Does Aries like me or no?

I've been really tight friends with this aries guy and we were amazing friends and our relationship was just great. Last thing I had on my mind was to date him. For the past few months things started changing I started feeling weird around him since i started sensing that he liked me a bit more than a friend, this went on Jan al the way till end of March. I didn't want to jump into conclusions cause I thought would be silly of me to think my friend is pursuing me.

One time in feb we accidently kiss on the lips both drunk, we both totaly ignore that it actually happened. End of March he admits to me that he is attracted to me via sms msgs, next day he flirts like crazy with me infront of all my friends and eventually we have the hottest make out session at night.

The chemistry was burning for the first month, he was out of town for two weeks so technically i got to see him less than 2 weeks within that month. He mentioned that he loves that I don't nag...

Then I donno what happened I stopped getting the attention I used to get from him,by then I started falling for him. we did end up sleeping together a few times in May but I am really confused if this aries likes me or not!

I know he cares for me a lot as a friend, I know he puts an effort to see me maybe he doesn't respond everytime i ask to see him but eventually he does. When I message him he eventually replies if he doesn't on the spot.
I've noticed that he plays hard to get himself. If he calls me and I miss the phone call and call him back he makes sure that he doesn't pick up immediately. He would call me at least half an hour later.
If I go a whole day without texting him he calls me the next day.

When I spend hours with him he tells me how he was never able to spend that many hours with a girl, sometimes he shows me he's interested, sometimes I feel his warmth etc and sometimes I feel the exact opposite!

How can I tell if he really likes me or not? If he is confused about me how can I make him want me?

Hope the above will make sense lol thanks guys!

If you have to ask if he likes you then NO least not in the way you want him to....Deep down you already know that already....You can't make a man want you, all you can do is show that you have some respect for yourself and won't let him string you along not that it seems he's doing that but you chasing him via text messages etc is creating tension, he doesn't want to completely blow you off and hurt your feelings...IMO There is a high level of physical attraction thus the kissing, making out, sex but that doesn't make a man want to be with a woman, he must feel something deeper on an emotional level, if he's not pursuing you then he doesn't feel that way about you.

Reading the replys -now I"M confused.

I'm talking to an Aries guy online. Even while we chat I wonder if he does like me. Though he says he does. We've been talking for about two weeks and have till August to decide if we like eachother enough to meet because he's in Iraq and it's either Ga with family or Ca with me by then.

The thing is, I don't feel like I'm getting enough attention. Even when we start a chat and ask one another how we're doing it takes him a while just say I'm doing fine. Like, he doesn't start typing his reply for a full two minutes. WHY?

do you want to be in a relationship with him? if you do, then you have to ask him if this is headed anywhere because you like him.

but if you're afraid of his response because you don't want what you have right now to end then you have your answer.

aries guys do like the chase but i went through so much crap with the aries i was with for almost 3 years. it was exhausting and when i think back on it so much anguish could have been avoided if we didn't play the whole cat and mouse chasing game. somebody needed to say "here's the fucking deal" and we both would have gladly accepted it (good or bad) but we were too young and stupid. im so glad im not in love with an aries anymore 😛

Invigorate_Me yes I think the attention has decreased a little. It has always beengoing up and down, one time he is really warm and one time he's cold and selfish and just wants to stik to his priorities. But a simple example was before we had sex when I would leave his place he'd text me and ask if I got home and all is good. (I come from a different backgrond, strict, conservative, sex not permitted and girls have curfew 🙂)
Anyway he barely does that anymore, doesn't ask like before if all is good.

I leave him on realy good terms feeling great, although he doesn't say anything but from the way he'd hug me kiss me I can tell there are emotions. Then he confuses the hell out of me again goes really cold and makes me wonder what the hell went wrong. Most of the time I don't even see him or interact with him between his mood swings so I donno what makes him change!

Things just happened so I never got the chance to ask him where I stand plus I can never ask him that, he is either a man about it and says it himself or he will eventually lose me 😄
I think I did a mistake a while back and said " I know I am not your wife or gf but I do get kinda jealous" next day he sens me an sms message and says " I Know you're not my wife or gf but how was the sex😉 ) LOL bastard

I did't call him or text for 2 days which is unusual for him he sent me a msg at 4:00am saying he missed me. Now I bet he was thinking whether to send or not send since midnight. He trips over his ego its so annoying.
I replied back saying i missed himmore but dropped the kisses haha

So now do I just go cold again and ignore him? or will he think I lost interest and move on?
Apparently he was having a lot of fun for 4 months when we were barely hinting at eachother that there is something and not one of us opened up and admitted it.

That's a long post lol. Thank you all for your comments and support.Now when I am tempted to call or text I'll just visit this forum heheh

Invigorate_Me yes you are right 😢 I am doing him the FWB favor.
I've taken my own self forgranted and got drifted into the fun haha
It's never too late to set boundries but I'm not sure they would still help at this stage. I presume he might just go look for another fuck buddy. Anyway the sooner that happens the better at least I wont get to dwell on this for too long then realise I'm his FWB!

Btw Invigorate_Me I love your photo and comments! I thought so when I was reading posts before posting my own haha I'm Straiiight so don't worry 😛 and too far away 🙂 haha

Posted by LovelyMissAries

You should start your own thread.

She did LMA:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-and-sagg-2022319/

Posted by Invigorate_Me
Well if he does go and find another fuck buddy, then that is one less issue you have to deal with. Let the next chick deal with him. So the next time he comes to you with only his dick in his hand, then give him a towel and tell him take a cold shower??_it helps!!!

Well put 😄

Posted by LovelyMissAries

Posted by Flavia

Posted by LovelyMissAries

You should start your own thread.

She did LMA:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/aries/aries-and-sagg-2022319/

I didn't know if she did it before she posted in this thread or not. If it was before... well then, shut my mouth.

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LOl, it's cool. She just may need your input in that thread as well. 😉

Ladies, just a few updates on what's goin on with my Aries. I'm positve you'll better see what I can't since i admit he's blinded me.

We went out for a drink last night after not seeing him for a whole week (normaly I'd see him on average 3 times) and I wasn't texting him anywhere close to as much as I used to before. (esecially text messages that indicate how bad I desire him and want him... sexually 🙂 )
I felt he was really happy to see me, excited, he had a huge smile on his face, he was stroking my back and hands the whole time although that's not highly appreciated where I live. We had a good time then he introduced me to his friends from work whom eventually joined us I was presuming he'd stop touching me, one cause we're not officially in a relationship, two again cause our culture is a bit conservative.

I just wanna know if that means anything at all or not!!

I sent him a message later on at night after I left thanking him for the good time but he didn't reply to it. I know he's probably doing that cause he noticed I cut down on the number of msgs I've been sending him. He even mentioned it when we were out, he said I wonder if something is wrong cause you haven't been in touch with me like before. I gave him the what are you talking about look.

Anyway I am planning on keeping it cool and keeping the texting to minimal...

What do you ladies think? Ahhhh He's "Treetrunking" hot!! hahah I want him BAAAAAAAAAAAAD!!
HEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLPPPPPP!! Tips tips tips

Lol!! I love you too LMA!! Strut your stuff!! 😄

I agree take a step back from him 🙂

Amethyst you are absolutely right. I know that too I had gays chasing me and telling me how serious they are about our relationship since start but it's easier said than done especially that I want him really bad. I always have hope that there is something I could do for him to consider a serious relationship, especially that I know he is attracted to me and likes me it's just that he has to start taking me seriously.

I'm cutting down on the attention we'll see how that goes. Will not see him more than once a week and i'll make sure I look exceptionally good when I do. For some reason I become more appealing to HIM when OTHER people say that I am looking good infront of him.

I shall not reside for anything less than I should be geting, I hope I get what I want hahah 🙂

Arieeeeeeeeeeees!! with a Libra Moon I think it will take him ages to say or do anthing even if he wanted to.

Thank you so much ladies. Will keep ya posted 😉