My aqua man seems not interested to contact me anymore

He seems making distance n getting less n less contacting me,,he change 😢

Does it mean he just need space or whatelse?

Im scared of loosing him 😢

Help

What are the circumstances of his disappearance? Has anything happened?

Sometimes they take a step back to re evaluate how they feel. Other times they take a step back because they are upset.

Either way he is trying to figure stuff out and you will find out soon enough.

Sometimes we get this way when we want our alone time. If he doesn't come back in a few days, I'd say he's not interested.

Posted by aquarius09
Sometimes we get this way when we want our alone time. If he doesn't come back in a few days, I'd say he's not interested.

Is it normal for Aqua men to become distant after great sex when you are in a relationship and he has confesssd he loves you? My Aqua guy has taken a back seat with his emotions.

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Posted by aquarius09
Sometimes we get this way when we want our alone time. If he doesn't come back in a few days, I'd say he's not interested.

Is it normal for Aqua men to become distant after great sex when you are in a relationship and he has confesssd he loves you? My Aqua guy has taken a back seat with his emotions.

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@nepturanus

It's probably because you showed him too much of your feelings. My sisters are Aquarius and they always tell when dealing with an Aquarius, always be running, never get caught. They don't want to know that have you, they like to be constantly be wondering. Also it's a mind game. They wanna know that you're gonna run after them, and if you do, you lose. They got you, they're bored, they're done.

That, or you could keep chasing and give them what they crave, undying admiration. But if you choose that route, it'll be a painful road for you, but they'll eventually realize you're the one.

This is what happened last time we met n it was 3 days ago : i am Libra woman,been dating with Aqua man for a month.

We have good times together n spend times doing nice things together.

Sometimes he cud be so open and emotional about his feeling like saying he really likes me,and so gratefull he can share many things with me.i love it when he tell me his feelings.

We text each other almost daily.but sometimes i let him doing his things n i understand it if he sometimes not really excited to text.i know he need his spaces

On wednesday afternoon i went to our fav place alone to have some beers after work whole day,we didnt talk bcz we were busy working.But then he texted me n asked if i was in our fav place i said yes n he joined me for drinking.afterwards he brought me to his fav resto for dinner n then back to his place.

We talked about so many things n planned some things to do together this weekend.it was late in the night he said he was tired n wanted to sleep so i asked him if he wanted me to leave so he cud rest.Suddenly he got a bit upset n he felt that i made distance.but he also mentioned that i texted him all the timez.i really confused n dont understand what he meant.seemed like he complained that i made distance with him which its not true i thought it was him that made distance.we argued about that n i decided to leave but he stopped me n asked me to stay with him last night so i stayed.

Im still confused about his behavior last night.i never seen him upset before

The next morning he acted normal n i told him im not happy we got fight last night n he said its alright sometimes it happens he said

I got the feeling that i might showed him too much feelings or emotion but i am Libra,its hard for me to not telling how i feel..

Since last time we met we still texting but mostly i did first n he often dissepear in mid of our convo.its not like him that i know from the start.i miss his excited texts,checking up me,telling me whats he is up too..lately he rarely using his phone.last night he didnt answer my last text but i saw him was active on FB messenger till 1am but he didnt text me.i was so sad,,suddenly he whatsapp me n said : Sweet dreams,Yocta.

I dont understand..what does he want?he seems a bit confused..n i can feel that he's still thinking a bout me but scared to do things.i dont know

So what shud i do when aqua man is making distance?shud i text him or not?im also afraid of being dissapointed if he doesnt reply or reply but not really excited..or shud i make him womdering why i dont text him anymore..?

I know I made forum about this but venus retrograde perhaps?

All I know is that all the aquas in my life have been dealing with some sort of change since December. A change in mindset, career or whatever. Some sort of change, and they've been 'active' in both their head and actions - they've had to make a decision... and then suddenly things seem to have calmed down, the decision has been made - to some extend.

Alright so it seems like making distance is part of their way.

So what shud i do?shud i let him doing his things or whatever he's been doing n upto i dont really know anymore.

I just hope i cud make him miss me somehow like he normally did before..

Shud i wait untill he contact me first?

Posted by aquarius_beauty
How long have you been together? And what constitutes as 'your' Aqua? Are you guys in an official relationship or are you just dating?

He's either seeking alone time, isn't interested, is hurt, or is falling in love.

Oh my goodness lol !!!!! So only time will tell with these people right?

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Posted by CapLovinAquaz

Posted by aquarius09
Sometimes we get this way when we want our alone time. If he doesn't come back in a few days, I'd say he's not interested.

Is it normal for Aqua men to become distant after great sex when you are in a relationship and he has confesssd he loves you? My Aqua guy has taken a back seat with his emotions.

taking a step back or a bit distant is much normal for aquas in all circumstances. it's just our nature. don't overthink yourself why.

if you think your man is/about to distant, catch him in a subtle manner, be proactive.

don't give up, he'll come back "normal". your patience and persistence is the key.

aquas not good at time management, we're busy creature. judge him when hes around you not when hes not around(distant).

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Judge when he's around you than when he's not around? Ouch... so what r the actions he's around to know he's full in ? u guys r half asses lol

My aqua man is very cheerfull,exvited,friendly,warm,loving,sweet,romantic n also fun when we are together.

But a bit different when we are apart lately.i really have no idea.i guess i just can wait!

@Astrofan : so which way do i have to choose?just let him alone by not texting him or bothering him or keep texting him?

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Posted by CapLovinAquaz

Posted by aquarius09
Sometimes we get this way when we want our alone time. If he doesn't come back in a few days, I'd say he's not interested.

Is it normal for Aqua men to become distant after great sex when you are in a relationship and he has confesssd he loves you? My Aqua guy has taken a back seat with his emotions.

taking a step back or a bit distant is much normal for aquas in all circumstances. it's just our nature. don't overthink yourself why.

if you think your man is/about to distant, catch him in a subtle manner, be proactive.

don't give up, he'll come back "normal". your patience and persistence is the key.

aquas not good at time management, we're busy creature. judge him when hes around you not when hes not around(distant).

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Thanks for the feedback! But how do I be proactive in a subtle manner? Give an example

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Posted by aquarius_beauty
How long have you been together? And what constitutes as 'your' Aqua? Are you guys in an official relationship or are you just dating?

He's either seeking alone time, isn't interested, is hurt, or is falling in love.

Oh my goodness lol !!!!! So only time will tell with these people right?

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Right? Could it be anymore confusing and mind fucking?