rainbow33
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aries ex contacted me.
Aries are people of action, even if they're naturally passive.
If he was interested in a relationship, he would have been more fast paced and proactive.
I'd say you wait and see. If he wants something, even friendship, he'll call you. No need to worry and think about it or take the initiative.
If he was interested in a relationship, he would have been more fast paced and proactive.
I'd say you wait and see. If he wants something, even friendship, he'll call you. No need to worry and think about it or take the initiative.
I dont think he wanted to be in a relationship in the beginning. He probably just went along with you but then later regretted it.
It sounded like he jumped ship and let the relationship fizzle out, but he realized he may have made a mistake and is trying to get your attention again. It seems like he's stringing you along, though, if he isn't making that much of an effort to see you.
Posted by losemybreathalright, thanks for you comment. I shall just wait & see how 🙂
Aries are people of action, even if they're naturally passive.
If he was interested in a relationship, he would have been more fast paced and proactive.
I'd say you wait and see. If he wants something, even friendship, he'll call you. No need to worry and think about it or take the initiative.
Posted by busyeyes88Hi Busyeyes, Thanks for commenting, true, been trying to move on.. Just that every time I decide to move on, something just have to appear or I'll receive a text from him.. :/
I say don't wait around... He has split up with you.. Just keep it moving... Something better is out there!
Posted by DMVHaha, maybe. appreciate for reading and giving your opinion. 🙂
I dont think he wanted to be in a relationship in the beginning. He probably just went along with you but then later regretted it.
Posted by SoldierOfMarsYea, idk him. His insta has been posting emo quotes. M trying not to read too much about the quote he post or likes. Anyway, His bday is coming & he's inviting me over.. So M kinda confuse bout what he wants. 😢 Thanks for reading btw! 🙂
It sounded like he jumped ship and let the relationship fizzle out, but he realized he may have made a mistake and is trying to get your attention again. It seems like he's stringing you along, though, if he isn't making that much of an effort to see you.
Posted by babygurlHi babygurl! My chart: Moon - Pisces, Mercury, Venus & Mar - Sagittarius.
Oh shit just screw that I read your last post first and tbh not your first one.. screw him sounds like he's not that into you but why.. caps are awesome. Anyway
Can you give us your placements for clarity..
Maybe you're just too safe.. idk. Your chart will really help to show what will work out for you and how things may go between you both.
Apart form that he sounds like a douche. They like to be players anyway.. if you know his moon sign venus and mars that could really help as well.
All the best fellow Cap lady.
Anw, Idk his chart, need to know the timing he was born to know his chart? Haha.
I shall ask him and update you again, Thanks for reading 😄 I don't think he's player.. He even ask my opinion on how he should celebrate his bday? He has two ideas in mind.
No worries bout spamming, haha. Thanks for reading, appreciated much! 🙂
Have you considered he may just be looking for a quick fling between you two?
My hope isn't to offend you, of course. But if you two have done the deed, then since it's already happened, he could see it as easier than talking to a new girl for similar results. Even if you haven't, the fact that you guys have gotten closer is still that much further than zero. Which could explain why he doesn't look like he's putting effort into seeing you: he's not hoping to put much effort in to begin with.
Sadly, though, we Aries can set our desires toward quick-and-easy self-gratification too often.
Also, the Mars and Venus sign are easier to tell than stuff that requires exact time of birth like the Moon sign. However, for signs that DO require time, just try it at 1 AM and then do another at 11PM and see where the change is. Most of the time when I look it up it ends up being the same, or it's most likely one unless they were born at like 3AM, which is always a possibility but not likely.
My hope isn't to offend you, of course. But if you two have done the deed, then since it's already happened, he could see it as easier than talking to a new girl for similar results. Even if you haven't, the fact that you guys have gotten closer is still that much further than zero. Which could explain why he doesn't look like he's putting effort into seeing you: he's not hoping to put much effort in to begin with.
Sadly, though, we Aries can set our desires toward quick-and-easy self-gratification too often.
Also, the Mars and Venus sign are easier to tell than stuff that requires exact time of birth like the Moon sign. However, for signs that DO require time, just try it at 1 AM and then do another at 11PM and see where the change is. Most of the time when I look it up it ends up being the same, or it's most likely one unless they were born at like 3AM, which is always a possibility but not likely.
I'm an Aries guy and I go after what I want and make every effort to make it happen. Although, when I realize it's a lost cause, I usually cut my losses and disappear. We Aries want to be number one in your eyes, if we're not, our egos get hurt. Tell him how you feel and what you want. If he really wants you, he'll get over it quick and you two can move forward. The gift is a sign that he hasn't let go yet. Good luck
Posted by mtbtioHi mtbtio, Thanks for sharing. Yes, I did consider if I should just tell him how I feel & what I want. As both of us arent that type who play game. I actually wrote letters to him while we are tgt, just didnt have a chance to pass it to him. I'm thinking if I should pass it to him & see how he reacts? Or should I just write another letter about how I feel & pass it to him? He seem holding back, I think is because he feels that he can’t commit in an r/s now? He prefers dating? :/ Just dont want to do anything that will backfire. Thanks again🙂
I'm an Aries guy and I go after what I want and make every effort to make it happen. Although, when I realize it's a lost cause, I usually cut my losses and disappear. We Aries want to be number one in your eyes, if we're not, our egos get hurt. Tell him how you feel and what you want. If he really wants you, he'll get over it quick and you two can move forward. The gift is a sign that he hasn't let go yet. Good luck
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