I've been talking to this cap man for almost two months already and as you all know they are soooooo hard to read and such a slow mover! We usually talk on the phone every night and always meet up when he's free but the thing is I have to go abroad to study for a year in less than two weeks so it's gonna be a long distance relationship. We are going to be completely different sides of the world and I didn't expect him to ask me out but he told me that there is a potential for us to be bf/gf....do you guys think it is going to last?? please be honest! Also one of my friends she's a Pisces seems to have an eye on him too, but I feel like she backed out because she doesn't want to ruin our friendship. Do you think there is a possibility that they will get together when I leave? helppppppppp!
Aries and cappy in a long distance relationship?!?

why do people want long distance relationships? i had them when I was a lonely teenager at 14 over the internet, trust me you dont need this, either one of you will end up going left, then one of you will start realizing that, and its over, year is a long time, though you could do it, ive done 2 years but then again i was 14

Honestly, no.
However, if he's one of those decent Caps, he'll be faithful and it COULD work.
BUT given what you said about your friend and that this is so brand new, I don't see it working out. You guys don't even have an established relationship. It's still in the very beginnings of a committed relationship. I could see him straying. I dunno, the only thing that comes to mind is that how do you know that he's not stringing you along? "the potential" for you two to be in a relationship? So he wants you to stay unavailable to others so he can have you.
That's assuming he's one of THOSE types of Caps.
Overall, I don't think it's fair to either of you to tie yourselves up while you're gone when you two haven't even established that relationship. Also, if you're already worried that they will hook up, it says that you don't trust either.
Stay single and maybe agree to revisit the relationship aspect when you get back.
However, if he's one of those decent Caps, he'll be faithful and it COULD work.
BUT given what you said about your friend and that this is so brand new, I don't see it working out. You guys don't even have an established relationship. It's still in the very beginnings of a committed relationship. I could see him straying. I dunno, the only thing that comes to mind is that how do you know that he's not stringing you along? "the potential" for you two to be in a relationship? So he wants you to stay unavailable to others so he can have you.
That's assuming he's one of THOSE types of Caps.
Overall, I don't think it's fair to either of you to tie yourselves up while you're gone when you two haven't even established that relationship. Also, if you're already worried that they will hook up, it says that you don't trust either.
Stay single and maybe agree to revisit the relationship aspect when you get back.

I think its possible post you and his chart btw you mentioned slow how do you move fast over the phone— Caps are known to be slow as this is there way if you want faster how would you want it—
Do Aries and Caps mesh for romantic relatiosnhips? I have Cap. friends and that's all it will ever be. It has nothing to do with their slow moving approach to relationships but the Caps. I know are all wanna be playas male and female. On the outside they are strong grounded loving sweet individuals that gets shit done but on the inside relationship wise for a Ram...hmmmm maybe.

Posted by Love366
Do Aries and Caps mesh for romantic relatiosnhips? I have Cap. friends and that's all it will ever be. It has nothing to do with their slow moving approach to relationships but the Caps. I know are all wanna be playas male and female. On the outside they are strong grounded loving sweet individuals that gets shit done but on the inside relationship wise for a Ram...hmmmm maybe.
This. I think they're cool people and with some, the relationship factor would be ideal if so many weren't all crazy, trying to figure themselves out.
All the ones I know seem to be a bit strange in relationships. Whether they're too clingy/possessive, or they cheat like no other.
Yea! I watch Caps. at a distance because they can be reallll slick. All my female.Cap. friends are clingy with me. Its like I can't have other friends. Love them to pieces but dating a male Cap. I would have to watch him first and for a looooong time before even thinking about a relationship.
On the flip side I admire their sense of humor. Its dry but they are some funny characters. Sometimes I can't tell if they are serious or being funny but hell I laugh anyway. Crazy some can be. I use to sit in the car with my Cap. friend to stalk her bf for hours and I would always ask myself how the hell do I get myself in this mess. Oh goodness lets not start on their nerves. My goodness their nerves are bad. The men too they just hide it well. Deep inside Caps. have a heart and a huge one just getting down through those murky waters is a drag sometimes.
On the flip side I admire their sense of humor. Its dry but they are some funny characters. Sometimes I can't tell if they are serious or being funny but hell I laugh anyway. Crazy some can be. I use to sit in the car with my Cap. friend to stalk her bf for hours and I would always ask myself how the hell do I get myself in this mess. Oh goodness lets not start on their nerves. My goodness their nerves are bad. The men too they just hide it well. Deep inside Caps. have a heart and a huge one just getting down through those murky waters is a drag sometimes.
Posted by xxnightbynight
Caps have no romantic bones to them.. what-so-ever. - I have many girlfriend caps... but I had a FWB relationship with a male Cap... it was hit it and quit it... we were really good friends... had our fun times together... but it was just... weird. - lol
According to many astrologers capricorn is the MOST romantic sign in the zodiac. Odd isn't it when many astrologers ALSO say in the same vein that they're 'cold',ect ect.
but, if you're not on the receiving end of the romantic gesture/private innuenduos you won't openly see it. My cap best friend never showed those parts to us of course, but when a guy she likes showed up, the romance was on. It's funny because you can't even see it happening. It's so SUBTLE....so indirect that it's almost invisible. That is the difference with fire love and earth love, I guess.
but it might depend on how largely their charts are: if its mostly of an element stronger than another.
i dont really see fwb 'romantic' though.
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