Aries on Aries??

This topic was created in the Aries forum by ereshkigalstar on Saturday, February 25, 2012 and has 10 replies.

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@ereshkigalstar
14 Years

I am an Aries female, with Asc and Moon in Cancer. I am currently getting to know an Aries guy for pretty much the first time. Before, I would avoid them at all costs cuz all I did with Aries men was argue. I dated one years ago though...and he was mindnumbingly boring!! I know we all have similarities but we can be wayyy different as well. It's kind of a good mix with this guy.
The only problem I'm having is fear. And I know that's what is holding me back. I know how I am, very upfront and honest in any situation, but also know there is an other side to Aries...like there is to all signs. And as great as he seems, there's always that one question in my mind. Blah..
I just really want to know if this would work out in the long run? I know how quickly I can get bored. But we seem to be well aware that we both need a lot of space to sort of, keep things alive?
So any feedback would be great, thank you 😄

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@loner
14 YearsAries

Ingredients for a harmonious Aries/Aries relationship:

-Flexibility on both parts
-Understanding/a willingness to listen to one another (compromise when necessary)
-Calmness (no yelling, no foot stomping etc) In other words, keep that temper and "Me-first attitude" in check.

.....These 3 tend to be the most difficult for Aries couples....but with some effort, you can achieve harmony....

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I have some good Aries friends (guys) but the idea of dating them feels too weird (like dating my brother)(which I know is SOP in parts of the world, just not in mine🙂)

Lucky guy to find an Aries/Cancer moon chick. I hope he appreciates what he has got.

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@ereshkigalstar
14 Years

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
I have some good Aries friends (guys) but the idea of dating them feels too weird (like dating my brother)(which I know is SOP in parts of the world, just not in mine🙂)

Lucky guy to find an Aries/Cancer moon chick. I hope he appreciates what he has got.

LOL I hope the same!!

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@ereshkigalstar
14 Years

Ugh, its getting really weird. One minute he's all hot and heavy, then he'll go ice cold for a couple days. I can understand if he wants space, but at least tell me? And not in a brash way.
Ridiculous being of the same sign and I have no idea if he's pulling something or just being him.
Also think he has trouble expressing his feelings (duh) I have the same issue, but not to this extent OYYY VEYYYY lol

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
15 Years1,000+ Posts

OFFS. If he is going to be ice cold I would show him the door and let him go ice cold out there.

He's a friggin Aries. In or Out. Right in or Right out.

It's pissing me off and I am not even there. He is a disgrace.

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@beachkisses
16 YearsCancer

hot and cold eh?
you're dealing with an immature Aries. Been there, done that for 2 years. didn't change. get out as soon as you can, and find someone who can handle his own emotions better.