? All of this before sex!!!
I'm sorry but that sentence right there made my gigglesnort. Me being a smart arse my reply would of been something stupid like, chocolate of course! What else could it be? Your body? You know sex has to be initated for that, right?!

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