Aries dudes perspective on Aries chicks

Hello male counterparts!
I was just wondering what your perspective is on us Aries chicks! I know to a lot f the other signs, we can be very intimidating and often we really don't mean to be... It's just how we roll with out being aware of what picture we're putting out there. We're often slated as being masculine promiscuous bullies (which is a very hard thing to deal with when ur looking for a partner... Everyone keeps running away from us and it starts affecting our self esteem because we think there's something wrong with us that guys keep running away when in actual fact it's not cuz we're shit that they're bolting.... It's because they're scared! Either of getting hurt emotionally by us because we're too cool for school... Hahaha.... Or because we're a shitload stronger than them -- mentally and emotionally -- and we'd take away their manliness and make them feel like they're our little bitches).

Luckily for us... We're not looking for guys like that and the kind of guys we do want are ones who are as strong and manly as you guys are. Also... You guys like ur ladies to be classy right? How do we rate on that? And do we come across as masculine bullies to you? We don't know how other girls are (except some freakish eye witness accounts of extreme girly girls which just shell shock us with their lack of ability to do anything for or by themselves...) that we end up being perceived as masculine bullies. If you know what I mean....

Plus... If any of you has bedded one of our kind... Is there an immediately noticeable difference between other chicks in bed or what? How are the other girls in bed that makes us look like sexual freaks to other guys? I heard of one chick (clearly NOT Aries) who has never deviated from missionary position and has NEVER given a guy a blowjob. And she's like 27! And she's managed to actually keep boyfriends around for two years. What is it about other chicks sexual behaviour that make us look so wild in bed? I know you guys will understand us because you have the same fire... But other element signs don't understand us and it's also a very frustrating thing to deal with!

i don't know the kind of aries girls that you're describing (the "masculine promiscuous bullies" type. this is news to me lol) so i can't really provide a good insight on that. i don't think i've ever met one of those personally.....and if i did, i'd probably run the other direction because she sounds like a handful lol

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with most of you guys. You're fine just the way you are. 🙂

Posted by Dragalutzi
And if a woman has a way too aggressive style , I don't think she scares any man, she just turns them off.

Personal dig at my aggressive response to your question in my other post logged and stored :p haha
I agree with you there. But in general, I'm only like that when I feel provoked. The rest of the time -- with potential partners anyway -- I think I'm mellow. I'm big on keeping things light and fun, so I don't think it's a case of aggression there.

I say you find out what ole girl sign is and take notes! lmbo!

Its not just her sex game that has the men coming back. I have sooo many aries women in my family and And they all think just like you, that they can boss or scare a man into being submissive or just being the way they want them to be, instead of accepting them for who they are. I don't mean you, but from the way you decribed that post, this just may apply to you. Some aries women, or at least the ones I've met want a strong man, but when they get one, they feel he cant be stronger than them. And I don't mean physically, I mean mentally and emotionally. If he is, she will try everything she can to break down his walls, even get slick at the tongue and boss him just to see if he's really "that" strong. And the most irritating thing about aries women, is they are drama queens! They hate everyone else's drama, oh but you better believe that expect your undivided attention when they have there's. My cousin and my sister are straight up drama queens. They call it, not letting people run over them, I call it making people run away from them, and once its safe they like "What is wrong with them?" Im telling you. Every aries woman I know acts like the world is out to get them and they have to get them first. And a aries woman WILL get you, but OHhhhhh Lord don't try to get her back, she will paint you to be the biggest hurtful meanest, inconsiderate human being on the planet. My aries cousin ask me all the time, am I overreacting,, 99.9% im like YES! NOW CHILL! She argued with her husband about water and cereal! They were in college and she felt it was inconsiderate of him to eat the last of the cereal (food is not cheap in college for those of you who used meal plans, you understand.lol) but she felt it was wrong for him to eat the last without asking her if she wanted it because he specifically bought THAT particular brand for her, and a different brand for himself. She said and I quote "He ate his box, and then ate the last of mines.Just selfish" Personally there's nothing wrong with it bothering her, BUT TO GET INTO A FULL BLOWN ARGUMENT.LOL. I'm telling you, they almost broke up, the argument went on for hours. Oh I laughed a healthy laugh about that. If it were me, I woulda simply gave him the keys and told him to go buy me another box. End of story. They are fun, and silly. I love aries. But drama queens definitely. And the aries men, im in love with one, and believe me the lesson is quite interesting. So far I've got, calm cool, collected, EXTREAMLY

PICKY! was the last word to my last post.lol

Posted by impresswho
LOL, I want to be a guy today and respond. I think I qualify since Aries energy is masculine. Aries women are the shit. IF one woman I want by my side it is a Ram. 😄

Ha ha.. I've been thinking just that today! Like some things have been said and done in the last few days that could impact my life and I've been standing my ground and thinking 'you know, instead of slamming me or trying to screw me over, these people need to realize that I'm gonna own this situation and it'd be far better for them to keep me on their team than to go against me because I will take them all on...and I'mma open up a shitstorm for them too while I'm at it and I'm going to be the winner here!" They don't know how much they'll wish they had me on their team one day.... They'll find out about it, but they're gonna learn the hard way!

We are a force of nature!

So, I was with my scorp for all those years, and since we haven't been together, I have been with no one. So, from a "Personal" perspective, I can't tell you much. On the other hand, I work with three Aries females.

One is just a plain hard ass who glares at me whenever she feels I have annoyed her to much. I can't say I am intimidated, but I do try to respect her space. I also respect her judgment, and listen when she has something to tell me.

A second is indeed a total Drama Queen. I pretty much despise this bitch. Just a plain awful person, you see.

The third is really sweet and caring. She can make even a worn out old dufus such as myself melt when she cares to.

So, it would seem that Aries females come in the usual female varieties. Imagine that.....

Haha... Dofacc, what line of work are you in that you ended up being four Aries in one spot? I'm sure between the four of you there is never a dull moment!

I ain't gonna tell ya' where I work, so there.

Actually, now that I think about it just a minute more, there is yet another Aries female. She is very sweet and caring to. Her birthday is on the 8th, mine is in the 7th. And actually, that one Aries female I truly despise was born on the 7th, also.

I have to say, I do have a soft spot for the sweet Aries ladies. They just pat me on the head and send me on my way, but a guy can dream, now can't he.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
This all sounds like insecurities. Again, looking at external stimuli and people for your happiness....

I posted this a while ago... When i had cabin fever and was living in the garage on vacation remember...— I'm not feeling insecure anymore. I took your advice 😄 haha

In fact... I'm very much in the midst of high self esteem month! 2012 has been epic so far! I'm having a ball, I'm getting out there, being active... I feel like I got my fire back and feel great!

How is yew blue? How was ur Xmas and new year? You been quiet lately. You been busy lady?

Posted by Dragalutzi
can you write small brief questions please?
I don't think many aries boys around here have the patience to read that much. 😛

lol true i skimmed,

anyway umm i dont know how but i get really really really cool around aries chicks, not cool cool but cool like very comfortable, i can be myself. They are freaks but they arent sluts, these are different things, and mainly the difference between aries freak and for example scorpio/libra freak, is unlike these two, aries aren't sluts, my friends sister is an aries and at her highschool a guy who was the best football player there, ANY girl would fukc with him, he'd throw crazy parties, he asked her out and she said "no thanks im not interested" and then he goes "do you know who i am?" and she said to him "yes i do and im not interested" so you see they look for something THEY want not be a fukc doll because the guy is ripped hot. Yes aries are big freaks they are so nice and polite and pretty but so freaking kinky!! you know like you sometimes can have conversations with your partner about sexual things once u get to know each other well and etc. with aries girl you do it right offff my ex from HS kept asking me to buy her a freaking kitty tail butt plug! and crazier thing she would wear it when shes out, of coarse she kept it in but the thought that u have something in ur butt exited her.
she found her moms lesbian porn, told me the name of it, i had to watch it then tell her about it.. her mom is bisexual and my ex was too so that stuff would turn her on as well. I also like how you aries girls are comfortable around us to make like stupid sounds or faces or maybe ur comfy doing that around other ppl its just anther ting i mentioned

@blue: ummmm.... Well.... I'm still in Africa for now. Looking at visiting England during the southern hemisphere's winter/northern hemisphere's summer. I'm freelancing at the moment too. It's building up nicely and in a way I feel like its what I'm meant to be doing because I believe when you're doing what ur meant to be doing its easy and all the cards will just fall into place. It will give me more freedom to travel more and do more of what I love rather than being stuck inside a bland office all day every day with a boss breathing down my neck!
Self discipline is something I need to work on though in order to make sure I'm successful at making my dream come true, so internally that's where I'm at in my self at the moment. Other than that... Been seeing loads of my good friends and re establishing friendships from before I left to start living around the world and that has been great! I forgot just how much I love my friends here in SA!
Been riding my board and learning new tricks too, which has been great for my self confidence!

I'm quite content with where I'm at right now, even though my original plans fell through! Lucky I'm a flexible person and not a rigid who breaks if life doesn't go according to plan.

@ king of Aries: I like what you said 🙂

Posted by ALibra
Its not just her sex game that has the men coming back. I have sooo many aries women in my family and And they all think just like you, that they can boss or scare a man into being submissive or just being the way they want them to be, instead of accepting them for who they are. I don't mean you, but from the TO GET INTO A FULL BLOWN ARGUMENT.LOL. I'm telling you, they almost broke up, the argument went on for hours. Oh I laughed a healthy laugh about that. If it were me, I woulda simply gave him the keys and told him to go buy me another box. End of story. They are fun, and silly. I love aries. But drama queens definitely. And the aries men, im in love with one, and believe me the lesson is quite interesting. So far I've got, calm cool, collected, EXTREAMLY

Comin' in a tad bit late--but YUCK! This woman describes to me, a Capricorn. However, I will agree with you on the 'no one is stronger,' and I honestly believe it true--not by my own delusion, but every man, woman, student, etc. has told me.Thus, others have fueled this heroic strength I have--not only do I feel it, but it gets magnified. I love earth and if anything, I'm out to get it more than I'll ever feel it's out to get me. I do not like drama or gossip, so I wonder when your sister and cousin's birthday is and in what tier they fall. Also, when an Aries is BORED, they will create conversation because sometimes, white noise is mental suicide for us, especially when people are around. Two Aries women together is like heaven--we get to unleash something magical and it's intense. I suggest being one-on one instead of familial situations--haha! Sometimes we can't though. I used to be like this with my Aries cousin, until she became bridezilla and wrote me off--she's an April Aries. I wonder if your sister and cousin are too?

Aries love to race in where angels fear to tread.

Oh dear. And how much trouble do we pretend doesn't happen when we do this. 😉

Posted by jdugan

Aries love to race in where angels fear to tread.

Oh dear. And how much trouble do we pretend doesn't happen when we do this. 😉

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I like to think of it as a challenge of seeing how much fun it is getting out of it. When I was a kid my mom used to tell me I knew the difference between right and wrong but I'd choose the more dangerous path just to see how much fun it was getting myself out of the situation I'd got myself into. Haha... It's true though. We know it may cause shit for us but the less dangerous way is boring. We know that outcome! We don't know what will happen if we choose the 'wrong' thing. So we do it to see what happens and it's a challenge getting ourselves back into a safer place.

Male counterpart here, dated an Aries woman for 7 years. Reason for breakup was she wasn’t a team player, won’t go into all that. Definitely very volatile relationship, amazing sex, can end up having massive arguments and smashing up the place, but happy a few seconds later and out at a nice restaurant, neither hold grudges. Also worked with a lot of Aries men and women, and I go to dance events, which seems to attract a lot of Aries (and Libras). Also do gym 6 hours a week, somehow meet Aries women there too. I’d actually consider myself to be an expert on Aries women. (Fire signs always attract each other anyway) Also dated Libra women, the opposite, so definitely differences stand out to me.

Aries are passionate, direct, persuasive, courageous, honest, they have little patience, they live for the moment. With all this they can obviously come across as being a bit of a bully. I don’t think any star sign has any particularly bad traits, (it’s just you can’t have one without the other) There’s a fine line between being passionate/forceful and being a bully, Aries can use this ability for others, they can certainly stick up for themselves and other women. They can be very forceful in encouraging people to do things. Aries women are powerful in the business world because of this, and make good leaders.

Aries women in bed, it’s good for an Aries guy, definitely on the same wavelength. I think they think about sex like a guy does. When it comes to your 27 yr old friend, yeah I just think some people are boring in bed, I’m shocked when guys at work tell me about their wives, I’m like “I’d get a divorce”, and I’m not even joking! Life is short and sex is good, some other star signs don’t think about it like us (I’ve also been shocked by some of the posts on this forum about sex). Aries are good crazy in bed, but it’s kind of like, yeah she wants it hardcore, and trying to have a romantic dinner before that would just be a pointless waste of time, like how a guy might think? I think Libra women are the best in bed, because it’s crazy good plus sexy and romantic, with Aries it’s like crazy good plus “let’s kill each other through sex?”

Aries men don’t find bossy Aries women a problem, they can handle it, they appreciate the honesty and like women who are decisive and know what they want, communication is good. I can stand up to Aries women, no problem. I’ve often thought Aries men are the best chance for the Aries woman to have a good relationship, you are sick of indecisive guys right?

I think the problem is the masculine energy, Aries women are the most extreme when it comes to masculine energy, they have more than the Aries men. Aries men like a lady, so it’s difficult. I don’t think Aries woman are classy, maybe they can wear clothes well but not usually. Rather than waiting for a guy to impress them, which I think would be classy, they are asking the guy out.

Aries women can have very masculine body language. They can square off (look like they want to start throwing punches). Most of what anyone says is actually body language, like 90% is, so if you aren’t aware of this then this might be why you’re intimidating guys. Men are not worried about emotion damage, they don’t think like that, they would be worried if a woman was looking like “go out with me or I’ll put you in hospital” (I’m not talking about how a lesbian might wear men’s clothes, that’s something else, it’s not anything like that, Aries women have good taste, it’s just I think dress sizes somehow don’t usually fit Aries women, it looks like it isn’t even the Aries woman’s fault, you know if you have this?).

Everyone has a mix of masculine/feminine energy, and there are techniques to identify the fem energy in you. In short, it can depend on how close you are with your mum (not necessarily other women). The Aries I was with for 7 years was raised by her dad, so it really meant she couldn’t identify with her feminine energy, because the same energy would have been in her mum, hopefully this makes sense.

But one of my Aries friends from dancing, I love it, because she saw this dance teacher, and I think he’s gay, but she said she’d get him. She somehow persuaded him to let her teach the dance classes with him, but she took over the dance classes, and started telling him what to do, so she’d explain the next move to the class, which would be like so now the guy grabs the girl’s leg, and it was because she wanted him to grab her leg. Then now, it’s not even his class anymore, she took over. Somehow she ditched him and took his customers, she found another guy to teach with, and the classes are funny, she has this catchphrase “the woman is always right”, and other women love doing her class. Just seems like it could only be an Aries woman that could do this.

If you want to travel, as an Aries, then Havana is where you wanna be!

Posted by AriesJo
Male counterpart here, dated an Aries woman for 7 years. Reason for breakup was she wasn’t a team player, won’t go into all that. Definitely very volatile relationship, amazing sex, can end up having massive arguments and smashing up the place, but happy a few seconds later and out at a nice restaurant, neither hold grudges. Also worked with a lot of Aries men and women, and I go to dance events, which seems to attract a lot of Aries (and Libras). Also do gym 6 hours a week, somehow meet Aries women there too. I’d actually consider myself to be an expert on Aries women. (Fire signs always attract each other anyway) Also dated Libra women, the opposite, so definitely differences stand out to me.

Aries are passionate, direct, persuasive, courageous, honest, they have little patience, they live for the moment. With all this they can obviously come across as being a bit of a bully. I don’t think any star sign has any particularly bad traits, (it’s just you can’t have one without the other) There’s a fine line between being passionate/forceful and being a bully, Aries can use this ability for others, they can certainly stick up for themselves and other women. They can be very forceful in encouraging people to do things. Aries women are powerful in the business world because of this, and make good leaders.

Aries women in bed, it’s good for an Aries guy, definitely on the same wavelength. I think they think about sex like a guy does. When it comes to your 27 yr old friend, yeah I just think some people are boring in bed, I’m shocked when guys at work tell me about their wives, I’m like “I’d get a divorce”, and I’m not even joking! Life is short and sex is good, some other star signs don’t think about it like us (I’ve also been shocked by some of the posts on this forum about sex). Aries are good crazy in bed, but it’s kind of like, yeah she wants it hardcore, and trying to have a romantic dinner before that would just be a pointless waste of time, like how a guy might think? I think Libra women are the best in bed, because it’s crazy good plus sexy and romantic, with Aries it’s like crazy good plus “let’s kill each other through sex?”

Aries men don’t find bossy Aries women a problem, they can handle it, they appreciate the honesty and like women who are decisive and know what they want, communication is good. I can stand up to Aries women, no problem. I’ve often thought Aries men are the best chance for the Aries woman to have a good relationship, you are sick of indecisive guys right?

I think the problem is the masculine energy, Aries women are the most extreme when it comes to masculine energy, they have more than the Aries men. Aries men like a lady, so it’s difficult. I don’t think Aries woman are classy, maybe they can wear clothes well but not usually. Rather than waiting for a guy to impress them, which I think would be classy, they are asking the guy out.

Aries women can have very masculine body language. They can square off (look like they want to start throwing punches). Most of what anyone says is actually body language, like 90% is, so if you aren’t aware of this then this might be why you’re intimidating guys. Men are not worried about emotion damage, they don’t think like that, they would be worried if a woman was looking like “go out with me or I’ll put you in hospital” (I’m not talking about how a lesbian might wear men’s clothes, that’s something else, it’s not anything like that, Aries women have good taste, it’s just I think dress sizes somehow don’t usually fit Aries women, it looks like it isn’t even the Aries woman’s fault, you know if you have this?).

Everyone has a mix of masculine/feminine energy, and there are techniques to identify the fem energy in you. In short, it can depend on how close you are with your mum (not necessarily other women). The Aries I was with for 7 years was raised by her dad, so it really meant she couldn’t identify with her feminine energy, because the same energy would have been in her mum, hopefully this makes sense.

But one of my Aries friends from dancing, I love it, because she saw this dance teacher, and I think he’s gay, but she said she’d get him. She somehow persuaded him to let her teach the dance classes with him, but she took over the dance classes, and started telling him what to do, so she’d explain the next move to the class, which would be like so now the guy grabs the girl’s leg, and it was because she wanted him to grab her leg. Then now, it’s not even his class anymore, she took over. Somehow she ditched him and took his customers, she found another guy to teach with, and the classes are funny, she has this catchphrase “the woman is always right”, and other women love doing her class. Just seems like it could only be an Aries woman that could do this.

If you want to travel, as an Aries, then Havana is where you wanna be!

lol i am not sure how i feel about all you said. kinda right and kinda not. but it was really good. never been with a aries guy so i dont know if that part is true about aries guys being able to handle an aries woman.