Whats going on ms aquarius?? lol

Okay well just had a quick question.

There is an aqua girl im chasing (im a gemini) and this is my first "bi" experience so im pretty freaked out but dealing pretty well with it!. So im pretty sure she likes me but like all aquas she does the whole dissapearing act but not for long (like 2 or 3 days MAX) otherwise we'll somehow communicate (text, email) everyday.

Anyway, so I was in class with her last night (we met in a course we're both studying) and we sat next to each other and we were doing an exam. She kept on asking me questions on the exam and how to do things but instead of touching my arm, or my hand or something that was in perfect reach, she, under the table would touch (poke) my thigh so I could give her attention and help her...

I just found it a bit weird because I would touch her hand or her arm so she could face me and just found it odd that she'd go for my leg.... so is this how aquas show their interest "physically"??

And she'd touch my thigh really softly and delicately lol

Hmm there are others things she'd done such as begin to hug me hello and kiss on the cheek as well which I thought was odd since aquas arent very touchy feely. And her hugs are tight too lol.

Thanks for your input much appreciated! 🙂)

OH SNAP! SHE TOUCHED YOUR LEG! YOUR LEG! You're so in! SO IN! Go for it! EXCLAMATION MARKS GALORE!!!!!!!!!!

Seems like she likes you. Go for it but remember that there's always a feeling out process with these damn Aquas. Best course of action is patience and ice cream.

DK, i've been "patient" with this girl for about 3 months. My patience is wearing thin and im starting to lose interest but when I do she can somehow "sense" it and does something and then im back to square 1 !!

Shes been "feeling me out" a few weeks. How much LONGEEERRRR!?!?!?!?!

lol trust me I havent put any pressure on her at all. I even ignore her sometimes and she straight away questions it. She'll be like why didnt you reply to my msg?? etc etc but then she can ignore me all she wants and I have to put up with it!?!?!

not quite ready for what— im not pursuing a relationship with her at all. I just want to get closer to her, get to know her better (as friends) and have the occassional hook up you know. Kind of a "friends with benefits" but the major thing being her FRIEND.

She knows I like her and I asked her once if she liked me and she said "maybe, maybe not you will never know haha" and i go to her no seriously tell me! and she goes "you know i LIKE you" but thats all shes ever said relating to that and since i found out I havent asked anything further about emotions or liking or anything...

because I dont want to freak her out or whatever and dont want to seem clingy so i've just been playing by HER rules and chasing her here and there but im getting over it but uughh i WANT HER TO BE MINEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!! and i HATE not getting what I want because trust me lol i usually get what i want and her not giving me the attention I want drives me UP THE WALL!!

You aquas... tsk tsk tsk

You could take the gloves off and go for it. You made it clear that you want a friends with benefits type of thing right? If you have then stop playing her game. Sounds like she has no idea what she wants right now but you do. So take that ball and slam it into her court. Make it clear what's going down. Declare game. Blouses. Pull back, do your own thing until she comes running because she's already shown that she will when you ignore her. The other option would be to wait it out. I'm not sure if you have that much patience though. Aquas take forever. Why, damnit why?

i HATE not getting what I want because trust me lol i usually get what i want and her not giving me the attention I want drives me UP THE WALL!!

lol... you so gemini. Aqua lady's bound to teach you some patience.

I thought was odd since aquas arent very touchy feely.
well, depends...

But don't be too patient like DK09 says or you end up playing her game 100% ... try not to run away either too quickly

Is she bi too? If she is, is this her first too?

well i think i missed my chance to make a move and now im in the 'friends'category. I have the feeling shes just lapping up in the attention I give her and is 'keeping me there'. Well im over it. im sick i asking to see her outside of class etc hang out with her she always declines but indirectly. So im over it and decided to just ignore her and thats it 🙂 shes taking her sweet a*s time to make a move or make up her mind and i dont have the patience!

i've already been waiting around about 2-3 months, not pushing her, taking it at HER pace, playing at her game, 'going with the flow' etc etc. Wat am i supposed to do??grab her and kiss her?? grab her and tell her YOUR MINE!!

lol.

zenal, yes she is bi as well and she couldnt believe that i liked her at first because im more 'curious' than bi so she was a bit weary at the start and asked me if i even like girls and she couldnt believe i liked her because 'im not that attracted to girls' so i dont know!!

Well you have showed your interest, up to her now 😉

or you could "grab her and kiss her?? grab her and tell her YOUR MINE!!"

rofl.

joker!