Aries and libra

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Mtshali
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So we have like broken up like 3 or 4 times, at first the reason why we broke up is cause I had issues trusting her,thought she wasn't loyal,pissed her off a lot of times but didn't know she had a short temper and didn't really understand me so she ended up dumping me.Days later, I asked for a second chance and she gave me.We dated again,weeks later I mistakenly got on her nerves and she dumped me again.This time she refused to give me a third chance so I ended up sayin this will be the last time,begged her for a third chance and she gave me....sigh,everything was perfect this time and we were really doing good.This time I understood her a little better,I was having a conversation with this other girl yesterday, we were just having a conversation,she say us laughing together,came by slapped the girl and slapped me and told me it's over.She thought I was having a affair but like really I wasn't.I love her a lot, love her so much it hurt.Sorry for writing like this, I'm not feeling okay,I need her in my life, we are crazy and good together and theres no one who makes me happy like her.How can I get her back? ...😢
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Mtshali
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11 Years

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Me and the other girl were having a friendly chat then she saw us together and thought otherwise.Yes I had struggled trusting her cause her personality was kinda bitchy but eventually she opened up to me and I opened up to her.We ended up trusting each other.The problem with her is...she's short temperatured and doesn't really put things into consideration(sometimes) she makes fast decisions
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rockyroadicecream
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The chick is a cunt. Move along, dude.

And she's a Libra. Of course there's insecurity involved. He already said she was bitchy and he had an issue with that. Now she's flipped the script and doesn't trust him?

Nevermind that they've broken up several times.

OP you're one of those tools that will continue on with this dysfunctional relationship until you finally learn. Don't be a dipshit and drop the chick. You two clearly aren't meant to work. Real, working relationships don't go through routine break ups all the time.
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LIb4Life
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So we have like broken up like 3 or 4 times, at first the reason why we broke up is cause I had issues trusting her,thought she wasn't loyal,pissed her off a lot of times but didn't know she had a short temper and didn't really understand me so she ended up dumping me.Days later, I asked for a second chance and she gave me.We dated again,weeks later I mistakenly got on her nerves and she dumped me again.This time she refused to give me a third chance so I ended up sayin this will be the last time,begged her for a third chance and she gave me....sigh,everything was perfect this time and we were really doing good.This time I understood her a little better,I was having a conversation with this other girl yesterday, we were just having a conversation,she say us laughing together,came by slapped the girl and slapped me and told me it's over.She thought I was having a affair but like really I wasn't.I love her a lot, love her so much it hurt.Sorry for writing like this, I'm not feeling okay,I need her in my life, we are crazy and good together and theres no one who makes me happy like her.How can I get her back? ...😢



You guys started out with serious issues..LACK OF TRUST..major part of any relationship, plus, you're an Aries and I know how arrogant you can be and how much you love ego stoking and you probably won't get much of that from your Libra. You said she kept giving you chance after chance and as patience as a Libra can be, that patience will soon run out, plus..what did YOU DO where you thought you needed all these chances? Are you the reason for her insecurity? I know Aries and Libra both have a lot of friends of the opposite sex so maybe there is some JEALOUSY game playing going on, and that's why there is no trust between the both of you. It seems like neither of you are being honest about your feelings and what you really want in the relationship. Also..the hitting thing is a NO GO! I don't condone violence of any kind, but if someone hits me, all bets are off..male or female, you can figure it out from there. I don't know your ages, but if you really need her in your life, then you both need to sit down and have a heart to heart about what you want and expect from each other. If not, then just part ways or you'll continue the yo-yo effect. Good Luck
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Flavia
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This is just not a good match; Breaking up 2-3 times is not a match no matter who it is. Turmoil is turmoil no matter how many times you try to make it bliss. In break up order by what information you published:

1. I have a feeling there is a vulnerability in you that you were not willing to give to this person because you pick up on something within them you did not want to see and thus the first end from your 'trust issues'.

2.How did you 'mistakenly get on her nerves'...that is under explained here

3.Was everything really perfect the third time if you got physically assaulted by her and she was willing to assault another female? And to say 'I love her alot..' this person physically assaulted you and tried to humiliate you in front of some girl they don't know...that could have been a sister, cousin or anyone but instead of just asking slap happy came in...

You need to be happy with you first. Let them go and figure out why physical abuse, emotional turmoil and random blow ups currently equate to love in your mind.