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softy
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My aries friend flew me in to visit him for a couple of days...he cooked dinner, we had some drinks...and things started to go pretty far..(we've never slept together). I stopped the action and told him we didnt need to be doing that and went to sleep. Earlier in the evening before the drinks, I noticed that if I sat real close to him, he would get up like he had to grab something. Or he would sit there and nervously play with candy wrapper..(weird). So anyways, the remainder of the trip he was pretty quiet..but affectionate in a sense. If I was laying on the couch he would lay his head on me and we would hold hands that type of thing. So when I went to bed. He fell asleep on the couch. In the morning, I felt him slide in behind me for like 10 SECONDS and he gets up and goes back downstairs. So I get up and go sit on his lap...he all of a sudden has to get the laundry.I dont I just felt kinda threw off for some reason.I guess im just unsure if he is interested or not.
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He is trying not to make himself look like an ass. You all got hot and heavy on the sofa then you shut him down and went to sleep... what is he supposed to do follow you around like a whipped puppy?


He wants you and was nervous, that's why he kept getting up. He was also trying to create some attraction by playing the close/far game. One time when you sit close he cuddles up, next time he gets up and walks away... keep you guessing. Then when "things started to go pretty far" you went cold and left him blueballed. Aries men are typically proud and you shot his pride. He still is interested, which is why he snuggled up in bed with you, but he is afraid of pushing again too soon so he got up and left real quick. Then he probably felt foolish about it so when you came and sat on him on the sofa he got up.

As for the comment, "I dont see why you cant sleep with someone without sex." ... Of course you can but it is much better to sleep next to someone after sex. If it is a new relationship don't rush it or anything but don't lead him on either.