While my Aqua is giving me another silent treatment round two... this is very interesting read.

Posted by aquarius_beauty
Didn't finish reading but I can tell you if he's giving you the silent treatment and pulling back, he's either falling in love with you or has lost interest.

U shud read it it's a cool read.. I don't know which one honestly... I finally expressed my whole feelings.. literally everything after the mistake I have made online... he saw me dated another guy on there n he went silence for the whole 10 hours on fb though beigonline elsewhere... I took it as he's upset... anyhow, I finally explained everything n maybe too much.saying how I wished it was him I was spending time with but I really wanted to go out etc, !mn I said because he can't give me the relationship right now, this guy is very nice to me , very into me so I'm going to give him a good shot..... n I said I love him coz I want to c him happy even if I'm not part of it ... n that I wish the best for him... he responded finally saying that's a lot to take in n he will reply afeeer watchin a movie lol ... he never said to me he wasn't upset .. he just said he saw the photo n thinking * naughty girl in a fun way *... this was it lol... bloody Aquarius.. I'm finished with him.. im moving on with pride.. I did what I had to do.. I expressed my feelings.. I'm seriously moving on now.... thank u for ur input honestly.... love me or not I don't know but I want a guy who will own him to his feelings and he's not good enough for me... honestly.... we r on a different page in life at the moment so I have to let him go n fly free... 😉

Posted by oliola91
Thank you for sharing. I love Aquarius people, but maybe more as friends than as lovers

Yay I will b ready to be friends mayb after a big while. I need time to heal.

That was interesting but super flowery.....it was hard to understand. Except that they seem scattered and all over the place and maybe you need to be the calm chill one?? Hmmm

But how to know if his silence treatment is bcz he is falling in love or he lost interest?

Bcz i need to know so i know what action i shud take to move.

He said we met almost everyday n need to take it slow.since then he become cold n not excited with me anymore,i might showed too much emotions but i guess i wud not if he didnt somethings that made me emotional.he treated me like we were couple..since last time we met,he seemed flat but still allowed me to stay in his place even we didnt have sex(seemed like he didnt want to even i told him i wanted it) we just cuddled n when i was about leaving his place in the morning i only hugged him ,normally we kissed but i was too afraid to kiss him with this situation.

Since then we not texting as much as before.just sometimes..

I miss him so much.miss our moments.

Do u think i still have chance to get him back?or its over ? 😢

I would say give him some space and carry on with your life. If he wants you he knows where you are. If he doesn't then you haven't lost anything because you aren't sitting around waiting for him.

I think that with people, unless you are a very good liar, your thoughts resonate in your actions. So if you are moving on and having fun, then your ex will see that and it will make him wonder.

If you were to sit around and wait for him and your find in time that he has not interest in rekindling something then you will be upset for wasting your own time.

Look after yourself first. Go out have fun, enjoy life, make sure you live life for you. That way you haven't lost out either way. If he comes back then just make your decision on how you feel.

I have been speaking to someone here on messages and this lovely lady has kindly explained the complex thoughts an Aqua has. They aren't actually complex at all, its just people who aren't Aquas don't tend to understand them. I found from personal experience that emotionally driven thoughts or actions will just scare an aqua away.

Let go, feel free, be air just like they are. If its meant to be im sure it will be.

Good luck

I know u are right.but now im suffering from this situation.im used to have him around n looked for me.now he is just like a stranger n it hurts me so much.

I really wish i cud do something to fix it n turn back the time to our fun times together.

I never meant to show any emotions to him but im a woman n im libra so it sometimes just come out naturally..im feeling so bad now n regret why cudnt i just play cool but its actually not completely my fault.he was also emotional,he showed me his emotions often.from the way he texted ,way he tou hed,way he kissed,hugged ,his starres n way he talked to me.he was the one that want to text all the times n meet up but then he is the one who said we need to take it slow.im feeling like a trash now.. so sad