What's ur take??

Hello, so glad i found this!!!! some other woman out there trying to understand the aqua psyche!!
my problem is as such...and it's a little embarassing actually. i've read before that aqua men like to experiment and is no exception. we've always had an active sex life and we've done our fair share of experimenting. he's always spoken about inviting a 2nd woman into the bedroom to "try it out" and i've always thought he was joking. but lately he's a little more serious about it - mentions it often.
i told him this bugs me for several reasons 1. considering the other woman is new he'll probably forget i'm even there which could hurt 2. once we've crossed that line we can't go back and what next—? 3. am i not good enough on my own—
he said that he would never sleep with another woman or kiss (he says this is very intimate) another woman other than me but that it would be nice for him to see me with another woman and that he'd like to watch and maybe touch here and there but has no intention of sleeping with anyone other than me. i'm not into woman, or never really found another woman sexually attractive but i'm quite open minded - just never thought to this! told him i'm not really ready for it and would have to think about it very carefully 1st.
not sure if he's just testing my boundaries or whether he really is into fulfilling his fantasy of a threesome, or whether he's bored. he did say that it would be nice to see another woman naked again and that it would be his biggest thrill to see me with another woman. i appreciate that he's discussing it with me rather than just going out and doing it without me (if seeing another woman naked again is what he's craving?) we have a friend couple and the man is continously begging the woman to find a third woman for a session - she's quite obliging just don't think she's found the right woman yet.

so aqua experts, where is this sudden need of his coming from—

some history...we're both in our thirties and have been together for almost two years now.

Hello, so glad i found this!!!! some other woman out there trying to understand the aqua psyche!!
my problem is as such...and it's a little embarassing actually. i've read before that aqua men like to experiment and is no exception. we've always had an active sex life and we've done our fair share of experimenting. he's always spoken about inviting a 2nd woman into the bedroom to "try it out" and i've always thought he was joking. but lately he's a little more serious about it - mentions it often.
i told him this bugs me for several reasons 1. considering the other woman is new he'll probably forget i'm even there which could hurt 2. once we've crossed that line we can't go back and what next—? 3. am i not good enough on my own—
he said that he would never sleep with another woman or kiss (he says this is very intimate) another woman other than me but that it would be nice for him to see me with another woman and that he'd like to watch and maybe touch here and there but has no intention of sleeping with anyone other than me. i'm not into woman, or never really found another woman sexually attractive but i'm quite open minded - just never thought to this! told him i'm not really ready for it and would have to think about it very carefully 1st.
not sure if he's just testing my boundaries or whether he really is into fulfilling his fantasy of a threesome, or whether he's bored. he did say that it would be nice to see another woman naked again and that it would be his biggest thrill to see me with another woman. i appreciate that he's discussing it with me rather than just going out and doing it without me (if seeing another woman naked again is what he's craving?) we have a friend couple and the man is continously begging the woman to find a third woman for a session - she's quite obliging just don't think she's found the right woman yet.

so aqua experts, where is this sudden need of his coming from—

some history...we're both in our thirties and have been together for almost two years now.

Hello, so glad i found this!!!! some other woman out there trying to understand the aqua psyche!!
my problem is as such...and it's a little embarassing actually. i've read before that aqua men like to experiment and is no exception. we've always had an active sex life and we've done our fair share of experimenting. he's always spoken about inviting a 2nd woman into the bedroom to "try it out" and i've always thought he was joking. but lately he's a little more serious about it - mentions it often.
i told him this bugs me for several reasons 1. considering the other woman is new he'll probably forget i'm even there which could hurt 2. once we've crossed that line we can't go back and what next—? 3. am i not good enough on my own—
he said that he would never sleep with another woman or kiss (he says this is very intimate) another woman other than me but that it would be nice for him to see me with another woman and that he'd like to watch and maybe touch here and there but has no intention of sleeping with anyone other than me. i'm not into woman, or never really found another woman sexually attractive but i'm quite open minded - just never thought to this! told him i'm not really ready for it and would have to think about it very carefully 1st.
not sure if he's just testing my boundaries or whether he really is into fulfilling his fantasy of a threesome, or whether he's bored. he did say that it would be nice to see another woman naked again and that it would be his biggest thrill to see me with another woman. i appreciate that he's discussing it with me rather than just going out and doing it without me (if seeing another woman naked again is what he's craving?) we have a friend couple and the man is continously begging the woman to find a third woman for a session - she's quite obliging just don't think she's found the right woman yet.

so aqua experts, where is this sudden need of his coming from—

some history...we're both in our thirties and have been together for almost two years now.

I can only answer that if I were in this situation I would not compromise my values for a man. If this is that important to him, he would need to find another woman to match his needs.

Know who you are and your decision will be easy.

He's bored...I'm with Freebird on this one. You have to sit down and weigh it out, follow your heart and if he makes you feel uncomfortable about your decision, you may want to find a new playmate.