arghghghhhhhhhhh!!

Aries making me want to break stuff, were friends and then we began sleeping together which wasn't a great idea. I'm half in love with him but he is not strictly available, which is why I asked him to leave me alone. We actually haven't seen each other for some time and he never texts anymore, but he does chat to me on facebook, that is until I told him I didn't want any form of contact with him and that I needed to distance myself because I thought I felt something for him and I didn't want to get hurt, nor do I want to play second fiddle to his uglyass Scorpio woman. His reaction was to get angry : if I thought him chatting to me on facebook might hurt me then that was just FINE, but I was being a stupid little girl. Am I being a stupid little girl? Why is he such a f.wit?

Posted by tatbubba
Aries making me want to break stuff, were friends and then we began sleeping together which wasn't a great idea. I'm half in love with him but he is not strictly available, which is why I asked him to leave me alone. We actually haven't seen each other for some time and he never texts anymore, but he does chat to me on facebook, that is until I told him I didn't want any form of contact with him and that I needed to distance myself because I thought I felt something for him and I didn't want to get hurt, nor do I want to play second fiddle to his uglyass Scorpio woman. His reaction was to get angry : if I thought him chatting to me on facebook might hurt me then that was just FINE, but I was being a stupid little girl. Am I being a stupid little girl? Why is he such a f.wit?

Ha ha, maybe cause they naturall are f.wits 🙂 Only joking, the Aries guys and gals I know are great, love em.

I did the same with an Aries, should have stayed just friends, funnily enough he too got angry a few weeks ago with me when I called him out on the way he was with me, he's not talking to me anymore 😢 why get angry when confronted with the truth is what i'm wondering.

lol @ half in love.
That's cute.

Posted by tatbubba
Am I being a stupid little girl?

If I remember correctly didn't this Aries tell you the truth about his feelings towards the Scorpio? He pretty much put the ball in your court. Ya deal with his bullshit or hit the road. It's just that simple.

he also told me and a mutual friend it was definately over between them. and he told me he liked being with me!!

in fact he told me he really cared about me! the most annoying thing is he can't even imagine why i might be hurt! and he expects me to carry on as if nothing ever happened.

Ya friends only!

Posted by bluemoon9043834
I think he cares about you and is sorry that he hurt you. He was trying to remain a friend to you because he does care about you... he probably would be with you if the situation wouldn't have turned better with the Scorpio... you yelling and going on emotional outbursts are not helping you or your situation at all... it will push him out of your life, probably permanently. His intentions was to remain friends and to see you do better and move on without him, but remain friends... which is very selfless. So yes, he did care about you. You, on the other hand, only care for your self.

now just you hang on a minute, maybe he would like to see us remain friends and to see me move on... but why is that selfless—? how does it affect him either away, apart from it would be easier on his conscience? he hurt me why can't i be indignant? apart from the fact that maybe he didn't LIE but did keep me in the dark about a lot of things... that's why i feel stupid and used! and only caring about myself... well thank god i do, what am i supposed do behave like, a doormat who just says "oh thats fine, you're a dick but we can still be friends?"